So I got hit with a candle...another psycho

[Lincoln]

I am the psycho attractor. Seems like EVERY woman I get with has some sort of deep daddy issues. Alcohol, abuser, drug user, bad role model, absent.... It is undoubtedly a pattern I have noticed and I need to take some steps to fix it. Just really not sure what to do or how to change my style and weed out these unstable women? Here is the story, if you have any ideas on how I can spot these women before I get somewhat involved please post.

I'm 23

Shes 19

I told her at the beginning that I'm not looking for a relationship with her, I am not going to settle down. I have other women and if I don't answer my phone when she calls I'm with someone else most likely. (Not all at once or like that, but I put it all out in the open)

I had sex with her 3 times and the first two were perfect, finish the business, throw the pants on and a forehead kiss and goodnight talk to you later (go to my own home)

The last time she BEGGED me to sleep in her bed, A.) it is a fullsize and my legs literally hang off past the knee. B.) I don't sleep in womens bed after I fvck them. (They can sleep in mine IF they want, but not vice versa) C.) Other than looks, I have no attachment to this girl.

So I talked myself out of it last time and that should have been a sign to take her number out of my phone and move on.

Well tonight I got some dirty texts from her and ended up going over to her house. We did our thing, I was putting on my pants and she starts crying? I thought maybe I hurt her because I am really rough...long story short I get a 5 minute ass chewing about how I use women and trample their hearts and crap. I started laughing and came up with a smart ass response to the effect of, "so since we've fvcked you want to go to Vegas tonight and get hitched? Get a nice house with a white picket fence...and a dog?"

WRONG thing to say, she picked up this HUGE burning glass candle and pegged me square in the back. I got splashed with hot wax all over my neck and arm. I made it out pretty well, I wanted to fall down and scream like a 2 year old...but I laughed it off and slowly walked to the door with her crying her eyes out.

In the grand total of 44 minutes I have been away from her I have 27 texts and 4 calls. Wow.

EDIT: and yah, I am really going to have a jacked up spot on my back. It is already bruising and i can't lay on my side. Great

 

[Dole]

Good read!
sorry for the pain

 

[styleman]

What a cow.

 

[Blackhole105]

I actually kinda feel bad for her

 

[iqqi]

She is the female version of an AFC.

She should have more self respect than to get involved with someone as self absorbed and careless as you. The fact you think so low of the women you sleep with and are intimate with, says a lot about you. Maybe have some consideration and sensitivity in the future, and you won't end up in a Thin Line Between Love and Hate situation.

Getting a candle thrown at you is just the tip of the iceberg when you play with emotions.

 

[j0n024]

...HAHAH it's true most of your post are funny iqiiq.

1. Why should he have to lie about what he wants out of a women? I dont think he wants to settle down yet and hey that's his choice not YOURS.

2. Why is it that when a guy ANYWHERE for that matter does something bad to a girl EVERY other girl comes out of the woodwork and sides with the girl for any little thing? Please tell me why this happens quiggly since you just did the same exact thing, you are defending a girl that you know nothing about and attacking a guy you know nothing about.

If this guy doesnt want to settle down that's his choice, hell I'm not ready to settle down does that make me a bad person? Hell does any guy that doesnt want to settle down evil or what quiggly, I will say that the guy did act arrogant at the end there and could have played it off a little better but it was his choice and he chose what to say and wanting more out of life then having to worry about a girlfriend or wife and kids is a BETTER LIFE since our society is going down hill and more then 80% of women cheat in their relationships anyways.

Hey sorry about your back and hopefully it doesnt scar but if it does I guess you will choose your words carefully next time.

 

[Guybrush]

Forget about iqqi. She's our little mascot.

Yeah dear, self-respect, your so right.


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Lincoln, I am really impressed by your cool demeanor especially after you got hit with a burning candle ( and your back was naked, I suppose?)

You don't seem like you are seeking advice, but I'd next her.

And I don't think it's nice to humiliate women, why don't you next her if she's a psycho?

 

[ksoileau]

Getting a candle thrown at you is just the tip of the iceberg when you play with emotions.

Translation: If a woman decides to do DV on a man, she can always use her emotions as an excuse. Boo.

 

[KontrollerX]

1. Never talk to, get with her, hang out with her ever again. She's done after doing this to you.

2. You should of called the cops and pressed charges on this cvnt for assault.

 

[j0n024]

Kontroller..

So she can pull the "Rape," card on him? I mean he WAS in her house and knowing the justice system of today the judge and everyone in the court room will take the girls side since he's a male and she is 19, its sad but true how society has fvcked up even justice in our country.

