Slvtty Women + Missed Opportunities + Being Straight Forward

[Buddha_Mind]

Nothing shell shocking here by any regards, but a few observations from today:

(1) It seemed like every chick in the grocery store was slvtty--some of these young early twenty girls are the worst, totally clueless and just wh0res for attention--today I honestly was at a low place of patience and just couldn;t believe how dumb so many girls in my generation are. I literally have NO IDEA what they value or truly desire...it seems like most of them are just shells or caverns for what others have told them to be...an intelligent independent woman is a tough thing all together, and fvck, the state of things today, an intelligent independent woman might just try and cut off your head after she fvcks you, like a praying-mantis post-mate.

(2) A woman outside of the library, well a 'girl', shes in her twenties, I saw last week and she made an off-color joke that I didn't even understand until an hour later, which I'm pretty sure the joke related to my penis.

She was holding two zuchinni and I saw her and said, "Oh some zuchinni action going on there huh?"

And she said, "yeah..I got one special zuchinni from Buddhas (insert my name) garden..." and then she pulled out this massive zuchinni that looked like a huge dong, lol. I had no idea what she was talking about. When she mentioned my name I literally thought she was referring to someone's garden who shared the same name..

LOL man I hate it when I just don't get another person's jokes--I take sh1t so literally that her little sexual comment flew right over my head.

Oh well, live and learn.

But dam.n what a fvcked up world.

I'd rather her say, "hey want to come home???" lol -- I prefer straight forward over all of this complexity.

I saw a chick at the grocery store who was working on her computer and I was half tempted to just straight up say, 'hey you live around here? want to go kick it at your place?'

Does being straight forward work for any of you? That is, just stating outright "hey want to get down" or "hey want to have sex?" -- does that ever work for any of you? I am wondering if it's better and easier just to be upfront and honest about sh1t and just say what you're looking for.

IF you want to smoke a joint with a friend, you just ask. If you want to go do X or Y or Z with someone, you just say it -- why not just say it with women?

 

[therussian]

sh1t bro i feel you. i'm very straightforward and a lot of time that gets me in some trouble and/or complications with women. it sucks, i know. some women though prefer that blunt communication and when i meet a chick like that then its on like donkey kong. you can say pretty much anything to a girl like that and its cool. most of the time, however, you have to play bs games even when both you and the girl know that you want to fvck each other. stupid, but thats how it is.

i'm russian (if you can't tell from my name) but i live in the states half my life. in europe and russia its so much easier to pull girls than in the states. everyone there is just so much more sexually liberated than here. i can't count how many times i've told girls straight up after having a short convo with them that i wanted to just go and fvck them. guess what.. almost nobody took any offense and about half were down and the other ones just shut me down, which is cool, but it was drama free. everyone knows that everyone wants to get laid. its not some secret or a feeling that you're trying to "use" the girl for sex.. what a load of sh1t that is.

 

[doctorj]

in most parts of the world, girls just like to use covert communication...it has been that way since God knows when

what you want is similar to Alan Currie's Mode One...where you're just direct

 

[SamTheHobit]

It's called seduction..

And it takes time.

 

[Packers2010]

sh1t bro i feel you. i'm very straightforward and a lot of time that gets me in some trouble and/or complications with women. it sucks, i know. some women though prefer that blunt communication and when i meet a chick like that then its on like donkey kong. you can say pretty much anything to a girl like that and its cool. most of the time, however, you have to play bs games even when both you and the girl know that you want to fvck each other. stupid, but thats how it is.

i'm russian (if you can't tell from my name) but i live in the states half my life. in europe and russia its so much easier to pull girls than in the states. everyone there is just so much more sexually liberated than here. i can't count how many times i've told girls straight up after having a short convo with them that i wanted to just go and fvck them. guess what.. almost nobody took any offense and about half were down and the other ones just shut me down, which is cool, but it was drama free. everyone knows that everyone wants to get laid. its not some secret or a feeling that you're trying to "use" the girl for sex.. what a load of sh1t that is.

this is how it should be! why dose it have to b so complicated

 

[Buddha_Mind]

It's called seduction..

And it takes time.

I hear you man--but do you know what I'm trying to say here? Why the covert jargon--why not just be upfront--what is it about the elaborate game that stimulates people's 'sexuality' that matter-of-factness wouldn't?

Her comment at the time totally went over my head. Unfortunately this happens to me a lot because I think with women, I can be prone to a cluelessness...wiser now adays..but I still surprise myself with my ignorance.

I'm just saying--I prefer the straight forward--it doesn't "ruin" it for me...I don't like these intense mental games.