So frustrated...

[Pipizito]

Hey! First post here, now to my question

 

[Pipizito]

Sorry, I posted too soon. Anyway --

I was never good with girls. I am 15 and never had a girlfriend. I have read and tried ALOT of things on this site.
Its pretty easy for me to talk to ANY girl but after that, I screw it up. So what happened was this, I met this girl at a party at 3 am. She was pretty hot and seemed really cool. I started flirting with her, using kino as hell and we were really into each other.
We didnt hook up there but almost. Always giving massages, kisses and using kino one with each other. So, she invinted me to go to the club. I thought "Cool, gonna hook up with her there"
Was happy as hell. When I get to the club she starts talking to her friend and 10 minutes later is hooking with him! I mean like, wtf? Is she just a *****? Should I still try to hook with her? Many thanks!

Thanks for the replies and excuse the long post.

 

[Bradshaw]

I was never good with girls &
...after that, I screw it up.

I'm sure you'll solve this soon enough. Try not to label yourself as someone who is bad with females. Remind yourself that if was just a skill deficiency, not a problem with you as a person.

When I get to the club she starts talking to her friend and 10 minutes later is hooking with him!

one word.... NEXT.

Should I still try to hook with her?

I wouldn't waste any more energy on her. Focus on improving your ability to handle all women. (ie not just trying to figure out one girl in particular)

 

[Pipizito]

Originally posted by Bradshaw
I'm sure you'll solve this soon enough. Try not to label yourself as someone who is bad with females. Remind yourself that if was just a skill deficiency, not a problem with you as a person.

Cool. Thanks man!

one word.... NEXT.

Damn, that was what I was guessing. Really hot the girl, oh well, plenty fish in the sea.

I wouldn't waste any more energy on her. Focus on improving your ability to handle all women. (ie not just trying to figure out one girl in particular)

Sounds like good advice. Thanks man!


This girl said she wanted to go to the beach with me today and asked my cell number. If she gives me a call should I say no?

EDIT- She just called and said "Do you wanna come to my house? (Name of the guy he hooked with) is coming, but you can come too if you want.." I just kept thinking "Damn *****!" but said "No thanks, gonna play paintball with a bunch of friend." This girl is suck a slut its unbelivable!

 

[Bradshaw]

Originally posted by Pipizito
She just called and said "Do you wanna come to my house? (Name of the guy he hooked with) is coming, but you can come too if you want.." I just kept thinking "Damn *****!" but said "No thanks, gonna play paintball with a bunch of friend." This girl is suck a slut its unbelivable!

Sounds like she craves attention. She probably wants to flirt with both of you and make you two compete over her.

Also, I don't know if you have checked but there is a high school forum. You would probably find feedback there that is more relevant to your situation in life. Not that handling women varies that much when you get older, it is just that high school usually has its own set of problems:
-popularity contests
-rumors
-girls only dating older guys with cars
-in crowd and out crowd

Have fun at paintball!

 

[Pipizito]

Originally posted by Bradshaw
Sounds like she craves attention. She probably wants to flirt with both of you and make you two compete over her.

Also, I don't know if you have checked but there is a high school forum. You would probably find feedback there that is more relevant to your situation in life. Not that handling women varies that much when you get older, it is just that high school usually has its own set of problems:
-popularity contests
-rumors
-girls only dating older guys with cars
-in crowd and out crowd

Have fun at paintball!

He is definitly winning, I dont care though.

Yeah, sorry, I should have posted this there. Is there anyway to move this thread to there?

Thanks man, def. will!