so i went on a " date" tonight - FR ( very LOL)

[Packers2010]

a few weeks ago i met a girl i knew from high school on the train. i though she looked ok so i got her number.

i was wondering if i should hae gone to the club tonight or if i should just stay home. then i remembered i had this girls number. so i texed her " hey what you up to tonight?". i got a call from her like 30 mins later. so i told her to meet me at the local pool hall for a game.

when i met up with her she said she was hungry so we got some food and played some pool. pool is good because i could get close to her and teach her how to play. plus every time she sunk a ball i high five her.

so after we did that, we tired to go get a coffee but it was closing up, so i took her to the park. i like going there at night when no one is around and playing on the playground like a kid. sure it may be creepy but you can get close to the girl plus it's what I wanted to do.

anyway we are playing on the equipment and we get close to each other. i held her for a while then we get to talking about " pick up lines" so i said.. " close your eyes" so she dose and i kissed her.

good way to get away with it... if she is in't to.. my girl.. wasn't. i forgot she had a hard upbringing. so she wasn't read for that. so i back off for a bit, and play it "cool" urns out my version of "cool" is just annoying the girl by being stupid ad trying to make fun on her because i could tell i was a little nervous.

we sat there talking and she tells me that she isn't the type of girl who dose " this sort of thing" and all this crap. i just change the subject straight away at this point. but i kept going, just for the reference ecp.

anyway she is laying on the floor and i get close to her again, we are just talking n stuff. then i tell her " are you ready?" she says " for what" i got in to kiss her noes as a joke but end up kissing her lips again. and she kind of freaks out.

goes. " your a bad kisser. you dribble everywhere." and she freaks. tells me that she is a virgin and whats to keep it that way. i tell her it's cool and ****.

then a little after this i drive her home.

so after all this. i got 2 crappy kisses and i might have the cold virus in me now.

though i learnt a TON of stuff i didn't even know i did. I know for sure screwed it up tonight not realizing, she had a stricked upbringing, so i started talking about me being drunk and smoking weed n ****. witch wasn't cool. FOR HER. if it was a normal girl it would have been a funny story

so it is what it is.. a REFERENCE EXP and a funny story

 

[sylvester the cat]

doesn't sound like you screwed it up to me. it's not like she walked away or anything.

sounds like she's just trying to assure herself and you that she's not some kind of slut or something before she commits to doing the dirty.

 

[Packers2010]

doesn't sound like you screwed it up to me. it's not like she walked away or anything.

sounds like she's just trying to assure herself and you that she's not some kind of slut or something.

yeah but after the second time i kissed her she asked me why i liked her?

she is a oretty uptight chick though.. i think it might have been a case of " why i this guy interested in my now" kind of thing

 

[sylvester the cat]

yeah but after the second time i kissed her she asked me why i liked her?

she is a oretty uptight chick though.. i think it might have been a case of " why i this guy interested in my now" kind of thing

I think that's a good sign. Could be she's trying to determine whether or not you're the real deal or not before she signs on the metaphorical dotted line.

How did you reply?

 

[Packers2010]

I think that's a good sign. Could be she's trying to determine whether or not you're the real deal or not before she signs on the metaphorical dotted line.

How did you reply?

i told her thee truth, i told her that i liked her hair and her personalty.

she was like i like " what do you mean?" i said. " your not that crazy, your not like other chicks your simple. that's what i want in my life right now"

she also asked me what i was looking for. i told her " nothing" though this is after the fact she told me she didn't want to hook up. so i said i was too busy and didn't want anything. ( i did this to make sure she would star thinking i wanted a gf .)

not sure if i would see her again.. i dont think she is spontaneous. as we was walking back to the car i told her not to freak out so mucg and to go with the flow.

 

[sylvester the cat]

i told her thee truth, i told her that i liked her hair and her personalty.

she was like i like " what do you mean?" i said. " your not that crazy, your not like other chicks your simple. that's what i want in my life right now"

she also asked me what i was looking for. i told her " nothing" though this is after the fact she told me she didn't want to hook up. so i said i was too busy and didn't want anything. ( i did this to make sure she would star thinking i wanted a gf .)

not sure if i would see her again.. i dont think she is spontaneous. as we was walking back to the car i told her not to freak out so mucg and to go with the flow.

Hmm. I would have accused of her being presumptuous and asked her 'what makes you think I like you?'....

i think she's just testing you. see it as such and have fun with it.

 

[Iceberg]

not sure if i would see her again.. i dont think she is spontaneous. as we was walking back to the car i told her not to freak out so mucg and to go with the flow.

I don't think I would either.

Life's too short to be spent with women who make such a big deal out of kissing. Whether it's a sh*t test or not, she just doesn't sound like a good time.

And god forbid you did have sex with her....would she be expecting an engagement ring afterward?

 

[VladPatton]

Mad props for the kissing, but the freak-outs are a red flag. No, a neon orange flag. She seems like damaged goods. I wouldn't go out with her again. Keep her number in case you sparked a tingle in her nether regions and she wants to experiment. Other than that, go for greener pastures.

 

[Packers2010]

yeah.. i expect a girl to freak out if i start trying to finger bang her while kissing her.. ( for the first time) but not just after one small kiss.

i was taking the wrong girl out.. to be honest i don't even like her.. only took her out because i don't have any one else lined up. but i'm working on that.. plus i worked out the kinks on my whole " date thing" so i am glad i got that down.


just got to spin more plates and forget about her. witch is soo easy.