sleep paralysis

have you ever had sleep paralysis, and if so, how often?

  • i have had sleep paralysis, and it happens frequently.

    Votes: 1 2.3%
  • i have had sleep paralysis, and it happens occassionally.

    Votes: 10 23.3%
  • i've had sleep paralysis happen to me maybe once or twice.

    Votes: 16 37.2%
  • i'm not sure if i've had sleep paralysis or not.

    Votes: 4 9.3%
  • i'm sure that i've never had sleep paralysis.

    Votes: 12 27.9%

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oOh Nasty

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just wanted to start a thread on sleep paralysis because i've just woke up from a quite disturbing one, and up until now there is limited information on the net about why this so-called phenomenon actually occurs to a lot of people.

just in case anyone doesn't happen to know too much about sleep paralysis, it's said to be a condition that could be related to nacolepsy in which a sleeper will suddenly "wake up" but not have any control of most voluntary muscles in the body. this experience would most likely also be accompanied with a number of hallucinations such as strange unexplainable noises, visions, or a malicious presence. a lot of myths concerning these experiences have been passed down within' different cultures. in america, the most common seems to be that of an alien abduction, although i've never felt as if i was being abducted.

there have also been cases of people who have claimed to have an out-of-body experience while their paralysis was taking place, but i myself can't remmeber if i actually have had one. people describe this as a feeling of floating as if your entity is leaving your body.

as far as my experiences go, a great number of them have been a bit frightening. sometimes i would have a little anxiety even after fully waking up from one. i try to stay confidently scientific about what happens, but perhaps something a little more mysterious could be happening? the fact that people say they can actually leave their bodies during sleep paralysis is quite strange to me.

just to bring about some interest in other posters and maybe compare similarities within' different experiences, i'd like for people who have ever had sleep paralysis to share some of those experiences.

most of the time, i usually dont get sleep paralysis from sleeping at night until morning, but when i wake up early and then decide to go back to sleep, theres a chance that it may happen. i also seem to get it most when i'm more tired and anxious. if i'm going to have an episode right before falling asleep, i can almost feel it coming because i start to hear strange sounds in my head right before i actually fall asleep. sometimes, i can catch myself and wake up before it actually happens. during college, when i would end my class earlier than my gf's, i would wait in the car for her and sometimes fall asleep. my chances of getting sleep paralysis then are VERY HIGH for some reason. i've had sleep paralysis in the car almost every single time.

usually when sleep paralysis occurs, i hear strange sounds and sometimes feel as if something else is in the room with me. except for a little bit of my toes and my fingers, i cannot move any other part of my body, but i can move my eyes around and look around. sometimes i forcefully try to move my head back and forth to wake up, but it doesn't do much. when i finally can't take it anymore, i gather up every single ounce of my energy and then try to "jump" myself awake. once i have done that and woken myself up, everything is back to normal, but i still have those slight feelings of terror inside me (probably just the after effects). sometimes during paralysis, i "see" people i know and try to give them some sort of signal to wake me up. when i finally get myself to wake up, i realize that those people are actually not there. this happens a lot in the car while im waiting for my gf to finish her class.

i've heard just about everything, from different languages being spoken all at the same time in one odd lump of sounds, while at the same time seeing fog around my room, to hearing loud scratching and moaning noises as if someone is in pain or struggling. all of these mixed together with the inability to move or protect yourself is pretty damned frightening...even if you know its not real. it takes too much energy to wake yourself up and a lot of the times i have a lot of trouble getting myself to do it.

other experiences or commentaries would be greatly appreciated.

~ j
 

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Yeah, this used to happen to me every once in awhile. It seemed to happen to me right as I was about to fall asleep, but instead Id wake up paralyzed. The thing i hated about it was I could never fully get my eyelids to open, so I could never really see anything except blurs, which is kinda creepy. I never heard any vioces, but I always had this really weird feeling in my stomach, like i was falling or something was moving around in there.... that was really uncomfortable. I found the best way to stop this is not to try and fight it, but just try to ignore it and go back to sleep. After I figured that out, Id be able to go back to sleep after "waking up" with no problems, basically right away. I havent had sleep paralysis in a long time, but now that youve brought it up, my body might "remember" and have sleep paralysis again....

I believe the biological explanation for this is when you go to sleep, your body excretes a hormone to paralyze your body so you dont act out the actions of your dreams. But instead of falling asleep, you wake up, and the hormones are still in your system, rendering you paralyzed. Im guess the hallucinations are probably just your dreams overlapping with reality, but Im not sure.

