So I'm 5 mins late, and a girl blows me off

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I personally believe in calling a woman out on bad behavior, but it must be done absolutely dispassionately.

If there is not even a hint of emotion in your voice, it penetrates and actually affects her little tiny conscience. Any show of emotion will cause her to rationalize that you're a bad guy and she is vindicated. Dispassionate and detached, like a machine. That's how to call a woman out on her sh!t.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
I personally believe in calling a woman out on bad behavior, but it must be done absolutely dispassionately.

If there is not even a hint of emotion in your voice, it penetrates and actually affects her little tiny conscience. Any show of emotion will cause her to rationalize that you're a bad guy and she is vindicated. Dispassionate and detached, like a machine. That's how to call a woman out on her sh!t.
That's exactly what I think.
I had my chance when I realized she was not coming and that she had flaked on me at exactly 21h. If I send her a text now she's gonna wonder why I'm still thinking about that. It's too late.

It's not that it bothers me that a girl flaked on me. There's more girls out there -it's now up to me to go and meet them- But I'm sick on letting girls off the hook so easily.
 

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Keep in mind that if she's so uninterested as to flake on you, nothing you say will have any sort of impact on her whatsoever. But if you need to do it to feel less powerless in that situation, then go right ahead.
 

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The title of this thread cracks me up! As always, if she couldn't give you her time, shes not worth yours.
 

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The girl was obviously never there.
 
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