Slvts, wh0res, etc.

[Superman X]

Calling girls slvts or wh0res is not something a DJ should do. And for those of you who know me, I'm far from being a feminist. Here are the reasons why you shouldn't use these words...

1. It inhibits her sexuality. If you're calling other girls who sleep with guys wh0res, then she's going to think you'll lose respect for her if she sleeps with you. ASD kicks into high gear and you get "I'm not that kind of girl" excuses.

2. Words like these are often used as a way for AFCs who've been burned by girls to strike back at them. This is pointless. If a girl does something to piss you off, next her. 99.9% will go away. If she continues to aggravate you, get her to hit you so you can put her in a fvckin full nelson and make her eat ****roaches.

What you should do: This is especially true for guys who rely heavily on C+F like myself. When a girl starts talking about how another girl is such a wh0re, tell her that you don't think it's right to call a girl that just because she is sexually active. Say that you believe that there's really nothing wrong with a girl having sex, and that you don't think that it reduces her value in any way to have a sexual relationship. Tell her that it's ridiculous that guys don't have to suffer any social stigma for having sex, but girls get ridiculed and hated by their friends for doing something as natural as eating and breathing.

btw, this is all true. If you think that a girl is worth less because she's had sex before, this is just stupid. Even if you think that virgins are somehow more sexually valuable, you should still tell your girl this so she won't guess what an outdated idiot you are.



-Dan

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

Wow are you sure you're only 17!? I can't believe you have such a mature mentality already!! I can only imagine how the other guys are going to flame you for this one, but I totally agree with you on all points!!

 

[Da Game]

Hm, good point. I agree.

 

[James Cox IV pn outc]

Good post i applaude you

 

[SuSHI]

I geuss using words like slvt and such are a reflection of a person's insecurity.
I know I've used it one too many times.

But, if you were to use a term like that in a none negative way, then its totally ok. Like pook once said, women are all slvts, thats because they love sex as much as men do. And we all know how horney guys are...I know I am!

You shouldn't use a girl's sexuality to put her down, but you should not ignor it either.Thats the root of an AFC, he ignors a girls's sexuality and puts her on a pedestal, viewing her as pure and innocent in everyway...PUKE

SuSHI.

 

[oreo_renegade]

Originally posted by Superman X
Calling girls slvts or wh0res is not something a DJ should do.

Of course not!

All girls are "sluts" and "*****s" by the definition of the word, from a societies standpoint.

And a DJ, a DJ shouldn't say things that everyone already knows. So no reason to single out girls and call them sluts, of course they are "sluts," but you dont need to stop and tell them they are females, just like you dont need to tell them they are sexually active.




I like the part when you make a girl realize hat being sexually active around you is okay, and that you wont judge her.

This is VERY important if you are planning on getting some, you get across the message(if not with words) that its okay to be sexual with you, she will jump at the chance.

Oh who knows, depending on how much of a woman she is, she might jump on something else !

 

[seloifter]

hey, I've never called a girl anything like that to her face, and I am of the opinion that sexually activeness is very healthy for both sexes (and our society is a horrible catalyst for discouragement of this..... god damn puritan backgrounds)....... but the horrible truth is that some girls ARE worthy of the title slut.....
these are the girls with severe emotional problems who believe their only worth is the hole between their legs (and sometimes the lumps of fat hanging off their chests) ((did I just ruin those concepts for ya ), and therefore feel the need to exort those to any guy who is willing to reassure her that she's pretty and desirable. I've had experiences with these kinds of chicks..... and it makes me feel dirty.

it's a nice concept to be in the attitude of "sex is great and chicks rule"..... but there is a nasty truth behind this idea..... sorry.

 

[Smooth as Anything]

I'll be sure to make note of that when your future wife cheats on you at a ******* festival.

Don't make laws, set rules -- rules are meant to be broken while laws have consequences.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

666 the number..of the beast..hell and fire...sorry I'm listening to the song and its bad ass.

Good Point man. And that little pshycology helped the post seem more reasonable.

 

[Cloud-uk]

lol, well I guess someone has to disagree...

Some girls are sluts and *****s. Sorry, but thats just my opinion. I'm not talking about girls who have had sex, thats crazy. But I know girls who will sleep with anything. Disgustingly ugly guys, guys that smell really odd and they don't care if its their friends guy or what ever. I know girls that sleep with guys because they, in their own words "like to **** people up". Guy ends up emotionally hurt (maybe an AFC thing, but its still not cool) and she's just happy because she's made an impact.

