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Daniel_miles

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I admit both me and my friend are quite short and he is quite chubby but we are by no means ugly. He may be fat and I may be skinny but are faces are decent (including his moles, which he is thinking of getting surgically removed.)

http://img148.imagevenue.com/img.php?loc=loc23&image=72125_691152654_l.jpg

I appreciate all advice but can you please stick to advice. Constructive critism is good but critism is just offending.

My friend is about a 7-8ish and I'm very good looking. I just want to know how to improve my game and thus his game. I would tell him about this site but he would think i'm aloser for trying to sort my game out.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Oh? Most people think your a rapist too? :whistle:
I sold a girl a couple of pills and she had to go to hospital of them because of a bad reaction. To prevent her being in the wrong she came up with the story that I spiked her, that is how the rumour started. The police got involved later that night, came to the club and arrested me. I am not a rapist I would never spike a girls drink let a lone rape a girl, EVER.
 

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Daniel_miles said:
I sold a girl a couple of pills and she had to go to hospital of them because of a bad reaction. To prevent her being in the wrong she came up with the story that I spiked her, that is how the rumour started. The police got involved later that night, came to the club and arrested me. I am not a rapist I would never spike a girls drink let a lone rape a girl, EVER.

unles ur willing to follow my advice on improving ur looks and look, the only choices u'll have to get girls is either

1)hooker or 2) rape
 

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LOL this guy is from England. So mabye he isn't as ugly when compared to his fellow British.

I'd say your both VERY ugly though. Your not good-looking. I don't care what your mother told you over and over. But it's time for a reality check. Your NOT good-looking. Your very very ugly. Nothing wrong with being confident but denying reality is suicide.
 

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Post your absolute best picture of yourself on hotornot.com and see if the rating you get is anything close to 9 or 10.
 

Daniel_miles

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Bvbidd said:
LOL this guy is from England. So mabye he isn't as ugly when compared to his fellow British.

I'd say your both VERY ugly though. Your not good-looking. I don't care what your mother told you over and over. But it's time for a reality check. Your NOT good-looking. Your very very ugly. Nothing wrong with being confident but denying reality is suicide.
both VERY UGLY? 'VERY UGLY' would require us both to have abnormal features which are unapealing but we're fine, granted my friend is fat and has loads of moles buth other than that.

David Beckahm is the best looking man on the planet and hes british plus there is a higher percentage of fat people in the US than the UK so....

I'm here to learn not argue so what you suggest I will try to change about myself both phyiscally and emotionally. Can you suggest features that are unattractive about me and my friend?
 

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theres no arguing that the US has more fat people than anywhere else....and theres no arguing that u want to learn, but if U WANT TO LEARN, then accept the fact that UR NOT A FVCKIN 9 OR 8 OR 7 OR 5, ur at the bottom of the barrel


the best news i have for u is that u CAN improve to look much much better by doing the things i outlines for u.......girls dont exactly like "jesus beards"
 

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Skip. You know you get a bad rap on this site. But I can tell you actually have real world experience.

A keyboard jockey would be like "It does not matter what you look like! It's all in your confidence and masclunity because pook says.. etc etc"

You know you actually have to look the ****ing part. Just like a chick would have to look her part.

Anyways daniel you ugly ****. Get into reality then try conversing with chicks in hopes of sex.
 

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Rocko said:
First off, that is a bit harsh and he is not a 2, have you seen 2s?? those guys have faces only a mother can love. No worries man, you are a solid 6 / 7. Like they said before, you have to stop being lazy and get up and take control. Lastly, this is for skip2mylou781, I assume you have heard of David Deangelo right? Well, get the interviews of him and Sean Stephenson (check out that guy, he is a solid 2 in so many ways). He is cripple and diseased, not to mention he is only 3ft tall, check out his pics on google and listen to what he has to say, because he gets pvssy, goes to show you that most of it is suave, not looks
Hey Rocko, I thought you said that sean Stephenson had to be a joke when I showed you him. Ahhhh yes, Sean IS A DJ. Every one here can learn a bit from him. I have, but I still can't understand how has sex. The ninth wonder of the world!!
 

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OK so if me and my friend are ugly what do we need to do to improve? Who has more work to do? He needs a diet and I shave my beard of then what?
 

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Daniel_miles said:
Hello, my name is Dnaiel but my few friends call me Smiley (I\'m clinically depressed so don\'t smile and my last name is Miles, so the nick name comes from there)

I\'m a 19 year old virgin from the UK, nearly 20. I have kissed a few girls but they have all been around 16 and chubby. I dropped out of school so don\'t have any qualifications. I don\'t have a job, friends or any hobbies and I was recently arrested for having class A drugs with the intention to supply. I am due in the crown court next month so I could possibly face a jail sentence.

Needless to say my life is pretty ****ty and girls are not my only problem. I have joined this site (after months of browsing it) to become good with girls. Obviously this site will not fix all my problems but at least it will make me a pimp.

