To add to this thread, a pretty but not especially sexy girl (very slim and pale) began my dance class this week and I've been teasing her, c*cky-funny comments, displaying group value by singing and sharing classy songs with everyone, and of course, dancing with her ("you're a good teacher" she said). Last night we were all at a rustic dance-restaurant affair in the boondocks, and through conversation I realized we have very little in common. She clearly likes our instructor (he's six-three, ripped to shreds and a professional dance champion) as whilst she didn't resist my kino, she freely initiated it with him. I demostrated further value by casually buying my friends, including her, a round with a big banknote, which widened her eyes. We didn't dance as much as I'm still a novice and shy on the floor.
Cutting to the chase; towards the end of the evening I told her she was an interesting person despite not liking Nutella (whilst I helped myself to Nutella pizza) and that we should hang-out,. "We'll see" she said, walking away. She pretty much ignored me after that; we shared the back of our instructor's car on the way back to class where our own cars were parked, and she was buried in her phone. I made sure to ignore her and lower the armrest between us. She left without saying goodbye. She likes walking as do I; I'll treat her exactly the same as before for the next week's lessons and if she's receptive, tell her to come for a walk with me somewhere scenic next Sunday. If she isn't game, I won't even bother getting her number or adding her on FB. The trick of course is to treat her the same way as before without any awkwardness, something one needs to learn to do through practice and experience.