 

[NickSCFC2000]

This guys, is how NOT to be LBJF'd

I told her at the beginning that I'm not looking for a relationship with her, I am not going to settle down. I have other women and if I don't answer my phone when she calls I'm with someone else most likely. (Not all at once or like that, but I put it all out in the open)

I had sex with her 3 times and the first two were perfect, finish the business, throw the pants on and a forehead kiss and goodnight talk to you later (go to my own home)

The last time she BEGGED me to sleep in her bed, A.) it is a fullsize and my legs literally hang off past the knee. B.) I don't sleep in womens bed after I fvck them. (They can sleep in mine IF they want, but not vice versa) C.) Other than looks, I have no attachment to this girl.

So I talked myself out of it last time and that should have been a sign to take her number out of my phone and move on.

Well tonight I got some dirty texts from her and ended up going over to her house. We did our thing, I was putting on my pants and she starts crying? I thought maybe I hurt her because I am really rough...long story short I get a 5 minute ass chewing about how I use women and trample their hearts and crap. I started laughing and came up with a smart ass response to the effect of, "so since we've fvcked you want to go to Vegas tonight and get hitched? Get a nice house with a white picket fence...and a dog?"

WRONG thing to say, she picked up this HUGE burning glass candle and pegged me square in the back. I got splashed with hot wax all over my neck and arm. I made it out pretty well, I wanted to fall down and scream like a 2 year old...but I laughed it off and slowly walked to the door with her crying her eyes out.

In the grand total of 44 minutes I have been away from her I have 27 texts and 4 calls. Wow.

EDIT: and yah, I am really going to have a jacked up spot on my back. It is already bruising and i can't lay on my side. Great

For every AFC ponce who makes ho's feel a million dollars, there's a guy like you to put them right back in their place!

 

[NickSCFC2000]

Maybe have some consideration and sensitivity in the future, and you won't end up in a Thin Line Between Love and Hate situation.

So if Lincoln said right from the start that he wanted a relationship with her, do you honestly think she'd have wanted a relationship with him?

NO!

She only wanted a relationship with him because she couldn't have him.

Women always go on about wanting honest men who say what they feel, but when one finally comes along they hit them withg a candle!:crackup:

 

[DonGorgon]

Women trample on mens hearts all the time but god forbid they should get trampled on...LOL... i you hit her with a candle the cops would be all over

 

[Byezbozhniy]

Hmm, everytime I develop a conscious for making women cry I come here and suddenly am able to laugh at the whole thing. Thank you all.

 

[iqqi]

I think it was good he was upfront about what he wanted and didn't want, and that is one reason the girl is an AFC. I also think the chick has issues, a lot actually.

But when she started showing signs of catching feelings, his response was to say "I started laughing and came up with a smart ass response to the effect of, "so since we've fvcked you want to go to Vegas tonight and get hitched? Get a nice house with a white picket fence...and a dog?""

That was immature and very insensitive. A flame was burning and he just threw kerosene at it. Then gets mad he got burned!

There was no need to be so cold and evil to a chick you just slept with, and who has caught feelings for you. You could have handled that a lot more maturely. I don't think it was DJ at all. I don't think DJ's are assh0les just to be assh0les. The assh0les and jerks who do it just to be bad@sses, tend to be lacking as much as AFC's in the truly suave and finesse areas.

 

[KontrollerX]

Kontroller..

So she can pull the "Rape," card on him? I mean he WAS in her house and knowing the justice system of today the judge and everyone in the court room will take the girls side since he's a male and she is 19, its sad but true how society has fvcked up even justice in our country.

She could pull that card anyway and being a psycho she likely could or has considered this and could do it at any time.

It wouldn't look legitimate for him to try and get assault charges levelled against her after she pulls this kind of lie were she to do so.

In fact it would make him look like the liar in the whole situation.

So the main point of this is she could do this anyway whether he did press charges or not.

He'd be safer from her in theory by reporting her assault rather than just letting it go like it never happened.

Edit: And iqqi has a point about how you could've better handled this. I think you could of done a mock kind of patronizing of her emotions that she wouldn't of picked up on you could of been all sweet to what she said and replied "baby...baby...then you sit down next to her, put your arm around her and do your best to look reflective and then say what we did wasn't my using you, this was an act we agreed on together and it was...beautiful."

Then you get up, pat her on the shoulder and walk out the door.

Done.

 

[MikeEdward1973]

"so since we've fvcked you want to go to Vegas tonight and get hitched? Get a nice house with a white picket fence...and a dog?"

WRONG thing to say, she picked up this HUGE burning glass candle and pegged me square in the back.

Now you're even.