ok guys heres the deal.
when you finally are worthy and experienced enough to think you can handle a LTR. you need to remember something that i find to be quite important in keeping said LTR.
slow down
chill out
take a fvckin valium
okay? capishe? way too many of my friends even think they are going slow when in reality they have the throttle wide open.
ive seen lots of questions on the boards lately pertaining to things like "when should i ask her to be my girlfriend?" and "when should i clarify where the relationship is going?"
my answer. whats your hurry?
if you intend on spending a lot of time together in the future with this LTR then you better be spoon feeding her at the beginning and making her atempt to bring the relationship to the next level.
women must ALWAYS be the ones to signal a move to the next level otherwise they arent ready to give up the chase. when they are tired of the chase and have gotten enough enjoyment from chasing your money ass THEN they will signal its time to move up a step.
even then you dont have to if you dont want to.
but, once a relationship of some kind has been established, and i want to move on to LTR status (which isnt very often cuz i personally dont like having a girlfriend, but would rather have fun while im young), i will pull away and give the woman the impression she might be losing me. this creates a reflex action in her that makes her want to move to the next level.
and just because you arent going out yet doesnt mean you can still act like you are!
dont act all boyfriend like just yet fellas. you're a free man and you have to act like it until you're no longer a free man so to speak.
never give up the game and get comfortable cuz you're ass will be packin and your head will be spinning wondering how you destroyed the 95% IL she had.
us guys love to get comfortable and open up once we think we're in. you gotta hold that sh!t back and stay strong. let her have her fun and sacrifice your own pleasure for a while until the time is right. then you can move on without destroying the relationship.
when you finally are worthy and experienced enough to think you can handle a LTR. you need to remember something that i find to be quite important in keeping said LTR.
slow down
chill out
take a fvckin valium
okay? capishe? way too many of my friends even think they are going slow when in reality they have the throttle wide open.
ive seen lots of questions on the boards lately pertaining to things like "when should i ask her to be my girlfriend?" and "when should i clarify where the relationship is going?"
my answer. whats your hurry?
if you intend on spending a lot of time together in the future with this LTR then you better be spoon feeding her at the beginning and making her atempt to bring the relationship to the next level.
women must ALWAYS be the ones to signal a move to the next level otherwise they arent ready to give up the chase. when they are tired of the chase and have gotten enough enjoyment from chasing your money ass THEN they will signal its time to move up a step.
even then you dont have to if you dont want to.
but, once a relationship of some kind has been established, and i want to move on to LTR status (which isnt very often cuz i personally dont like having a girlfriend, but would rather have fun while im young), i will pull away and give the woman the impression she might be losing me. this creates a reflex action in her that makes her want to move to the next level.
and just because you arent going out yet doesnt mean you can still act like you are!
dont act all boyfriend like just yet fellas. you're a free man and you have to act like it until you're no longer a free man so to speak.
never give up the game and get comfortable cuz you're ass will be packin and your head will be spinning wondering how you destroyed the 95% IL she had.
us guys love to get comfortable and open up once we think we're in. you gotta hold that sh!t back and stay strong. let her have her fun and sacrifice your own pleasure for a while until the time is right. then you can move on without destroying the relationship.
