Idiot. I come home and some dude is with my woman, and I whoop his ass and he sues me and puts me in jail? You have got to be kidding me. It's little bytches like you are responsible for making this nation even more pussified with your lawsuits and charges. Just take an asswhipping like a man. Don't go pulling some bytch ass shyt like that. I'm not suppose to beat down a dude in my own damn house with my own damn woman? What, we gonna have a spot of tea and talk it over? Get the fvck outta here, with that lame ass internet tuff guy ****. When a man is wrong, he accepts it, learns from it and moves forward.Danger said:
So I got the crap beaten out of me last night
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haha, ya you see how sounds eh? That lame. No dude. That's just man law, you fvcking a mans wife, you get your ass beat. Law of the jungle. What the hell does this even mean?Danger said:
Um...no, he's beating a guys ass, not a womans. Your weak argument fails to stand up. You know it's wrong, you just won't admit it. It's okay. Never won a fight eh? Or lost one fair and square huh?
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You do sum f*cked up sh!t (no matter how justified you feel), you got payback comin.
You attack me with brass knuckles, all bets are off and it's do or die.
The OP did'nt know the chick he was screwin was married and he found out the hard way, The husband is justified in the attack as is the OP if he retailiates.
The "take the ass kickin like a man" is only valid if you're the one talkin sh*t, start A fight and end up gettin your a** whooped.
I would kick the guys a** but again, payback is a b!tch no matter what it is.
You attack me with brass knuckles, all bets are off and it's do or die.
The OP did'nt know the chick he was screwin was married and he found out the hard way, The husband is justified in the attack as is the OP if he retailiates.
The "take the ass kickin like a man" is only valid if you're the one talkin sh*t, start A fight and end up gettin your a** whooped.
I would kick the guys a** but again, payback is a b!tch no matter what it is.
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Dude did u ever ask her outright if she was married before you guys started seeing each other or was it just assumed cause you didnt see any ring?
There is so much bull**** in this thread , just thought I would add my 2cents and go ahead and say this is the guy you should be listening to. You need to call the police. Assault is not something to just let go , regardless of whether or not it was warranted. HE commited the crime, not YOU, and he should be punished for it. Also, I would tell her in a very straight forward way that you are through with her.Danger said:
Note to self, next time a woman flirts with me, does not mention a significant other, display an engagement/wedding ring and so on, does not necessarily mean she's not taken. In retrospect, if she had told me she was married, I would have still gone on and done the deed, but like Kontroller mentioned, I would have had the werewithal to atleast arrange liasions and motel nights.Pugsley_f5 said:
If I run into the husband, first thing I'll say is "no hard feelings, I got physical scars, but you got the raw end of the deal, but I still insist that you were not mentioned. This means that the crux of your problems lie with your woman, and her complete disregard for your marriage vows. Your marriage is at stake here, not vengeance".
If he approachs me in a threatening or confrontational manner after this, then yes, I will be obligated to defend myself and my honour, and will have absolutely no qualms about screwing her in the future to stick it to him.
I still hold that card, and will proceed to use it if it comes to be. As of now, I've fortunately not bumped into him. The ball is in his court, and the only thing holding me back is the fact that it is in a man's instinct is violence if he is led to believe he is cuckolded.FunnyMan said:
The OP understands it, because he's been through it. I understand it, because I've been through it, (which is why I know how stupid it is.) You on the other hand obviously have not. When you pop your married woman cherry, holla back.Danger said:
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Dude...these days people will shoot you for cheating on their wife/girl sorry but there aint no sex THAT good! I would steer clear personally...
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Is anything more AFC than going primate when you see your wife/gf/fb/whatever fvcking some other dude?
I don't know how I'd really react to this and many here don't know either, but trying to justify and defend such a behaviour is pretty lame and laughable.
Otherwise, you are all balanced men and everything :crackup:
I don't know how I'd really react to this and many here don't know either, but trying to justify and defend such a behaviour is pretty lame and laughable.
Otherwise, you are all balanced men and everything :crackup:
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dumba**es like that forget they're not little kids anymore and won't just get a timeout and grounded.
the dumba**es you hear about who go to jail for murder/attempted murder or who were beated half to death by their victim & his crew.
why sacrifice so much for sum woman who obviously does'nt give a damn about you anymore ?
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- And you'd be in jail for attempted muder/murder wondering why inmates are offering you candy bars.
- what did he steal ?
screwin a married woman is not a crime but assaulting someone is.
guys who feel their girlfriends/wives are property are most of the times the ones who are gettin cheated on.
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Why are you getting mad at the husband? Put yourself in his shoes...
Get mad at the wench in the middle that orchestrated this disaster.
Get mad at the wench in the middle that orchestrated this disaster.
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OK I'm trying to have a mature and unbiased look at the whole thing..that being said, a few points
*Should the OP sue and /or press charges against the assailant? IMHO the husband deserves to pay OP's med bills. At the least. When you become a lawless society, anarchy prevails. Whats next? If I leave my house unlocked and thieves steal my flat panel, I don't file charges because it was my fault for leaving my door unlocked?
*This estranged or should I say strange hubby needs anger management classes or meds. You can't take the law into your own hands. See above.
*Now when I've had ex-gf's cheat on me, and even though we weren't married, did I want to go ballistic? Of course...but I regained my coolness and considered consequences. Sitting in jail, getting sued and paying 12K of my annual wages for the next 10 yrs isn't worth the 30 seconds of adrenaline rush I got for beating the guy senseless.
