so i got drunk and had this text convo.

[Packers2010]

yes it's me again with the same girl i been texting. i have been busy so i haven't talked to her in awhile. so i decided to used the xmass line that go posted here. since i was drunk i just went with it.

to cut my drunken 100 text convo down to size. we got flirting and she described to me her sexcratery outfit to me. all is good. i try get her to go over. cos i am drunk and horny. no go she lives an hour away. i ask for the weekend but she has "responsibilities" ie she has to look after her kid. ( i really need to get better at club game so i can get more numbers)

we get to talking about her sexy outfits ( it's my thing) then she askes what i have. i said that i have a few dress shirts but the girl i'm with mostly wears those.

so then she askes if i have a gf. i say no i like to keep things simple, do you have a man in the house or do you like to keep beer and meat in the fridge for one that comes over.

well that pissed her off because THIS is the wall of text i got back word for word and i quote!

I'm in two minds about keeping it simple .. I've been the worst for it but it's quieting down now as i think it's bad that no one wants a relationship anymore.. everyone thinks marriage is crAP ( Inculding myslef ) nut why has it changed so much.. i don't get why people would rather sleep with as many people as they can rather then sleep with one person as many times as they can in many different ways.. makes no sence lol not old would you get laid whenever you want. not just every now and again. lol

my reply. ( being drunk and having one hand on my **** tryi g to have a fap sesh.)

i'm too drunk and honey for that conversation though i just got back from being in wales for 7 months so i couldn't maintain a relationship.

was we just talking about sexy outfits how did we get on the topic of relationships if you cook for me i will give you my thesis on it.


her reply
meh i don't want to talk about it. i've just been thinking about it occasionally... goes on to talk about outs again.

i then say.

good lets keep it that way! go find me some sexy outfits because the more you talk about serious stuff the more limp i get.

then being the drunk **** i am i send another text after that one.. you know to cover my basis. lol

your comment has got me thinking now... marriage has been fooked for awhile now but no one has really believe it. life is tough and most people can't deal with it so they take the easy option.

me i like to have choice. though your comment " sleep with one person as many times as you can in many diffident ways " are you saying you would rather have intamcy with just one or are you saying you would be kinky with just one.


i found it weired she would change her tune so quickly. though i think she now see me as a " player type " and not looking for a relationship. i mean shoot. i don't really know her enough for that plus she has a kid man!

at one point ealier in the convo she was right up for meeting saying have kinky sex could be fun. so now this crap.. looks like NC is coming sooner rather then later.

 

[Mike32ct]

Heinsight is always 20/20, but be careful to avoid any c&f that suggests that she s l u t s it up with other guys. She took offense because it suggested that she kept her refrigerator stocked for various dudes that come over or she only has a casual FWB.

The right frame is that she is only feeling horny and naughty FOR YOU. Of course they mess around with other guys, but that part must be left out of the conversations .

 

[Packers2010]

Heinsight is always 20/20, but be careful to avoid any c&f that suggests that she s l u t s it up with other guys. She took offense because it suggested that she kept her refrigerator stocked for various dudes that come over or she only has a casual FWB.

The right frame is that she is only feeling horny and naughty FOR YOU. Of course they mess around with other guys, but that part must be left out of the conversations .

thanks for the tip.

reading back threw the messages i think that's where i fooked up..


oh well.. just go NC on her for like a week and try again.

i've been getting a good response from my random messaging. just need to turn that into something now.

 

[Asasione]

so then she askes if i have a gf

I personally feel you didn't exploit this question well, you could have really gotten a fun vibe going and made her qualify to you as well as introduced kinky stuff. I'm not good at explaining since I don't put much thought into it, but you could have joked about her "applying" for the position and given her your standards in a joking way, and start on a story about how your ideal girl would be so great at "insert kinky stuff, but keep it simple as a start up" and ask what she would do to "hypothetically" for her man and so on. I'm sure you can imagine the possibilities, I usually don't pay much attention to the nonsense girls say as much as I look for opportunities to maximize fun for me.

