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betterthandead

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Props to you for trying to make a move, too bad she had low interest. Sometimes we get fooled and stuff, but it's better taking a risk than not because at least you know so you won't waste anymore time thinking about her.

PS. Girls who make it easy doesn't mean she has high interest in you either, it could mean she's desperate just to get in a relationship. Some girls and guys are like that like your parents and mines too.
 

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they fellas, an update... i haven't talked to the girl or answered her msg's, but a strange thing happened 2 nights ago, she showed up at my place with a tray of peanut butter cookies and we made out all night, i'm seeing her again tomorrow.

go figure :nervous:
 

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Tris said:
they fellas, an update... i haven't talked to the girl or answered her msg's, but a strange thing happened 2 nights ago, she showed up at my place with a tray of peanut butter cookies and we made out all night, i'm seeing her again tomorrow.

go figure :nervous:
Does Peanut Butter Cookies qualify as bait ?
Maybe - add a huge helping of 'making out' and you got yourself a Tris right back on the hook.
I guess we will wait for your next development when you tell us how she really is "the one" and she is all over you ..and then we will probably read the post after that in which you are telling us that she has pulled away again and you are bewildered all over again.....and so on and so forth ..
 

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I don't know if its because its early or if I'm in a bad mood but I feel really sorry for you. I think your situation is pretty pathetic. You've completely let this women walk all over you. More importantly, you hardly know her, have hardly spent any time with her.

At least all of the AFC's on the site have been in love & had relationships with their oneitis, whereas you allow this girl to leave you stranded on the street wondering where she is, not responding to your calls / messages.

I bet she laughs to her friends about you joking around about what a chump you are.

Can you answer one question for me.

Do you really believe this women has your best intesest at heart?
 

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sorry dude i don't mean to upset you, but the cookies were good.

this has never happened to me before, i don't know what i'm doing. I took everyone's advice seriously, i didn't return calls or msg's and she showed up at my door, i couldn't resist.

Maybe she doesn't have my best interest at heart, but shouldn't i find that out? Believe me i don't want to turn this into a 30 page saga, i just wanted to tell you guys what happened, i'm as confused as anyone.

trying to belittle me doesn't really help
 

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Tris said:
i don't know what i'm doing. I took everyone's advice seriously,
Ok, first of all you didn't take everyone's advice seriously, you ignored practically all of the important advice. You've since gone and edited out how she completely disrespected you in a lame attempt to not make yourself look like a complete fool for allowing her to play you.


Tris said:
i didn't return calls or msg's and she showed up at my door, i couldn't resist.
Now that I'm done sh1tting on you, lets try and look at the positives. Look at what happened when you did take some of our advice. It worked out for you in your favour. Do you see that?

The stuff that we spew on here actually works, its been field tested thousands of times. We've all been in your shoes, thats how we know what we are talking about, we've experienced it, this isn't just some sh1t that we sit around & make up, this playbook was put together with our blood, sweat & tears.

So until your ready to truly listen & take control of your life, its going to hold you back. Sure love is great, and being giddy is great, but look at how your going into this

Tris said:
she doesn't have my best interest at heart,
You basically know that she's like poison and do you want us in good conscious expect us to help you poison yourself?

Tris said:
trying to belittle me doesn't really help
I apologize but I felt like you needed a kick in the teeth. Your oblivious to how she treated you because your brainwashed, you've spent the last 4 years brainwashing yourself what a great catch she is.

How many women have you seen in the last 4 years? Tell us more about your experience with women.
 

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same thing all over two days later :rolleyes:
 

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mtnkng said:
Um...what woman has our best interest at heart?
A woman that proves she genuinely cares about you over time with her actions matching her affectionate words.
 
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