So I went to a gangbang (some adult content)

[penkitten]

How do you figure? Aside from having to drive down to Tijuana, which could be kind of fun itself, it sounds like you payed $50 to share a $50 hooker with 50 other guys. Can't you get a hooker in TJ for about that much all for yourself and better looking and it's legal there? I guess you did get to have a lot more sex than you would've with a normal session, but I don't know how it works with hookers really.

what he said dude, what he said!

*vomit*

 

[Maxtro]

That would be the most effective prostitution sting in the world for the cops to run.

Instead of arresting 1 guy at a time, you get 50 geezers,money in hand, and then swat team jumps out of the closet and you're all stuffed in a van and hauled off to jail.

Last semester my Human sexuality class had a vice cop as a guest speaker. His main topic was prostitution and he showed a news clip of a prostitution sting that happened in my city. A "hooker" was standing on the sidewalk, John's would drive over to her and she'd ask them what they wanted and gave them a price. Then she walked with them to the motel room where the men were immediately arrested by the cops waiting inside. About 20 or so men were busted. That was a very easy and effective sting.

This steps for this event are unnecessarily complicated for a sting. Also nowhere is it stated or said that the money will be used in exchange for sex. I think it's in a legally gray area. As ketostix said it's very hard to prove that the money is used to buy sex.

Or did it ever cross you mind that you might get clubbed over the head and wake up tied up in mexico with some Jose preparing to torture you until you hand over your life savings?

While possible it was very unlikely since it was held in a nice hotel. It's the same amount of risk as getting an escort or going into a building for any "shady" reason. I'm just going to say that every single time I got laid there was some risk to it, simply because I haven't done the "normal" thing of attracting a girl yet.

I'd think spending 50 bucks on drinks at a bar and bringing home some chickenhead is a lot safer than this in many ways.

Or I could more likely spend that $50 and get absolutely nothing from it. Don't forget that in the first post I said that I haven't had sex in 3 1/2 years. If I could get girls in bars, don't you think I'd be doing that?

Either way my main focus is going to be getting girls in school. These types of events are only to be used as last resorts.

what he said dude, what he said!

*vomit*

Any chance I can get a better reply. I'm interested in the female opinion and this is something that I obviously can only talk anonymously about or with women that I'm very close to. BTW repeating myself again. It wasn't 50 guys and one girl.

 

[ketostix]

Or I could more likely spend that $50 and get absolutely nothing from it. Don't forget that in the first post I said that I haven't had sex in 3 1/2 years. If I could get girls in bars, don't you think I'd be doing that?

Yeah I feel you. A lot of guys, and fortunately I don't have it that way, could go spend $50 at bars every night for years and not get laid. So which is cheaper and lower risk, spending 50-200 or so for a sure thing or spending an indeterminate amount of money and time on an unsure thing? And when these guys do get laid they have to lower their standards to the biggest hor in the bar that's as bad or worse than a prostitute and usually not nearly as hot.

These types of events are only to be used as last resorts.

I think I just came up with a great name for a brothel, "The Last Resort" .

 

[Maxtro]

Maxtro since you came in 2 minutes do you think it's a good idea to masturbate before? Or use these: http://www.500-stores.com/Images/T97250.jpg

I wouldn't recommend jerking beforehand

Ideally I would have liked to cum from a BJ but the girls had a rule that you couldn't cum in their mouths. Though it was OK to shoot on their bodies, that seemed to be a bit embarrassing. Hmm, naked in a room full of people and I thought something was embarrassing It would have been quite a show since I hadn't jerked since July 31st.

Yeah I feel you. A lot of guys, and fortunately I don't have it that way, could go spend $50 at bars every night for years and not get laid. So which is cheaper and lower risk, spending 50-200 or so for a sure thing or spending an indeterminate amount of money and time on an unsure thing? And when these guys do get laid they have to lower their standards to the biggest hor in the bar that's as bad or worse than a prostitute and usually not nearly as hot.

I think it all comes down to how desperate the guy is and what he considers normal sex. Also its about what his chances are of getting sex. I know that if I were to go to a club or bar now, I have about a 2% chance at getting laid. With a sex urge that cannot be turned off and becoming unbearable, doing it this way made the most sense.

Though I do have limits. Listening to some of the guys talking, some have been to over 10 of these events. That seems weird to me. My priority is hot young women and I have not given up on them.

I think I just came up with a great name for a brothel, "The Last Resort" .

