So this is where I stand.

[Royal Ace]

I really never had problem relating with people, getting new friends. Talking to girls is as easy as talking to a guy for me (always had a lot of girl friends).

My problem comes with the fact that i'm really fat. Not really an excuse, but it does meddles with the fact that most girls i'm atracted to, well, I land flat on their friend-zone.

I'm really not afraid of trying to ask for a date and anything (and i'm really not trying to boast myself here, i've got some shortcomings), but I mostly get rejected or accepted if there's no second intentions. (Well what the hell, it doesn't hurt to have one more friend, they can always introduce you to more girls).

This text was made due to the fact that today I asked this HB 7 to go out with and she never answered me. I got disapointed since we share some interests and i was interested (since she showed some interest lvl) (not oneitis tho, i don't obsess over her)

So, the fact is that I have potential (and yes I do believe this) but the fact is that all my affirmations of "I'm going to change" are made to myself (since I don't want people to know if I failed). Well I made this text affirming that I'm gonna change. Loose weight, get my game on and more perfect, loose my shyness, stop being too lazy and get disciplined and focus.

That's about it, thanks for those who read

 

[Crazy Asian]

loose weight, get in shape?
i don't know wut else i could tell ya

 

[KontrollerX]

http://weight-loss.fitness.com/before-after-between/13150-235lbs-10-months.html

If you need motivation to get started with weight loss this guy's story about it is awesome.

 

[Royal Ace]

holy crap, if i find a gim near home maybe im going to try and do the same thing as him. real would feel better if i had a high metabolism and didnt have to watch everything i ate

 

[slightoverbite]

dude, if your happy with urself, dont even worry about it. i read in a magazine at the doctor's that if you are happy you loose weight naturally. it makes sense. so just be happy with urself and your bady wil follow.

 

[Royal Ace]

Today i got back in contact with the "rejection" girl. she said that she never got to see that message (most prolly bs) where I asked her out.
She is out town so I finished the conversation and said that the invitation still standed when she came back to town.

She answers, "We'll see later about that" wich yeah i know is a clear no, but I really don't give a fvck about it anymore. I've got a huge smile as I'm writing this since I really am not wondering more about it. Boo-yah!
Keep on my dj brother's I know I am.

 

[Alkali]

Yeah, I don't know how to help. Physical attraction (atleast a little) is a must.

 

[Royal Ace]

Yeah, I don't know how to help. Physical attraction (atleast a little) is a must.

Well I do have a nice face and great hair, i'm tall and tanned. But yeah the fat part is a big no-no. tks for reading tho

 

[Kev07]

Hey bro, I used to be in your shoes.

Back freshman year of high school I weighed in at 180 lbs at 5'6.

Over the course of highschool, I lost weight and put on muscle, I now weigh 165 at 5'9. After factoring in muscle gain and height gain, i must have lost over 25 lbs of fat.

Check out the guide I wrote, I hope you find it useful.

http://www.sosuccessful.net/forum/showthread.php?t=222


Once you start hearing people tell you "whoa damn dude you lost weight" "lookin' good" Your confidence will sky rocket. I especially love the comments such as "I didn't even know who you were for a second!"


and if you decide not to read it cause it's too long/whatever I HIGHLY encourage you to take before/progress/after pictures so you'll see the gains you make. It's good motivation to actually see change. And it's also fun telling people you used to be fat and show them pictures =D

 

[The Forms]

You could always just hook up with fat chicks (I'm not trying to be funny here).

It'll increase your confidence and you can work out your game. That way once you DO lose the weight your game will already be tight.

Not a long term plan, but it'll get you by for the time being.

 

[Alkali]

The Forms does make a good (shortrun) point while working further on your appearance.

 

[Royal Ace]

haha well it's definitely a chance but i would prolly just be gaming low self esteem women so my game would be quite flawed.

I will keep the weight loss my first priority for now. (That way I can prove to myself I have self control also)