So, how do you score "not easy" girls?

[Babnik]

If you think about it, any chick with self respect won't just submit herself to you because you're a DJ/PUA/Alpha or whatever else. At the same time tactics used by PUAs involves women submitting to men (and fairly quickly). If they don't submit then they are "next"ed. So, aren't you getting pretty much sluts?

If a chick doesn't want to come off as easy or disparate then she's going to have to do something that will make a PUA next her and forget her.

 

[Vice]

Don't talk about sex, kissing, hooking up, or getting into a relationship. (I made the mistake of asking a girl to be my girlfriend the night we hooked up, big mistake, I should have just let it pan out)

Let it just happen.

And for gods sake, get her wanting more from you. Tease her, when you kiss her, pull back first. Kiss her slowly, then move down to her neck, etc.

 

[Babnik]

I have serious doubts people here are mature enough to understand English, be able to comprehend posts, and answer questions. I get the most random answers...

 

[Vice]

That was an answer to the topic title.

Basically, I feel that quite alot of the guys who DO hook up with girls fairly quickly are either really good, or found girls that are "easy".

So yes, pretty much sluts. **** buddies. Not really relationship material, because just in getting in so quickly with you they show that they can do it with another guy with the same skill set and inner game as you.

The girls who are not easy, in my opinion, are the ones WORTH going after. "Nexting" in my opinion is just a shallow way of filtering the easiest possible lays balanced with good looking girls.

Hope this answers your question a bit better.

 

[DonGorgon]

If you think about it, any chick with self respect won't just submit herself to you because you're a DJ/PUA/Alpha or whatever else. At the same time tactics used by PUAs involves women submitting to men (and fairly quickly). If they don't submit then they are "next"ed. So, aren't you getting pretty much sluts?

If a chick doesn't want to come off as easy or disparate then she's going to have to do something that will make a PUA next her and forget her.

Well you have to offer her more than she is getting of being offered buy the other 200 man chasing her..

1. be better looking
2. be richer
3. better personality
4. be more generouse
5. cross all your fingers

 

[Solomon]

Well you have to offer her more than she is getting of being offered buy the other 200 man chasing her..

1. be better looking
2. be richer
3. better personality
4. be more generouse
5. cross all your fingers

ROFL @ DOn G

bwahahahhaa

 

[magickarl]

I think your missing the point. DJing on a whole goes beyond women. The goal is to become the best man that you can, and to learn to look at what you want and not be afraid to go after it.

If sluts happen to fall in your lap in the process, more power to you if your looking for some vag. Most guys are.

When it comes to classy ladies? The formula is the same, but the variables just change a bit. You've got to show a classy woman that you are equally classy. Notice how I didn't say act classy? Thats because you should already be striving to be classy, regardless of women. A lot of guys are under the impression that being a DJ means that you should develop some sort of contempt for women or cheapen them to make them more attainable. It's the wrong philosophy for women, and life in general. The idea isn't to lower the respect you have for other people, it is increase the respect people have for you.

Savvy?

 

[mtbbkr111]

Every girl is easy...


But on a serious note. If you are looking to be a pua, then a non-easy girl will eventually figure it out and leave you. If you are refering to the smart, non-easy type, it takes more than just a bunch of tricks to land her. You have to be able to talk to her on her level.

So next time you are in starbucks, you can either approach the hot blonde in the short skirt, playing with her hair and say something to make her laugh. Or you can approach the classy dressed girl reading and comment on the book she has in her hand...

 

[dadmonson]

I like this thread. I always become "buddies" with the not so easy girls at my college. How do I not let that happen? Or do I have to become buddies with her before I can move in for sex and/or a relationship ?


I want sex first and foremost but I'm not interested in the sluts because they aren't that pretty too me. After I have sex then I would probably be interested in pursuing a relationship. Can that be done with "not easy" girls?