Because I'm in deep ****.
Listen, guys.
As she pointed out, today we've been together for about 2 months (as I estimated about 2 to 4, not being sure; I try to focus on quality rather). We are both 19, she had more relationships than me, one of 1 and half year, loved once and did most of the crazy, romantic stuff you've seen in romantic movies. But no sex. And hell, one of her ex-boyfriends even prepared her a bath of champagne! That's about 100 litres of champagne, for god's sake!
I got laid once, but I'm very open-minded about all this sex stuff. I know a thing or two about female psychology and most important of all, I am ready to take the responsability of being her first. And I'm also in love with her.
A few days ago we played a little game that had us take a sip of vodka every time a said statement wasn't true. As I was driving, I couldn't drink, but to get in the game, I faked everytime. Being a drinking game, the statements were a lot into sexual stuff, and the obvious "I had never masturbated" was also present. Being a statement that would make everyone of us get smashed I didn't paid attention if she took the sip. "Of course she took!" I thought.
Yesterday we were playing in the back seat of my car and we started talking about the game. Among the blahs, blahs, blahs, "I don't remember a ****" she told me she couldn't have taken that sip because she never had masturbated. Of course, the question "Have you ever masturbed?" was out of the place in a relationship because the answer would had been "Yes. What do you think, I'm Virgin Mary?". A "Do you masturbate with your right hand or with your left?" or "Do you wet your fingertips from your mouth or from your vagina?" would had been more appropiate. Or that's what I've been thought. Now, I was somehow amused of this fact, I started making fun of her ("Yeah, right. Look, when I'm leaving the house to meet you, I have 65 kilos. When I'm back I'm 66. Guess why I have to masturbate"), then trying to convince her that "It's ok to tell me, I'm your boyfriend." and finally "... are you serious?". As I was concerned about all this sexual stuff, I continued asking her and found out she wasn't ever curious to masturbate, never received oral sex (and imagine she took a bath of champagne! That's about 100 litres of champagne, for god's sake!) and had orgasm only once (I really wonder how). While I was ready to be her first guy to penetrate, I don't think I'm ready to be the first one to tell her "Look, this is your ****oris. It's fun to play with."
I understood the idea of "I'm still a virgin because I didn't met the right person, yet" but "I never masturbated because I was never curious" could make a stand if she had been about 14-15 years old. Not 19, for God's sake!
I followed most of the tips when dealing with virgins. Here's the feedback.
1. "Make her trust you" - she fel pretty awkward when she found out that I performed oral sex. She imagined what I would like to gave oral sex to someone. And I asked her why the hell she didn't imagined I gave her oral sex. She said she couldn't imagined that!
2. "Assure her it's ok for you" - told her. She said "ok, what? It's not like I'm on the Titanic on the verge of sinking. I'm just a virgin and never masturbated, what's the problem?" ... ... ... "No problem, honey, just make sure the seal it's safe untill the wedding night" (didn't actually told her this)
3. "Don't be that pushing" - Now that's in improvement in her so-called-sexual life. At first I was a pretty pressing, but now, after 2 months I can freely play her nipples with my tongue and, maaaaaaan, what a great amount of bodily sensations can it trigger. She told me she never got so intimate with a person in such short time. Happy me...
4. Romantic stuff. - At first, we broke up because I wasn't that romantic, but she messaged me and got together one week after, but now I'm handling pretty good this stuff.
This message is more like a whining. And one to post your opinions. Is she really worth it? (she told me she is very self-confident in what she can offer. A pizza and a Dr. Pepper, please!).
An alternative question is one that's not so specific. When I'm playing with her nipples, I can see how her body is having involuntary contractions, she is moaning, her legs are very tied among my torso, she is scratching my back but after 5-10 minutes, when all the contractions are intensifying she suddenly pulls my head off ... and that's the end of the foreplay. I encountered this before on other girls, but I'm not sure why the females are doing this. And how can I convince her to let me continue?
Best regards,
Your worried possible-next-Saint Joseph
Listen, guys.