I\'m pretty arrogant so I\'m inner game is tight I think because people think I\'m self confident. I am also very good looking (HB9-10) so I don\'t know where I go wrong. There are some pictures below (I have a shaven head now with the beard, the pictures with long hair are from 1 year ago)

[img=http://img137.imagevenue.com/loc97/th_06507_300607021_l.jpg][img=http://img145.imagevenue.com/loc288/th_06515_300673998_l.jpg][img=http://img125.imagevenue.com/loc141/th_06521_300756482_l.jpg][img=http://img149.imagevenue.com/loc27/th_06528_395408083_l.jpg]
[img=http://img129.imagevenue.com/loc239/th_06538_395411090_l.jpg]
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Your either a troll!Or an idiot your 19 soon to be 20 and you like your atleast 30 and its against the law in UK for anyone over 18 to be touching girls or guys under 16 so im amazed your not in jail because of that.It doesn\'t seem like you dropped out of school?Because your typing,grammar skills are better then mine and no highschool dropout can have good skills.Dude it seems weird maybe your an idiot or a super troll,your thread seems fake,if you think im bullsh*tting asking me how?I\'ll respond and give details!
 

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ok man i am going to offer you some good advice.

Oh for the guy about the UK guys being ugly, i really dont think so:cool:

Right 19, my image change was when i was 17, one day i knew my look was not working so i changed it.

You need to do the same as harsh as some of these posts are they hold alot of truth.

The bennie pic was the best one of you.

Here are a few things.

Girls in general dont like beards esp' big ginger beards that make you look like a farmer.
Girls dont like in general guys who look like there cloths have not been washed in 3 weeks.
Girls dont like guys who look like a grundge back stage hippie guy, fat girls do GL girls normally do not.

I would rate you a 9 but with the work you are doing to yourself your making yourself a 2!

YOu would have been better getting up out of bed and walking around naked then what you are doing now, at least you would score more then a two.

YOu need to:
get an image change ASAP.
Get your hair cut and styled or at best dyed none ginger.
Shave the beard and never let it come again, ginger beards are a majour no. no.
Buy some casual nice threads, stuff that suit the real sexy you, see boy band videos and film stars for ideas on what to wear, none of it has to be expensive it just has to look good.
Nice top, nice jeans and a nice jacket is more then ok.
I like the beaniie pic keep it and use it, make it apart of your style.


You look like a greasy gundge rocker and only fat birds go for your type.

Do you want to die a virgin or just have fat birds after you or do you want to be chased or have the chance to date HB's.

Your choice but the advice is there!

By the way, the best advice you can get is actually asking some-one what they percieve you to look like in relation to girls, getting offended by it is plain dumb, you asked so there it is, now do someting about it instead of moaning and defending your very poor CURRENT style.

See the 4th pic, in that you are smocking see the facial expression and the look, it is right there, you have it now use it!
 

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shave your head. Trim your beard into a goatee. Youd look better.. Pump iron and get some tan. youd prolly look like an 8.

In 3-4 months, you should see results

From the way I see things, you have the facial structure but all that hair is covering it. So you have great potential. I'm serious.
 

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Daniel_miles said:
I am also cliniclly depressed so studying is hard.
This is bullsh¡t.

Everyone has problems, and people too often use these problems as an excuse for their own inaction. If you're going to hide yourself under the veil of depression, then don't expect to do well with women. If you're going to wake up every day telling yourself that you are going to fail because you are depressed, then your condition will improve anytime soon.

So quit feeling sorry for yourself and grow some balls. Nobody here can give you advice if you are going to let your personal problems oppress you.
 

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I would punch you dead in the face if you ever come to New York.....

...Just cuz.
 

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Luke!! said:
Start all over again. Go back to school, do it all. You will meet people on you journey.

PS, You look like a hippy
kinda like billy madison....even go back to 1st grade. a hb9-hb10 huh? :crazy:
 

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I don't even have any REAL malefreinds anymore and you have a 5 freinds and they're all male?lmao and you're complaining..?

I wish..no homo.

I don't get along with guys for long anymore.American men are becoming gayer by the second.More for me.
 

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Daniel_miles said:
I sold a girl a couple of pills and she had to go to hospital of them because of a bad reaction. To prevent her being in the wrong she came up with the story that I spiked her, that is how the rumour started. The police got involved later that night, came to the club and arrested me. I am not a rapist I would never spike a girls drink let a lone rape a girl, EVER.

^WHICH IS WHY YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY YOU HAVE MALE FREINDS..LMAO.

**** like this won't happen to me cuz i'm more like the "potential boyfreind" type of male freind to these hoes but it gets very annoying.
 

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I have trimmed my beard. What would you rate me as now? http://img151.imagevenue.com/img.php?loc=loc198&image=74248_untitled.JPG

Anything else I should work on? I think I am a HB 9 for sure though.

My depression does get me down its hard to like this world when you view it the way I do. I'm 19 kissed 3 girls (all chubby and underage) I am a virgin, will be for a long time. Face a large prison sentence. Dad has cancer. Mum literally hates me because of my arrest. I have to live my grandparents now because of it and they are really strict. I haven't really left the house for 3 months.

What advice would you give for me to improve my looks but more importantly what can my friend do? He is quite ugly, HB2.

http://img43.imagevenue.com/img.php?loc=loc2&image=74526_untitled.JPG
 

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Daniel_miles said:
My depression does get me down its hard to like this world when you view it the way I do. I'm 19 kissed 3 girls (all chubby and underage) I am a virgin, will be for a long time. Face a large prison sentence. Dad has cancer. Mum literally hates me because of my arrest. I have to live my grandparents now because of it and they are really strict. I haven't really left the house for 3 months.
You brought it upon yourself dude. The only thing that was out of your control was your dad having cancer.

and i thought i had problems... HAHAHA
 
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