I think there's way too much fat chick bashing going on here. Yes a lot of men are going for any chick who they can stick their d1ck in and yes this gives many ho3s the confidence to pick, choose and flick but why should that bother you if you're not one of those dudes??
Seems like a ton of reality hating goes on here. Yes, most of us won't be 10s, won't make half a million a year and won't be famous in the slightest but neither are your competition. Look at how pathetic women get in their search for 'Mr right. They get to be 30something, still think their pvssy is fresh to death while either being a struggling single mom or had that many abortions and taken that many pills to kill any life form that they don't know wtf is up.
Find yourself first while slowly improving your game then all these ugly b1tches getting hit on won't crumble your self esteem.