So I messed up big Time, need to recover

[schttrj]

move on, buddy!

If that girl chose her ex before you, teh next thing you gotta do is make her CHASE you instead of chasing her. You don't need to play any game or outgame that guy. It's just that you, who moves on and enjoys his life and dates other women and is OBVIOUSLY more valuable than her ex, will make her chase you. but that being said, don't stop contact with her. Just keep minimal contact so that she is reminded that she missed out on a big catch.

 

[sosilky]

move on, buddy!

If that girl chose her ex before you, teh next thing you gotta do is make her CHASE you instead of chasing her. You don't need to play any game or outgame that guy. It's just that you, who moves on and enjoys his life and dates other women and is OBVIOUSLY more valuable than her ex, will make her chase you. but that being said, don't stop contact with her. Just keep minimal contact so that she is reminded that she missed out on a big catch.

This guy has a point which is why I mentioned earlier it would be good for you to finad another girl your interested in.

 

[Mr. Me]

Detach and move on. She's broken. Your relationship with her is broken. Having her back is not the answer. You're only asking for something that's broken to come back into your life. You're only asking the cause of your pain to return to you.

And develop some self-control. You can't be making "mean/immature remarks" to people you claim to love.

 

[sosilky]

Is this the same girl that accused you of stalking?

 

[sosilky]

lost him with that question