So what are women's complaints?

[R.U.G.]

I wish we could have kept this thread on point per the OP's original question. Pages 1-2 of this thread were very good. Then, no offense @bigdave17, but it turned into your group therapy session...again.

 

[flowtheory]

With all due and undue respect to BeExcellent and flowtheory, I think that it's a bit jaded for a man to have to A, B, C, D and E just to get the time of day with an attractive woman these days. BeExcellent, I have the same tenants as you, and some of the single (and not single) brothers also get more pus than toilet paper; especially my lower income ones. However, most men, who have the good job, look crisp with their threads, have a popping pad nice car, and can provide STILL have issues with the women. Both are a bit delusional if you think that is the norm.

You want to know the problem which is actually BACKED by surveys and facts? Okay, here it goes. WOMEN ARE NEVER SATISFIED!!! They are always looking or the next level up. I have a 6-6-6 (six figure income, six ft tall, 6 inch d!ck) man. Nope, now I want a millionaire. Nope.. Now I want a multi-millionaire. With all the dating apps and social media, they are NEVER satisfied. NEVER. Any man with a lick of assets or the potential to make bank would make a huge mistake in investing in any relationship with a modern woman. This has been proven by so many people. Some links below.

These were all good videos. Very illuminating.

That sandman guys voice though! I’ve heard his stuff before and just can’t take it

 

[bigdave17]

You see how you place your own boundaries on things? These are the only three places to meet women and none of them are good for meeting women. Of course you don't try when that's all you tell yourself. You can meet women anywhere at any time.

absolutely, if you live in new york city

Living in the suburbs, I see women my age only at those 2 or 3 places, otherwise it's all old people and families. I don't see hot 25 year old women at grocery stores for example, it's all old soccer moms. Suburbs is ****ing horrible for single men my age but I'm stuck here, I can't move

You would do fine on OLD if you just dropped the outcome investment. I'm less attractive, less wealthy and less stylish than you and I went on dates with doctors, law students, managers. But you need to treat it as fun, not an interview.

so how do I see man after man after man after man, many of whom are actually good looking and do well with women in real life, who tell me that online dating is totally impossible and that you have to go after women 3 or 4 points below you to get dates??

Tons of guys I talk to who are 6-8s tell me they don't get dates online unless they go after 3-4/10 women with kids/who are fat

 

[bigdave17]

No. You have a toxic view towards your self... see below...

you're not understanding my point

I don't assume that an attractive girl will dislike me because I'm a piece of sh*t

I assume that she will dislike me because she has completely impossible standards and has no interest in talking to anybody

 

[bigdave17]

That they are only valued for looks. Us guys have a HUUUUUUUUGE advantage over girls. Guys have complete control over our dating life (for those complaining about LMS you’re just a loser who can’t control his life). Girls have to usually submit to their looks. They can go to the gym and eat well but it will only do so much for a girl who is really ugly. They are also swayed by their emotion so they have little control over their lives (generalization, but let’s be real

why is this nonsense still spouted??

I care just as much about character, intelligence, etc... in my potential partner as women do in men

I really want a GF who will be comparable to my male best friends

 

[bigdave17]

Lmao okay. If you are saying you don’t want to get the most attractive partner (obviously that includes character and intelligence but also looks) you are lying to yourself hahaha

and women don't want the most attractive partner?

go making a dating profile with a guy who looks like Chris Hemsworth and one as Jason Alexander and see who gets more replies

 

[The Duke]

Here on this site, I see all the gripes.
So is there like a bunch of girls out there complaining that their dudes are not making moves on them? Too beta?
Or not at all, and a lot of girls are laughing to the bank?
I mean, I know there's a lot that complain about just being sexed, but they both wanted it. So...

Just what do chicks need to complain about anyways?
They got jobs, TV, social media, gyms, dudes fawning over them, freaking vibrators that do the most, etc

Here's what I read on several Bumble profiles last night as I was swiping myself to sleep:

-Narcissistic Men(The girls that complain about guy's being Narc's always come across a little gold digger-ish)
-Guys don't communicate.
-Guys won't commit.
-Guys aren't putting in much effort when it comes to dating.


I think the last 2 are pure greatness! Keep up the good work gentlemen! Men are doing something right.

 

[_sideways_]

I think we have enough characters in this thread alone for a prime time comedy reality show that millions across the globe would wait every week in anticipation to see.

+1 for Sosuave

Yea dude. They hijacked my thread.
What do you think is a real complaint women have?