LOL that is great

 

[Darth]

I think this is a huge, awkward step downward into Hell

^^What he said.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I know that if I were to go to a club or bar now, I have about a 2% chance at getting laid.

Oh you are *so* full of sh!t. That is self-pitying baloney right there.

My % chance of getting laid might be better, but I would still do what you did if I was horny enough. Ignore the haters.

 

[Maxtro]

Oh you are *so* full of sh!t. That is self-pitying baloney right there.

My % chance of getting laid might be better, but I would still do what you did if I was horny enough. Ignore the haters.

LOL it's true only because I know I really wouldn't try to get anybody. "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

The 2% would be a girl coming up to me and doing all the work, which actually happened in a swinger club several years ago.

If I actually put some effort into going to bars, clubs and lounges to get some I'm sure my success % rate is a bit higher.

As for the haters, I don't really care. Posting something as controversial as this is bound to get different types of reactions.

 

[Levex]

What a stupid post! Yeah, all you need is 50 bucks and a bar and you'll get laid. Totally.

Hey assh0le i just stated my opinion that this is not a very safe method of getting laid, no need for personal attacks.

 

[Trader]

To the OP (and this applies to me as well)

Before you take any action, always ask yourself: 'Will this make me stronger? Will this make me more of a man?' The keynote of masculinity is strength and power.

Obviously, attending this gangbang in no way helps your game.

 

[saber]

maxtro thanks for this report its priceless

I have always been curious about getting some craigslist ***** but ill be honest i dont have the balls to follow through

if you dont mind paying here is a link
http://www.myspace.com/official_adelitas

they only ask for 120 for a 3way and the girls are pretty hot and in there 20s
i would recommend flashing some cash once u are in the room with them and u will get vip treatment

HOWEVER!!!

this was in pasadena??

dude i live in la/oc and there are plenty of dive bars with desperate drunk sluts
if you are willing to use craigslist im positive you could get laid for free at a bar with the same quality of women

 

[Maxtro]

Thanks for all the comments, both positive and negative. Any and all feedback is appreciated as long as it's somewhat constructive.

To the OP (and this applies to me as well)

Before you take any action, always ask yourself: 'Will this make me stronger? Will this make me more of a man?' The keynote of masculinity is strength and power.

Obviously, attending this gangbang in no way helps your game.

Actually I think it did help my game. Since I haven't had sex in so long, I forgot that women really are sex objects. I had forgotten how good getting BJ's and having sex felt. Before this I didn't really know what I wanted from women. Sex wasn't worth "fighting" for. It wasn't worth any risks or embarrassing myself to get. But now that I've "reawakened" I know that I want more of it and that I need to really work and risk embarrassing myself to get it.

Did this every happen to you? You didn't know how hungry you were until you had a snack or a small bite to eat? The same thing happened to me. I'm hungrier now then I was before I did that party.

This is the main reason why I recommend guys who are 24+ who haven't sex yet or in a long time, to just somehow get laid so they know what they are missing. Be it through gangbangs, craigslist or even escorts. I think it's fine to use something like that once or very rarely to awaken the animalistic mind. They should not be depended on.

While I could go to the parties twice a week I know that it is unhealthy and will stop my development. For me it made perfect sense to go and do this. The only way I'll do it again is if I somehow don't get laid this semester and I might do the party again around December. But that's only a worse case scenario.

maxtro thanks for this report its priceless

I have always been curious about getting some craigslist ***** but ill be honest i dont have the balls to follow through

if you dont mind paying here is a link
http://www.myspace.com/official_adelitas

HOWEVER!!!

this was in pasadena??

dude i live in la/oc and there are plenty of dive bars with desperate drunk sluts
if you are willing to use craigslist im positive you could get laid for free at a bar with the same quality of women

When I was talking about going to TJ to get some hookers I was talking about Adelitas without mentioning it by name. I have been doing a lot of research on that place and TJ hookers in general. Doing it that would requires much more preparation and balls than what I did.

As for the dive bar thing. I don't have any skills at all in the bar pickup. As I mentioned in my other post, unless a chick actually comes up to me and does all the work, I'd most likely go home by myself.

 

[mpimpin]

If I came across something like this I might give it a shot. Sounds like a hell of a story. Although Adelitas looks like a better one. Too bad I'm not closer to TJ

 

[Rogue]

This is the main reason why I recommend guys who are 24+ who haven't sex yet or in a long time, to just somehow get laid so they know what they are missing. Be it through gangbangs, craigslist or even escorts. I think it's fine to use something like that once or very rarely to awaken the animalistic mind.