*This woman that Semtex was banging, I would have thought that he would have done his due diligence esp. at work. Surely there would have been scuttlebutt about her status. Like "leave her alone, she's got a psycho hubby" and so on. Then again, as someone pointed out, even the most docile men become Mike Tyson when confronted with infidelity.
*Now this enraged husband was a total AFC....he likely played right into the wifes hand. After this whole ordeal, this drama queen was patting herself on the back, congratulating herself on a job well done. Remember the opposite of love isn't hate, its indifference. This husband, albeit violently, told her he still loves her without uttering a word.
I guess lick your wounds Semtex, its the school of hard knocks. Whatever road you choose from here on out, I for one will support you. Good luck to you regardless.
*Should the OP sue and /or press charges against the assailant? IMHO the husband deserves to pay OP's med bills. At the least. When you become a lawless society, anarchy prevails. Whats next? If I leave my house unlocked and thieves steal my flat panel, I don't file charges because it was my fault for leaving my door unlocked?
*This estranged or should I say strange hubby needs anger management classes or meds. You can't take the law into your own hands. See above.
*Now when I've had ex-gf's cheat on me, and even though we weren't married, did I want to go ballistic? Of course...but I regained my coolness and considered consequences. Sitting in jail, getting sued and paying 12K of my annual wages for the next 10 yrs isn't worth the 30 seconds of adrenaline rush I got for beating the guy senseless.
*This woman that Semtex was banging, I would have thought that he would have done his due diligence esp. at work. Surely there would have been scuttlebutt about her status. Like "leave her alone, she's got a psycho hubby" and so on. Then again, as someone pointed out, even the most docile men become Mike Tyson when confronted with infidelity.
*Now this enraged husband was a total AFC....he likely played right into the wifes hand. After this whole ordeal, this drama queen was patting herself on the back, congratulating herself on a job well done. Remember the opposite of love isn't hate, its indifference. This husband, albeit violently, told her he still loves her without uttering a word.
I guess lick your wounds Semtex, its the school of hard knocks. Whatever road you choose from here on out, I for one will support you. Good luck to you regardless.
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
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of course (i never said he did'nt deserve what he got) and if the OP decides to retaliate (by attackin the husband, chargin em with assault or suing em), than the husband deserves what he gets.
the laws don't just disappear when you justify your actions.
i have a nephew who's being charged with assault against another guy who said my nephew and a bunch of his friends attacked em, i called my nephew a dumba** when i found out.
no matter what the guy did to deserve the attack my nephew should've known that the guy would'nt just go away after being attacked.
Update...she approached me at work, on my lunch break, and I immediately told a colleague of ours to stay, so that Im never seen to be in a situation alone with her. It was very awkward and embarrassing and she was teary eyed, and as much as my workmate wanted to leave, I latched on to his hand and forced him to sit next to me.
She basically said she's getting a divorce.
I never responded except to say, "whatever course of action you do take, you must realize that you and I are completely through and have no relationship outside this professional environment". I was quite cold, and prompt. She raged and said "wtf?!, are you really going to resort to legalese on me you piece of scvm". I replied "Yes, I will resort to taking legal action if you continue to harass me." I adressed her by her last name, "Mrs Morris", and told her that we're no longer operating on a first name basis, and that she should address me by my last name and act professionally at all times with me. (When she walked out my co worker said that was a tad much and dramatic, lol).
Im thinking ahead and planning for worst case scenarios... if it comes to her switching it around and making it seem like I am chasing after her, I could stand to lose my job or worse if she pans out some sexual harassment suit. OTOH, I now have witnesses at work who will attest to the fact that she is the one harassing me. I have enough ammunition to file a complaint, and also get a restraining order. I intend to file a complaint with the management, bringing along several co-workers who can vouch for my story (it would be easy enough, since alot of my female colleagues hate her guts). LOL, it will be so weird though, when they hear me complain about being harassed by such a sexy bombshell, Im wondering if they would take me seriously ala that movie with Michael Douglas/Demi Moore.
My 2nd course of action will be restraining order, which I will have perfect grounds for, and the two actions together will definitely result in her losing her job.
I will update on Monday when I get back to work. Wish me luck fellas
She basically said she's getting a divorce.
I never responded except to say, "whatever course of action you do take, you must realize that you and I are completely through and have no relationship outside this professional environment". I was quite cold, and prompt. She raged and said "wtf?!, are you really going to resort to legalese on me you piece of scvm". I replied "Yes, I will resort to taking legal action if you continue to harass me." I adressed her by her last name, "Mrs Morris", and told her that we're no longer operating on a first name basis, and that she should address me by my last name and act professionally at all times with me. (When she walked out my co worker said that was a tad much and dramatic, lol).
Im thinking ahead and planning for worst case scenarios... if it comes to her switching it around and making it seem like I am chasing after her, I could stand to lose my job or worse if she pans out some sexual harassment suit. OTOH, I now have witnesses at work who will attest to the fact that she is the one harassing me. I have enough ammunition to file a complaint, and also get a restraining order. I intend to file a complaint with the management, bringing along several co-workers who can vouch for my story (it would be easy enough, since alot of my female colleagues hate her guts). LOL, it will be so weird though, when they hear me complain about being harassed by such a sexy bombshell, Im wondering if they would take me seriously ala that movie with Michael Douglas/Demi Moore.
My 2nd course of action will be restraining order, which I will have perfect grounds for, and the two actions together will definitely result in her losing her job.
I will update on Monday when I get back to work. Wish me luck fellas
