Sleezy or Just me...zy

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The Bible. Good stuff. Works well. Read it. Learned it. Loved it. I hooked up with this girl I had been secretly crushin on for a while. After putting the moves on here (Kino, Flirting, etc), we were makin out on my couch and she was grindin on me. So suddly my old man came home and that was the end of that. Here is where the problem comes it. Highschool. Everyone is self concious and has low self esteem. She is known thru out school as easy, a hoe, slut, whatever. I don't really mind all of that because it isn't true. I can live with it. What I want to know is, I talk to her online thru AIM. I haven't talked to her since (2 days ago) but I have seen her online (BTW she knows my screen name). Is she a tease or am I too worried and need to lighten up?

 

[Enduro]

You're too worried about it.

A few years ago I was in the EXACT SAME situation you were in. Had a crush on a girl that was considered easy and all that. Not a big deal.

Avoid AIM if you can. Talk on the phone instead.

 

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Why avoid AIM? I actually feel less confortable using the phone ::shrug::.

 

[Enduro]

You feel less comfortable on the phone? Perfect. That's why you use the phone. You want to be confident and secure with all aspects of your life, which includes talking to women on the phone.

And don't use AIM because it is emotionless.

 

[Captain Anonymous]

People feel so comfortable, and detached on instant messengers that they say stupid things.

Veeeerrry stupid things.

Use the phone, so much better. If the conversation gets slow, then just make a few jokes to end it and say you have to go. Important to leave on a high note, though.

 

[wh01987]

AIM... has ruined things for me.. I had a GF .. short story long.. I ended up being an ******* online only and soo nice to her in person she thought i was an ******* and dumped me.. i was an idiot online i dont know why i thought it didnt mean anything cuz it jus text but she thought so