Personally, I dont think u did so bad. The "how bout next time" would make you look more commited, and thus needy. You did ok with that frame you took.
Wait 2 days and give her another smartazz text. Feed into that "crazy weirdo" stuff with her. If nothing else, its fun just to mess with her! My money says you still have an outside chance... think again on that one-strike rule. Meanwhile... spin other plates. What's to lose?