So How Do You All Interpret Being Called "Fresh" by Some Women in terms of Dating?

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So I think I have an idea of what it implies but anyway here's the deal. Since I hurt my back from lifting very heavily at the gym a couple weeks ago and have been doing physical therapy, I was joking with one of my co-workers that I just hope that in the long run it doesn't make me develop a hunch back. She laughed and said, "Oh, no! A guy as fresh as you? If such a thing were to happen, what are the girls going to do?" And I laughed back as well. This particular co-worker is a married woman and we're just friends but I tell you...human nature is amazing. You have to be really strong especially in the corporate realm when you're a man because some of these women act like marriage means absolutely nothing to them. If you don't have strong values, you're in trouble.
 

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True that.

It sounds like she finds your "freshness" to be refreshing and fun, as if you've got your teasing dialed in pretty well.

But to your comment about women in the workplace, I've got a couple of them after me in one of my offices that I do business with. Just last Wednesday I came in for the first time since back surgery, stopped by the HR girl's office (she's married but we have incredible chemistry), her eyes lit up and got wide as saucers and she jumped up and hugged me like nobody's business. If this girl were single I would scoop her up in a split second. Massively feminine yet intelligent and totally non-slvtty.

I would hate to think of my own wife being so friendly to other guys in the work environment.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
True that.

It sounds like she finds your "freshness" to be refreshing and fun, as if you've got your teasing dialed in pretty well.

But to your comment about women in the workplace, I've got a couple of them after me in one of my offices that I do business with. Just last Wednesday I came in for the first time since back surgery, stopped by the HR girl's office (she's married but we have incredible chemistry), her eyes lit up and got wide as saucers and she jumped up and hugged me like nobody's business. If this girl were single I would scoop her up in a split second. Massively feminine yet intelligent and totally non-slvtty.

I would hate to think of my own wife being so friendly to other guys in the work environment.

hmm you say non-slutty, but the way you describe looks like she wouldn't care if you make her one, so I guess that is not truth :)

but having older married woman tossing compliments my way is not really a new thing, some I even wonder if i'm not feeling this wrong, but.... well I tell you its strange you wonder if you get one she would do it too, so why bother be serious she will do that?
 

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But what does the word "fresh" mean in this case? That's exactly what I'm curious about
 

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I wouldn't think too much over it, did she knows your age? she could think you are younger, or you are starting your dating life now, or you sure are younger then her, again don't think much over it
 

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Well, I'm 35 and based on the way she looks, we're either about the same range or she's between 29 and 33.
 

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Alvafe said:
hmm you say non-slutty, but the way you describe looks like she wouldn't care if you make her one, so I guess that is not truth :)

but having older married woman tossing compliments my way is not really a new thing, some I even wonder if i'm not feeling this wrong, but.... well I tell you its strange you wonder if you get one she would do it too, so why bother be serious she will do that?
I mean non-slutty in bearing and appearance. She's in her early to mid thirties and I can see that she has to "fight" the chemistry and attraction that sizzles between us.

I honestly think that I would not be able to turn her into one for an evening... and there are very few women I can say that about. She would get caught up for a bit and then come to her senses and refuse my almost irresistible charms. That's probably one reason I like and respect her as a woman. There is a definite attraction there that cannot be helped and yet I doubt she would act on it. That's the kind of woman I want.
 

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Listen, I've been called "fresh", "sexual", a "hornball", a "fiery Latino", a "perv", "hypersexual", etc, etc, etc...

Guess which one of those I paid attention to?

None of the above.

I was paying more attention to (insert chick here) body language than to whatever the blue hell was coming out of her mouth.
 

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Beats the piss out of them calling you a boring chump! They see you in a certain light favorable to you, so run with it.
 

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@Vlad Patton: Could you kindly elaborate just a bit more on what you said, if you don't mind?
 

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It seems a lot of women can be this way, until you get in a relationship with them. Then watch and see how "fresh" they are. To me, lots of them qualify as "the chase is better than the catch".
 

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Fresh means she wants to jump your pants. She's married, so the guys she's with is old, boring, predictable. You are the new untested hot bait.
 
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