...so this is what my friend did. Please read and comment.

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If I feel like taking our friendship down in a blaze of glory for his own good...I might actually print this out and show him.

But my buddy is your typical small town guy who's always had issues with people and "expanding his social circle"...he lives in a bubble and is pretty damned clueless when it comes to meeting people/being set in his ways. But the dude married young to someone that he was never happy with, finally divorced her after about 6 years(by then she was the size of a house and even tried to drug him in an attempt to get pregnant...I kid you not), and instead of learning how to build a new life as a single man and have fun for well, the first time ever, he immediately shacked up with a single mom of five that he knew from work.

He's now playing the role of surrogate daddy to 5 spermlings, getting into altercations with this woman's ex husband/the children's father, and is pretty much broke between dealing with the divorce and spending his money on 5 kids that are not his. Dude's 30 and not bad looking, there's absolutely no reason at all for him to do this to himself. I had plans of trying to break him into the idea of getting out and meeting as many people as possible, basically just working on seeing what life itself is like and what possibilities are there for him when you pop the ****ing bubble and step outside of it.

I haven't heard from him in over a month and know it's because he's in over his head with bull**** and too depressed to come crawling out of the shadows...but yeah, feel free to comment and by all means, have fun!!!
 

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I can only tell you from my limited experience is that people can't be helped if they don't help themselves.

If they come around and ask for guidance and are committed to making a change, I'd do my best to help them. My time and energy is too precious to be spent unplugging some dude who wants to wallow in his misery. (I have cut off friends for this)
 

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I can only tell you from my limited experience is that people can't be helped if they don't help themselves.

Sadly this ...

It is painful to see your buddy in sh!t like this up to his nose.
 

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Here is what you do. Tell him that you do not want his 'stupid' rubbing off on you, tell him to get out of this situation and come live with you for a few months until he gets back on his feet. Otherwise, you are done with him. Tell him you do not want to waste time with people who are on a self-destructive path and watch him crash and burn.... which is what is coming.

Either he takes your advice, or you fvcking walk away for good. Look after yourself first, you do not want to be around when ex-hubby and his Glock 21 takes out your friend with you caught in the cross fire.

Fvck your friend, either he grows a brain or you walk away for good. Sorry if that sounds cold, but part of being a DJ is putting yourself first, because if you do not have your own sh!t in order, you are no good to anyone else.

I hope your friend comes around but if he doesn't fvck him.
 

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Never tie yourself to another person's outcome.

He didn't learn the 1st time.. This is his 2nd serving. Perhaps one day there will be a 3rd and a 4th before he finally sees your point of view.
 

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no offense but i just picture you an your friend like like straight up joe dirt trailer trash or my name is earl type **** lol
 
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