so i'm getting on okay with the roomate but why...

[JonJack]

I have the same opinion as Tazman.

Come on man, the least you could do is be honest with yourself. If you keep trying to hide behind this wall you put up to protect your image or feelings or whatever, you're never ever going to improve yourself.

Admit your flaws, and set yourself free.

 

[Labayu]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
this morning she asked me what are up too today and I just said study...you?...and she goes I don't know yet...which was a lie cos she just made a phonecall and arranged to meet some dude for coffee...ha ha.

This kinda shows you're NOT over her. She obviously didn't know you were listing in on her phone call and I'm assuming you didn't just happen to be passing and heard the convo, but was listing on purpose. And you seem very proud of yourself that you "caught" her out!

 

[MVPlaya]

Originally posted by Jaun_Don
... does she still not look me in eye?, I mean she does sometimes but not as often as she used too, we had a good talk and I have had a serious change of attitude and am leaving the past where it belongs and developed I just don't care anymore attitude, and she said something to me the other night which in the past would have made me argue with her but I just said oh okay...and walked off.

The background for those that don't know is I once had onetis for this girl and she ended up sleeping with my other roomate (and they lied and kept it from me and acted wierd around because I knew) anyways he has left and doesn't live here anymore...

It has been a week since he left and I told her I didn't want her living at my place and that we don't get on and she said she was sorry for everything and that I should get over it...and loved her room and living here...then I gave her **** about something and things seemed okay we had a good laugh but lately...

I have noticed that she slams doors a lot too and coughs everytime she walks past my room, she has also started her sighing thing which she hasn't done for ages...I'm just saying that I find it funny and am curious as to why she is acting this way...Is it because I asked her to come to a show?, I wasn't asking her out, just got free passes and even though we would have gone together...it would have been NOT together if you know what I mean...she had other things on anyway.

I know most of you that read this will be thinking, this dude's a liar he still has a thing for her but you are wrong, the truth is I don't care what she does or who with... I am just curious about her behaviour towards me.


any thoughts...

Yes.

You're being awkard and immature. And she's not the most mature person either.

 

[Jaun_Don]

You are all (except for a couple here)...WRONG...I have NO feelings for this girl and I swear it on my Grandmother's grave (RIP)...How am I being akward and immature?.

I'm just being civil SHE is the one that wanted to stay on, I DO NOT have onetis anymore I am just curious about her behaviour...since when has that been a crime?, It is fascinating to me and because I live with her THAT is why I am asking, I know what this girl is really like and she turns me off, she may be attractive but so what!... there are thousands of other prettier looking girls out there,

I don't care about her I was trying to figure out her behaviour and I worked out that she is a classic AW so I don't pay her attention and not that it's important but I was in the lounge when she made the phone call, she was sitting opposite me.

Really guys, you should give me the benefit of the doubt I am telling you the utmost truth and I texted her today (just to fishing) and asked if she was okay as she didn't seem very happy and you know what I got back?
"Just missing my boy "
Translation: He is the ONLY one that pays me attention, and about the sighing thing a friend of hers stayed here once and I asked her "what's all the sighing about?, and she told me "oh she does that when she isn't getting enough attention"

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