About four years ago I had very positive encounters with two beautiful and fun escorts within the span of one month. But it certainly did not help me in the long run. The magical feeling of getting laid lasts for only about one month, so if you have lackluster gaming skills then the clock starts ticking very short for you to capitalize on your refreshed sense of memory, vigor, and temporary sexual non-desperation to improve your game. As Rollo Tomassi would say, it's an AFC buffer against rejection.

 

[Gaucho]

LOL, good story! Thx for sharing.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

As Rollo Tomassi would say, it's an AFC buffer against rejection.

Only sometimes, and in some contexts. If you can find a regular shop to go to long enough so they get familiar with you, so you KNOW you'll have a place to hit up on the way home, it actually helps your game quite a bit. Even moreso that spinning all kinds of plates.

It's all dependent on the value and meaning you give to hookers.

Is it just money for physical pleasure, no different than getting a massage?

Or are you some horrible loser because you don't have mad game to approach sets all night?

As far as orgies go, as long as their no cops or diseases, I'm in. Fun is fun.

As far as that TJ place, I've been there several times. Across the street is a similar bar called "chicago club" or at least there used to be. That whole neighborhood is like another fukking planet. Hookers hanging out on every corner, fifty cent taco stands right and left, drunk Mexicans out walking around with their buddies.

Last I was there, I was in the lobby of that eleven dollar hotel, waiting for a buddy. He was taking quite a while to finish, and I saw the same girl come in and out with two different dudes (one after each other, not at the same time), lickity split like. She was pretty hot, and gave me one of the sexiest stares I've ever seen.

I'd be afraid to go there now with all those drug lords chopping each others heads off.

If you live round LA or OC, I'm sure you could easily find a nice massage place that'll give you a happy ending. Just check the LA or OC weekly, they'll point you in the right direction.

 

[Rogue]

I personally don't give a hoot about getting laid and that is the true DJ mentality, to be completely independent of the need of puissy. Getting laid is pleasant and I like it but not getting laid (even for long stretches of time) is equally well. I reiterate my assertion that going to an orgy is fundamentally in principle and not merely contextually an AFC buffer for rejection; it may shrink the middle letter to a lower case 'f' but nonetheless one is still an average chump whose little boys are tethered to the puissy. There are long-winded debates where Pook argues this exact principle, that even all players, though getting laid, are still chumps in disguise because they still have the need for puissy. By attending orgies one is only facilitating the need, the AFCness evidenced by Maxtro's own words of reigning in the "animalistic mind." It's like watching the 1983 horror classic The Hunger.

As I speak there is a blonde HB "9" (on the Orlando scale) who has developed apparent feelings for me over the course of a year and I haven't even asked her out yet (but will very soon because I'm quitting a job and she's a co-worker.) It's discipline, self-control, patience, focus on other things in life, and eliminating the tethered entanglement of puissy which is the way of the DJ and the art of Zen.

And spinning plates is also a buffer. It's the sexual way of trying to achieve the disconnected mentality of a DJ. 

 

[Gaucho]

WTF Rogue? Your post alone shows way too much analysis to be a man, regardless of an academic definition.

This dude wanted *****, he went out and got it without harming anyone in the process. He enjoyed himself. That is what everybody should do.

Now he can have a small cap 'f' in 'AFC'.

L O L. :kick:

 

[Rogue]

WTF Rogue? Your post alone shows way too much analysis to be a man, regardless of an academic definition.

This dude wanted *****, he went out and got it without harming anyone in the process. He enjoyed himself. That is what everybody should do.

Now he can have a small cap 'f' in 'AFC'.

L O L. :kick:

Fun, fun, fun! Fun doesn't change underlying dynamics. Go ahead and put me on your ignore list, as one minute from now you will be on mine.

 

[Gaucho]

Fun, fun, fun! Fun doesn't change underlying dynamics. Go ahead and put me on your ignore list, as one minute from now you will be on mine.

I don't have to ignore you, because I quite enjoy your posts on the odd occasion I visit this forum.

But you strike me as the person who analyses every single thing in life (for example, wearing your 'peacock' shirt and why girls were looking at you). If it works, if you enjoy it, do it. You will experience 'the flow' more that way.

I mean come on, you have been around here a long time from memory, and your still talking about 'the true DJ mentality', or 'AFC', these are the things I hear kids in the gym talk about after reading 'the game'. Once you know what you are, who you are, then your just you. This is the place most should be striving to be.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Buy a man a hooker and you get him laid for an evening.

Teach a man to sarge and you get him laid for a lifetime.