Worrying about your looks will do much more to hold you back than your actual looks will. Looks are really irrelevant. I wouldn't even give your appearance a second thought, personally. Your vibe is the important thing. The energy that you project about yourself. That's the main thing women respond to.
I'm probably the fugliest guy on this forum. Maybe not necessarily from a genetics standpoint but from how little effort I put into my appearance. I'm dirty, scruffy, fat, short, and my hair looks like sh1t. And to top it off, I'm going bald. But the overwhelming lack of a fvck that I give about what I look like is exactly what works for me. I'm extremely comfortable with myself. And that's what will make women comfortable being with you. What you project, they'll reflect. If you seem unsure of yourself or self-conscious about how you're coming across, they'll pick up on that and they'll feel it as well. But if you honestly just don't care and have a naturally relaxed and self-amusing vibe about you, they'll naturally be a lot more comfortable with you and drawn to you.
In short, just relax and be awesome. Know that you're awesome because you like yourself. In the end, that's really all you need. Once you finally reach that point and internalize that concept, you'll laugh at how much time you used to put into this stuff. It will seem so easy.