These girls are sluts. Best not to touch with a barge pole. There's a difference between this and sexually active. Guys that **** around with their mate's girls get branded *******s. Girls that do it are called sluts. Thats just how **** works. I despise their lack of loyalty to their friends, and so to me a few individuals I've met have been sluts and *******s.

Its no loss to me, I just avoid them, but you cant say you can never call a girl a slut. Sorry superman X and sexy malibu, but in my opinion their are sluts. Whether you should go around the place calling them sluts to their faces is another matter- its kinda rude and not very suave. Still, thats a rule, not a law-as smooth as anything says.

I'm open to changing my ideas of course, but don't flame me because I've said that some women are sluts. As I have said before, in a thread that I got a bit torched over, there are idiots, *******s, *****es and sluts around. They might be that way because of crappy upbringing or some deep emotional problems, but its not your job to sort them out. Leave that to proffesionals. But if you go out into the real world *****footing around the issue, saying their "open with their sexuality"...well... I can see that you'll either look kinda switched off, or you'll get hurt.

...is that the smell of matches and gasoline?

 

[Superman X]

Sexy, oreo and the other smart people who agree with me...that's another reason why I tell girls this. Most of the time I act really immature, with C+F, doing crazy things, etc. Like the other day I threw a fork into the ceiling at work. It was funny as hell looking at the manager trying to figure out how it got there, but if I only acted like that around girls they'd think that I had some kind of developmental problem.

To Cloud-uk and seiolifter-

You both agree that you shouldn't call a girl a slut to her face, but I'm saying that you shouldn't call other girls sluts around her or let her do so.

Even if you are of the belief that some girls are sluts, it should be crystal clear to you that you should not harp on how Jane down the street is such a ho if you plan on laying this chick.

This may seem obvious as a horse's ass but I've actually seen guys talk about other girls being wh0res or whatever in front of their gfs or dates.

And if you think a girl's worth less because she has sex with lots of people, I don't get that. Who cares if she does, it has nothing to do with you. You're a DJ, your not going to be emotionally hurt because you won't seet this girl as an LTR prospect. But it isn't really important that you think this, what's important is that whatever you think, you don't talk about girls being hoes when your on a date


And Smooth...whatever. It's just something you shouldn't do either way. And by the way, what the hell is a ******* festival?

-Dan
-Dan

 

[Psycho`Sexual]

Originally posted by Superman X
Even if you are of the belief that some girls are sluts, it should be crystal clear to you that you should not harp on how Jane down the street is such a ho

Judge not, lest ye be judged.

 

[Cloud-uk]

ah! Sorry I see where your coming from now. If your talking with a girl I agree that calling other girls (lol, and her) sluts isn't good for business. Its being negative, and sounds insecure and needy- like you have to bring people down to your level or something. I'm with ya now. Oh and it might bring up this whole "girls who get arround get called sluts, guys who get arround get called players" thing. Heh heh, not somewhere I'd really like to go on the first date...

Don't people who are critical and judgemental of everyone/thing get on your tits? Lol, kinda like some of those spelling and grammar freaks we have here! But I still think there are sluts, and whatever are are best avoided.

I don't agree that all girls are sluts, all girls (well, I'm sure you'll be able to find one that doesn't) enjoy sex and are horny a lot of the time. But some girls will do it with anything resembling a stick. And they're probably users, emotional wrecks, or mouldy. Less thought about that the better

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Originally posted by Superman X
And by the way, what the hell is a ******* festival?

-Dan
-Dan

It is when like 50 guys ejackulate on one girls face.

It's done in asia.

--she also drinks it.

 

[HeyPretty]

Hey SuperManX

Calling girls nasty names in public: Bad

Calling girls nasty names while you're getting nasty: Delicious in my book.

But don't try it without permission.

 

[Superman X]

hahahaha Smooth my family never taught me about that part of Asian culture.

And HeyPretty, now we're getting into something completely different. I read about this in Sir Chancealot's sexual techniques post, but all the girls who I've been with liked romantic/pattern type talk. Or so it seemed...

How exactly would you find out if a girl liked to be called a slut or whatever in the bedroom? Obviously no girl is ever going to tell you this and if you ask if she likes it she's going to deny it until she gets blue in the face. The only way I can see to find out is to just start doing it, which would suck in the case that she doesn't like it.

-Dan