 

[Packers2010]

I personally feel you didn't exploit this question well, you could have really gotten a fun vibe going and made her qualify to you as well as introduced kinky stuff. I'm not good at explaining since I don't put much thought into it, but you could have joked about her "applying" for the position and given her your standards in a joking way, and start on a story about how your ideal girl would be so great at "insert kinky stuff, but keep it simple as a start up" and ask what she would do to "hypothetically" for her man and so on. I'm sure you can imagine the possibilities, I usually don't pay much attention to the nonsense girls say as much as I look for opportunities to maximize fun for me.

that's not a bad idea either.. i was pretty drunk and all i wanted was for me to go over ( my house is **** for sexy time, so is her by the sounds of it.) and fook the **** out of her then pass out.

but that wasn't happening so i got pissed off i guess. should have gone for the fun value like at the stat.

though she has some kick ass outfits so i'll try next week i guess

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Heinsight is always 20/20, but be careful to avoid any c&f that suggests that she s l u t s it up with other guys. She took offense because it suggested that she kept her refrigerator stocked for various dudes that come over or she only has a casual FWB.

The right frame is that she is only feeling horny and naughty FOR YOU. Of course they mess around with other guys, but that part must be left out of the conversations .

Heinsight? Is that some German dude? :crackup:

 

[Mike32ct]

There's no spell check on here lol.

 

[backbreaker]

this doesn't make a god damn bit of difference.

man, I am not exaggerating when i say my old oneitis would talk about ****ing new sexual positions on the phone at 1am in the morning, the ****ing wheelbarrel lol were we just.. well use your imagination it's not that hard to figure out.

girls will talk about **** all day long. actions. not words.


see i learned something vauable with my oneitis. men get off on ****ing. women get off on knowing you want to **** them. ****ing you is just what most girls do to keep you around but the real sex for women is knowing you have to have them.

so basically she got her rocks off last night and you didnt'.

 

[JohnChops]

this doesn't make a god damn bit of difference.

man, I am not exaggerating when i say my old oneitis would talk about ****ing new sexual positions on the phone at 1am in the morning, the ****ing wheelbarrel lol were we just.. well use your imagination it's not that hard to figure out.

girls will talk about **** all day long. actions. not words.


see i learned something vauable with my oneitis. men get off on ****ing. women get off on knowing you want to **** them. ****ing you is just what most girls do to keep you around but the real sex for women is knowing you have to have them.

so basically she got her rocks off last night and you didnt'.

Fvckkkk thats gold BB. Makes sense, thats why if you show so much interest in fvcking them, you are screwed. Everything on the low, make them come to you with little investment shown on your part.

 

[VladPatton]

this doesn't make a god damn bit of difference.

man, I am not exaggerating when i say my old oneitis would talk about ****ing new sexual positions on the phone at 1am in the morning, the ****ing wheelbarrel lol were we just.. well use your imagination it's not that hard to figure out.

girls will talk about **** all day long. actions. not words.


see i learned something vauable with my oneitis. men get off on ****ing. women get off on knowing you want to **** them. ****ing you is just what most girls do to keep you around but the real sex for women is knowing you have to have them.

so basically she got her rocks off last night and you didnt'.

Very true.

If any of you watch Sons Of Anarchy, in the season finale, Jemma tells Nero that men want to be loved, while women want to be wanted.

Obviously this śhit is known!

 

[Packers2010]

Fvckkkk thats gold BB. Makes sense, thats why if you show so much interest in fvcking them, you are screwed. Everything on the low, make them come to you with little investment shown on your part.

sure i get what BB is saying. but how the fook do you do that.

at the time. i didn't really matter i mean. logistics was fooked for both of us.

i text her last night since i won some money at the cas i wanted to celabrate. got a text this morning. so. it's over.

i got this other girl off pof anyway. so.

ok. i just got the click in my head now. i get what you mean. tone DOWN the sexual stuff and she will think " why isn't he being sexual" and be sexual in return right?