So This Little Girl

[BrainDamage92]

So I meet her at a club we make out all night but then she made me wait too long so I went away and didnt sleep with her in her hotel. Shes 18, and nicely developed for her age, I'm 23.


Next day she contacts blah blah fast forward I go to the place she works (a little restaurant on the beach) and spend some time there everything seems good. I told her I'm free on Sunday and will contact her. I was thinking a little summer adventure couse she goes to study in another city in september.


Yesterday I write to her in facebook no response yet. She doesnt have a boyfriend or so she claims. Even if she was busy (till midnight ye sure) she could have written 1 line or smth. So wtf is going on? I'm thinking of sayin "Nice knowing you" or smth if she contacts, **** wtf is wrong with girls getting more fuked up with every generation, girls who are older then me always make it easy who does this kid think she is? Or its something with youngsters that I dont understand lol?

The way I see it, she used me for company at the club and now would like another orbiter or smth. What does your IL meters tell you couse mine is abit cunfused?

 

[BrainDamage92]

She's an 18 year old attention wh0re. Don't even bother saying anything.

She'll wonder why you're not drooling all over her like every other guy she's ever met.

I was thinking the same.

1st - her facebook full of commenting orbiter kiddos

2nd - she mentions everyone around her is tangled up in drama, after which I insisted thats its only logical she creates the drama if the case is such, to which she agreed in the end.

3rd - I asked her when did she become so pretty, and took a guess it was an year ago and now shes playing with the pretty package - to which she agreed again.

4th - she used to have weight problems or so she claims (=low self esteem)

5th - her mother seems like an old ho, her father is a sailor and absent

Yeah, now I'm thinking a neighbour girl (26 y old) hit me up on the same day so I kinda blew her off just to go meet this kid. The 26 y old is always all over me, I could be fuking her while her chump is at work but no,

I just have this terrible issue of being picky and sometimes I'm amazed at my own stupidity.

 

[WanderingMan]

Next day she contacts blah blah fast forward I go to the place she works (a little restaurant on the beach) and spend some time there everything seems good.

Why did you go to the place she works? What was in it for you?

Yesterday I write to her in facebook no response yet.

Why did you do this? And, are you friends with her on facebook? Why?

So wtf is going on?

You've failed her **** tests so now she's not interested. You are no one special to her, you're just like all the rest.

I'm thinking of sayin "Nice knowing you" or smth if she contacts

Why? To show her how butt hurt you are?

who does this kid think she is?

Someone with a lot of options who constantly needs to weed out the beta males.

The way I see it, she used me for company at the club and now would like another orbiter or smth. What does your IL meters tell you couse mine is abit cunfused?

Her IL was probably high at that time. But since then you've put her on the pedestal and fallen back into beta ways. Example: I was thinking a little summer adventure couse she goes to study in another city in september.

 

[gravityeyelids]

Get better leads man. In my experience, rando girls you meet in the bar are the single most difficult group to follow up with. Think about it: as smooth as you think you are, you're simply another guy she drunkenly made out with at the bar.

And Why, Oh Why would you ever contact a chick via Facebook before you've banged her? You shouldn't even be friending her on FB before you bang her.

And yea, 18 year olds don't know what the hell they want. They're skittish like those fvcking rare pokemon in blue version. You have to be super laid back and basically ignore them

 

[BrainDamage92]

Get better leads man. In my experience, rando girls you meet in the bar are the single most difficult group to follow up with. Think about it: as smooth as you think you are, you're simply another guy she drunkenly made out with at the bar.

And Why, Oh Why would you ever contact a chick via Facebook before you've banged her? You shouldn't even be friending her on FB before you bang her.

And yea, 18 year olds don't know what the hell they want. They're skittish like those fvcking rare pokemon in blue version. You have to be super laid back and basically ignore them

Well she insisted and added me. I accepted when I got back home. She called me 2ce and texted aswell in the 2 days after. Then I went with a bud to the place she works at for some fish and chips and it was a "legit" date since there were no customers we talked about **** and stuff and this is where I read her and saw some things I strongly dislike. And then yesterday I say "hi" and a day later still no response. I would normally consider it a failed ONS, but her interest continued and was apparent so... Anyway I deleted her from FB and wont contact again.