 

[guru1000]

Yea dude. They hijacked my thread.
What do you think is a real complaint women have?

Outside of exclusivity, women only complain about men they don't like. Take the same behavior from an attractive man, and they'll rationalize it.

Accordingly, I don't care about their complaints.

 

[Spidah]

Western bitches have impossible standards because weak ass betas keep trying to make women happy.

Don't you guys get it? Stop trying to make these bitches happy. Stop it. Treat them like shyt. Take their ego down a few notches.

Bitches who have low self image won't have this high and mighty entitled attitude you see everywhere.

Most beta males would jump in front of a freight train before they would say a mean word to a trifling woman.

 

[flowtheory]

you're not understanding my point

I don't assume that an attractive girl will dislike me because I'm a piece of sh*t

I assume that she will dislike me because she has completely impossible standards and has no interest in talking to anybody

That’s your projection on to her. Because you’re already thinking that before you’ve even talked to her. Your beliefs are working against you. And your beliefs turn in to habits of thinking and then doing, or not doing.

 

[_sideways_]

Big Dave's problem Is hes not fun.
You're boring bro. No amount of great traits will make you cool enough to get to know or even talk to if you're such a bore.

 

[_sideways_]

Outside of exclusivity, women only complain about men they don't like. Take the same behavior from an attractive man, and they'll rationalize it.

Accordingly, I don't care about their complaints.

They don't like? Or don't respect? I get it tho. He beats me cuz he had a bad childhood too, so its OK

Exclusivity? She still gets to be with him. Selfishness?

 

[R.U.G.]

So you pick a woman who is satisfied with you. Simple. I see couples where the woman is satisfied, happy, pleased to have her man. It's the happy clause, just like I use in real estate to avoid pain in the ass renters.

"You don't seem happy. You are welcome to go elsewhere."

Simple.

You're funny. Good luck for a man finding a woman who is satisfied long term. Ain't happening. Hence, a man needs a harem or stable.

I’ll have to take a look at these vids later when I have wifi. However, you’re right. Women are never satisfied. And may never will be.

But we can’t stack that idea against ourselves and be like ‘there’s no point because she’s always going to want the next level’. There’s a little bit of nihilism in that idea, for me.
I would argue that’s just human nature - everyone wants the next step - especially taking in to account social media and heavy comparison these days because of that.

However... if you don’t want that type of person, do not go for that type of person. People are always seeing things they want. Is anyone ever truly satisfied?
I think that’s where finding someone and looking within yourself is key, who is spiritually sound. to me that’s vital. someone who is grateful for what they do have. Even if it’s just a roof, bed, and a can of soup. But if you go for women who don’t know gratitude or show appreciation and are just out there for the stars and yours, then that’s a hell of a ride.

Have to choose the right woman. They’re not all like our exes who made us have an empty perspective on relationships.

Be someone worth dating and quit dating women who are chronic complainers. How hard is that really?

Go date, you'll see. You're a little blue pilled there my friend. You need some red pills. No worries, I gotcha.

This is just funny, but all to common.

 

[flowtheory]

Go date, you'll see. You're a little blue pilled there my friend. You need some red pills. No worries, I gotcha.

This is just funny, but all to common.

I’m a little blue pilled?

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

great questions here


4)Do I need a woman in my life? The rest of my life is perfect but I've wanted a GF now for 14 years to no avail. I wish I had a GF, would I say I NEED it? No, I need food and air. Nobody needs a GF. If I ever meet anybody, I don't expect it to radically change my life...it will just give me something I've wanted for 14 years. I'm not in that boat of guys who have sh*tty awful lives who think that a GF would somehow change everything. I'm just wanting someone to add to my life, not to be my life
5)Do I have any doubts about my value? no I think I would be a fantastic partner. I just don't ever get the opportunity

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

why is this nonsense still spouted??

I care just as much about character, intelligence, etc... in my potential partner as women do in men

I really want a GF who will be comparable to my male best friends

Perhaps you have an essentially religious character. Why not check out the women at the local orthodox churches? The more conservative the better. Not being facetious.

 

[Toddz]

Women will complain about everything and anything.

This is where you have to mentally mute them. So when you listen to women complaining you're not really listening.

Chess not checkers

 

[_sideways_]

That was my point.
There's nothing really wrong with their lives.
Sorry, its like I discovered America.

 

[R.U.G.]

I’m a little blue pilled?

With that statement a few pages ago, it seemed a bit. Just pointing out what I read. Re-read your post.