Zarky said:I think this is your big problem
In all seriousness, this is the era of players, both men and women. I'm very, very glad I have no interest in marriage or kids, never had and probably never will. I'm a player to the core, and our society today suits me just fine (at least the big cities on the coasts of the US where I am not alone). I would not want to be a man who wants to settle down and raise kids these days.
Most of the bitter guys out there fall into two categories: 1) unattractive or socially inept men, or 2) men who want a traditional marriage and children. Both of these types seem to post 99% of the "All women are evil" threads.
yah. I dont think you 've seen me post all women are evil threads.
If I were to get married I probably would have married my ex. Wanting something and perusing it are two different things, I want a billion dollars, im not on the hunt for it though. I think marriage is too risky in this day and age.
I grew up in a great family, two parents who still love each other and are together and I had an excellent childhood, when that's your model for relationships, its hard not to want that. For those from the single mama, drama, absent daddy homes, I could see why they would never want that. Usually those who love being players are those from sh1tty families. It fills a need for them that they never got sorted growing up. (see what I did there?)