First time poster here. I have been reading DJ ever since it was a Frontpage template with a few dozen stories. Now im in need of some advise. About two months a ago i met a great woman in line a restaurant. I was waiting to get a table and so was she. I introduced myself because frankly I just play the odds game with every woman i meet. Anyways, We talked, and aggreed to meet at the bar later. I had a dinner meeting with some coworkers and she was with her friend. About and hour later my party left so i went to the bar with close friend/ coworker and got ourselfs a round of beers. A few minutes later she shows up and we started talking. The coversation went so great that little that i knew 2 hour went by. The look on her face was great she was so into me and i into her. Just as we were about to leave i got her phone number, but she didnt have a cell so she gave me her work number. So i called her work about 3 days later, and she was so glad to hear from me. We talked and arrange to meet that weekend again. we talked again in a few days, and this girl was great. Great family loves to cook, family oriented, single, you know the whole package. So we talk the next day, and we planned to go out dancing for saturday. Unfornately, that saturday i had to pick up my sister from Her college about 500 miles away and didnt have roaming on my cell phone to make sure that i was going to make it back on time. In other words i flaked on her. I apoligized deeply the next day(by now she had already given me her home phone number). I also complimented her on how gorgeous she was and stuff like that. She replied with how amazed she was by me, that i still made a great impression from her and that that we'd go out again soon. Well, that weeked i couldnt, and the week after that we it was christmas so i spent i with my family and she with hers. I havent been able to get a hold of her, i email her and she doesnt email me back, she not home, and i can never get ahold at work because she works in the retail industry and holidays are hell for them, and plus her father has been recently hospitalized. I dont know if im overreacting or if i really lost her. Im a good looking guy, so in the looks department theres not a problem. She has tried to call me on three occacions but i was not available to pick up my phone.
If i were to give myself advise it would be to pursue her to the fullest extent until i get a clear and definite no. But i dont know what do you guys think.
more info
- I met her in mid november
- she made long term plans with me for the next year, such as activities that we would attend together.
- i havent talked to her since dec 19
- i have called her 4 times after that with no luck
- she has not made an effort to contact me since dec 15
- but i still think that i can win her back, i just need to dj her for 10 minutes
whaddaya think?
If i were to give myself advise it would be to pursue her to the fullest extent until i get a clear and definite no. But i dont know what do you guys think.
more info
- I met her in mid november
- she made long term plans with me for the next year, such as activities that we would attend together.
- i havent talked to her since dec 19
- i have called her 4 times after that with no luck
- she has not made an effort to contact me since dec 15
- but i still think that i can win her back, i just need to dj her for 10 minutes
whaddaya think?