As she pointed out, today we've been together for about 2 months (as I estimated about 2 to 4, not being sure; I try to focus on quality rather). We are both 19, she had more relationships than me, one of 1 and half year, loved once and did most of the crazy, romantic stuff you've seen in romantic movies. But no sex. And hell, one of her ex-boyfriends even prepared her a bath of champagne! That's about 100 litres of champagne, for god's sake!
I got laid once, but I'm very open-minded about all this sex stuff. I know a thing or two about female psychology and most important of all, I am ready to take the responsability of being her first. And I'm also in love with her.
A few days ago we played a little game that had us take a sip of vodka every time a said statement wasn't true. As I was driving, I couldn't drink, but to get in the game, I faked everytime. Being a drinking game, the statements were a lot into sexual stuff, and the obvious "I had never masturbated" was also present. Being a statement that would make everyone of us get smashed I didn't paid attention if she took the sip. "Of course she took!" I thought.
Yesterday we were playing in the back seat of my car and we started talking about the game. Among the blahs, blahs, blahs, "I don't remember a ****" she told me she couldn't have taken that sip because she never had masturbated. Of course, the question "Have you ever masturbed?" was out of the place in a relationship because the answer would had been "Yes. What do you think, I'm Virgin Mary?". A "Do you masturbate with your right hand or with your left?" or "Do you wet your fingertips from your mouth or from your vagina?" would had been more appropiate. Or that's what I've been thought. Now, I was somehow amused of this fact, I started making fun of her ("Yeah, right. Look, when I'm leaving the house to meet you, I have 65 kilos. When I'm back I'm 66. Guess why I have to masturbate"), then trying to convince her that "It's ok to tell me, I'm your boyfriend." and finally "... are you serious?". As I was concerned about all this sexual stuff, I continued asking her and found out she wasn't ever curious to masturbate, never received oral sex (and imagine she took a bath of champagne! That's about 100 litres of champagne, for god's sake!) and had orgasm only once (I really wonder how). While I was ready to be her first guy to penetrate, I don't think I'm ready to be the first one to tell her "Look, this is your ****oris. It's fun to play with."
I understood the idea of "I'm still a virgin because I didn't met the right person, yet" but "I never masturbated because I was never curious" could make a stand if she had been about 14-15 years old. Not 19, for God's sake!
I followed most of the tips when dealing with virgins. Here's the feedback.
1. "Make her trust you" - she fel pretty awkward when she found out that I performed oral sex. She imagined what I would like to gave oral sex to someone. And I asked her why the hell she didn't imagined I gave her oral sex. She said she couldn't imagined that!
2. "Assure her it's ok for you" - told her. She said "ok, what? It's not like I'm on the Titanic on the verge of sinking. I'm just a virgin and never masturbated, what's the problem?" ... ... ... "No problem, honey, just make sure the seal it's safe untill the wedding night" (didn't actually told her this)
3. "Don't be that pushing" - Now that's in improvement in her so-called-sexual life. At first I was a pretty pressing, but now, after 2 months I can freely play her nipples with my tongue and, maaaaaaan, what a great amount of bodily sensations can it trigger. She told me she never got so intimate with a person in such short time. Happy me...
4. Romantic stuff. - At first, we broke up because I wasn't that romantic, but she messaged me and got together one week after, but now I'm handling pretty good this stuff.
This message is more like a whining. And one to post your opinions. Is she really worth it? (she told me she is very self-confident in what she can offer. A pizza and a Dr. Pepper, please!).
An alternative question is one that's not so specific. When I'm playing with her nipples, I can see how her body is having involuntary contractions, she is moaning, her legs are very tied among my torso, she is scratching my back but after 5-10 minutes, when all the contractions are intensifying she suddenly pulls my head off ... and that's the end of the foreplay. I encountered this before on other girls, but I'm not sure why the females are doing this. And how can I convince her to let me continue?
Best regards,
Your worried possible-next-Saint Joseph
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