So texting a woman once a week to keep her spinning doesn’t work

[SargeMaximus]

dude take some responsibility, none of these people are mind readers.

and you need to be adaptable, woman are not robots who just fall for something bc it's a "technique"

Just admit you don’t know wtf you’re talking about

 

[EyeBRollin]

How many times do I have to tell you guys to stop texting?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

So now I gotta text them daily? How is that consistent with the advice on here which is to not text her everyday?

So… here I am trying these techniques. Nows your chance to tell me how my execution can be tweaked

@BackInTheGame78 has mentioned he has a "Question A Day" technique that he uses with potential plates. This may seem like a lot, but it's actually a built-in time constraint because you're doing it daily. Ask the question, and say you'll get at them tomorrow before they can start chit-chatting too much.

Now since you've banged this broad it's different but you can still play some kind of game like 20 questions, 2 truths and a lie, kiss marry kill, etc. Little sh1t that can make her smile can go a long way, just don't overdo it. As always, calibrate.

 

[Stanley]

Just admit you don’t know wtf you’re talking about

You are proving the points made. You conflate things and take them way too literally and then attack those trying to give you advice and perspective.

Why do you guys just hate on me? I’m actually trying your suggestions and they consistently fail. Instead of offer the tweaks you say I am missing, you just bash me. Toxic af. Makes me think you’re all KJ just trolling me

 

[PlatoPacks23]

Just admit you don’t know wtf you’re talking about

nah man, I'm trying to help you. I've had this issue too before but at end of day everyone here is just a random person who has no idea of the context of your situation. If you REALLY want help, show the complete text photos

if you really get this emotionally reactive to something as simple as this and people trying to help you, you got bigger issues to deal with.

Again NOT EVERYTHING is 100% fool proof and logical "if I do A then B will happen".

 

[Divorced w 3]

Good thread tbh. Sorry to hear the news OP, thanks for sharing it so we can learn

 

[SargeMaximus]

nah man, I'm trying to help you. I've had this issue too before but at end of day everyone here is just a random person who has no idea of the context of your situation. If you REALLY want help, show the complete text photos

if you really get this emotionally reactive to something as simple as this and people trying to help you, you got bigger issues to deal with.

Again NOT EVERYTHING is 100% fool proof and logical "if I do A then B will happen".

You can understand why I’m frustrated with users that give me next to no improvements but only bash me no matter what I say.

@EyeBRollin is saying not to text again. Yet when I didn’t text my last fwb for over a month, yall said I needed to text more. Pick a lane

 

[PlatoPacks23]

You can understand why I’m frustrated with users that give me next to no improvements but only bash me no matter what I say.

@EyeBRollin is saying not to text again. Yet when I didn’t text my last fwb for over a month, yall said I needed to text more. Pick a lane

I just joined the board, I don't know your history. End of day a lot of these boards/advice things like to have keyboard jockeys to sound important... I'd say maybe 1 of 8 people give actual good advice.

And again. Everyone has a different style! EyeBRollin might work that way for his style of game, others are different. Context matters.


Honestly man I can hear your frustration, but being a whiner, victim, blamer, etc... on a MESSAGE BOARD of all things shows me why you're having issues. Good luck I've said all I want. Up to you whether to listen or not.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I just joined the board, I don't know your history. End of day a lot of these boards/advice things like to have keyboard jockeys to sound important... I'd say maybe 1 of 8 people give actual good advice.

And again. Everyone has a different style! EyeBRollin might work that way for his style of game, others are different. Context matters.


Honestly man I can hear your frustration, but being a whiner, victim, blamer, etc... on a MESSAGE BOARD of all things shows me why you're having issues. Good luck I've said all I want. Up to you whether to listen or not.

K blocking you then.

 

[pranshu]

It's not a fluff self-help book or a book on Game, it's a intelligent book written by a reputable and renowned author in the field of psychology.

@catsmeow2 Can you please share it with me too? or on this forum? If its copyrighted material, you can send the official link according to the forum rules..

 

[TheKid]

Fwb can be just as hard if not harder in some cases to maintain then a ltr.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

K blocking you then.

my man.. one day you'll realize I am trying to help you. I was you once, but taking responsibility for YOUR actions is one of the main things to at least getting some type of success.

Not sure if you started as a hard-case or what-not, or people here have helped you before... but these are just random people who have no clue who you are as a person.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Now since you've banged this broad it's different

How so?
I’m working on one here myself. Had a lot of sex Friday / sat morning and let her text me first the next time. She sent me a video of us on the date and I sent her one back. I engaged further as she engaged. Carried over to this morning and I engaged back in little bursts. Ended with a line about her sending me a nude selfie earlier this afternoon and she wrote back maybe later.

admittedly fresh off the block in the dating scene and just trying to mirror until I get better.

looking for some thoughts on how to move forward and also how one night of monkey sex made a difference? I mean it obviously did but one night is easily attributed to a one off also.

 

[TheManMasenko]

K blocking you then.

I lost a gf because I could not communicate effectively. Cmon OP, be vulnerable and open to the process. Show those texts!

 

[Divorced w 3]

I lost a gf because I could not communicate effectively. Cmon OP, be vulnerable and open to the process. Show those texts!

He really should. The vibe etc will be really helpful. He has done it before, I suggest doing again

 

[SargeMaximus]

I lost a gf because I could not communicate effectively. Cmon OP, be vulnerable and open to the process. Show those texts!

I deleted them when I deleted her as a contact