Its either the fact I kissed her in front of her boss (I just extended an arm for a shake all polite an ****, but she said she wants a hug, so I hugged her and gave her a kiss on the cheek\neck. Then she said something like: "Not so obvious". Girls... I was like "Whatever, cya"


Basically a girl with many complexes who recently got some sweet looks and so her ego is both inflated and fake. This is what I read from talking to her. And there are many other red flags, like the fact she makes out with strangers at clubs lol. I saw a perspective for an adventure, couse honestly she has these amazing soft big lips but hey...

They get worse with every generation. Back to girls who are slightly older than me, prefferebly with long time boyfriends

EDIT: Ahahhaha I went on FB just now, and apparently 10 mins after me removing her from friendlist she responded to my yesterday's message which was "sup" or smth with "nothing much Im going to work". It still boggles my mind how can this girl expect me to buy into the same crap she hooks boys her age with when Im 5 y older. She hasnt been gamed before or what? Anyway on to the next one. The more I interact with women the more I think "do they believe themselves?". Maybe most men are plain retarded idk maybe its our fault.

 

[Infern0]

So I meet her at a club we make out all night but then she made me wait too long so I went away and didnt sleep with her in her hotel. Shes 18, and nicely developed for her age, I'm 23.


Next day she contacts blah blah fast forward I go to the place she works (a little restaurant on the beach) and spend some time there everything seems good. I told her I'm free on Sunday and will contact her. I was thinking a little summer adventure couse she goes to study in another city in september.


Yesterday I write to her in facebook no response yet. She doesnt have a boyfriend or so she claims. Even if she was busy (till midnight ye sure) she could have written 1 line or smth. So wtf is going on? I'm thinking of sayin "Nice knowing you" or smth if she contacts, **** wtf is wrong with girls getting more fuked up with every generation, girls who are older then me always make it easy who does this kid think she is? Or its something with youngsters that I dont understand lol?

The way I see it, she used me for company at the club and now would like another orbiter or smth. What does your IL meters tell you couse mine is abit cunfused?

I'm not confused at all.

1) when she contacted you initially you went to her work when you should have made a DATE.

2) you then said you'd contact her = you are the chaser = you gave your power away.

At this point you've torpedoed yourself right out of the gate, but let's move on.

3) you contact her on Facebook (what part about chasing girls who have options guarantees failure do people not understand) and because you are insecure and weak, you get butthurt because she doesn't contact you in ONE DAY

Let that resonate. ....

4) now you are considering letting her know you are butthurt by sending a butthurt message. She can then show said message to all her friends and have a laugh at you castrating yourself.

I'm also laughing at "she used me" I mean, good lord.

With your attitude, and pathetic game this girl was right to next you.

So you have two choices, learn from your mistakes, or listen to the people who are feeding this "she's an AW!!!!" In which case pm me her Facebook and I'll take it from here.

Upto you.

 

[averagehero1]

Hi man,

Yeah I was in a similar situation a few weeks ago.

I'm 27 - got in contact with a woman (22), chatting away - organised a date, banged her on the second date. Played it cool, we both went our separate ways - she sends me a text for my birthday, we get chatting. She flakes on meeting up, says she's busy. Fine says I and I initiate NC because I offered.

So that's my story, but yeah it's a generational thing. My woman in question for example has a TON of beta orbiters on FB. She adds people at the drop of a hat (added me fairly quick-ish too!). She travelled over the past year or so and has men from literally the other side of the world commenting on her page and "liking" her photos all the time.

My point is women nowadays (particularly good looking women) have men chasing them. A lot of them below the age of 25 don't even want to hear of the word "relationship" and why would they?

A lot of young women are will have a ONS and then move on, constantly looking for what can give them the best status/wealth/attention at that point in time. And after that guess what - they'll move on again.

Like me, you probably chased a little bit eagerly a bit too early and with the brainwashing that young women are exposed to nowadays, she felt that it was enough to "next" you.

Learn from your mistakes, better yourself and move on my good man.

 

[pyros]

she made out with you.. ok. Now she is not very interested, it is not that difficult to understand. Every weekend she goes to a club she can make out with almost any guy there, so you're nothing special to her. Maybe you were guy number three that night, brush your teeth lol.

Anyway, she ignores your message for one day and you delete her from your fb friendlist? ...ok...a bit too butthurt but ok, she was not into you anyway.