On a side note, if you believe in lucid dreaming and out of body experiences, people feel as if sleep paralysis is the prefect catalyst for achieving these two because in both cases, you need to be in a state thats inbetween sleeping and waking, which is exactly what sleep paralysis is.
 

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Wow, those halucinations you are experiencing sound quite frightening.
I do have these paralysis thing ocassionaly since puberty, it doesn't happen that often anymore, maybe once every 2 months.
There is no common factor when I experience it, sometimes it happens after a healthy 8 hour sleep, sometimes when I fall asleep in front of the tv. I never hear or experience anything. I can't open my eyes, so I also don't see anything. The only thing I can move is my wrist.

It was quite terrible the first few times and I still hate it, but now I can somehow relax and just wait for the paralyis to end. I have not found any other working method other than that.
Lately, I sometimes find myself sitting upright when it happens. It's quite a strange feeling to sit on your bed without being able to move :)

The only real concern I have is to lay with my face on the pillow and suffocate because I can't breath. Normaly you would wake up in that sitution, but that wouldn't help if you could not move.
It nearly happened to me one time. I hardly got any air at all and still could'nt move for minutes. That was a real *****.
 

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Ive had it once or twice. One time I woke up and saw some scary ass face in my ceiling and was paralized, luckily I knew about sleep paralysis and stayed calm until I regained control of my body, turned on the light, looked around and saw that everything was normal and went back to sleep.
 

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I don't know what I have if its either sleep paralysis or lucid dream. It usually happen once every 4 months.

Last time I dreamed that I was in my bed and in my room , while an invicible hand was chocking me and I have felt as if I had some control in my dream (I was aware of my surrounding and I had some control over my thoughts and I know that I was in a sleep state).

The scary thing about it is that in that dream I kept on thinking" its just a dream wake up" and I have opened my eyes only to realise I am dreaming of me waking up and the invicible hand is still chocking me (I could not move except my eyes). By the fourth time I really woke up and I had realised that no one or thing was chocking me, scary stuff indeed.
 

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Originally posted by oOh Nasty

most of the time, i usually dont get sleep paralysis from sleeping at night until morning, but when i wake up early and then decide to go back to sleep, theres a chance that it may happen. i also seem to get it most when i'm more tired and anxious. if i'm going to have an episode right before falling asleep, i can almost feel it coming because i start to hear strange sounds in my head right before i actually fall asleep. sometimes, i can catch myself and wake up before it actually happens. during college, when i would end my class earlier than my gf's, i would wait in the car for her and sometimes fall asleep. my chances of getting sleep paralysis then are VERY HIGH for some reason. i've had sleep paralysis in the car almost every single time.

usually when sleep paralysis occurs, i hear strange sounds and sometimes feel as if something else is in the room with me. except for a little bit of my toes and my fingers, i cannot move any other part of my body, but i can move my eyes around and look around. sometimes i forcefully try to move my head back and forth to wake up, but it doesn't do much. when i finally can't take it anymore, i gather up every single ounce of my energy and then try to "jump" myself awake. once i have done that and woken myself up, everything is back to normal, but i still have those slight feelings of terror inside me (probably just the after effects). sometimes during paralysis, i "see" people i know and try to give them some sort of signal to wake me up. when i finally get myself to wake up, i realize that those people are actually not there. this happens a lot in the car while im waiting for my gf to finish her class.

Wow, that is EXACTLY what happens to me as well. I never experienced them until my freshman year in college (I'm now a sophmore). The feeling I get is often like being on lots of drugs (alcohol, weed) all at once. Lots of times I would be afraid that I had drank way too much or overdosed on something and that I was going to die because of it. They used to really freak me out, although now I'm used to them and usually will realize what's going on fairly quickly.

I don't remember seeing any demons or visual hallucinations, although I sometimes have the feeling that others are around.
 

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breathing problems - sleep paralysis ?

I learnt about sleep paralysis recently but didn't have it since.

The scary thing was that I ALWAYS was not able to breath for what seemed to be quite a while. Since I couldn't move I wasn't even able to contact the lady on my side for help, which I tried desperately.

VERY scaring.
After a while, I always regained control of my breathing & body functions. Until now, that is:D

I will try just to relax next time this happens, but I'm still not sure if it's sleep paralysis or if I wake up because of some apnoea problem.

Any experience with this ?

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Yeah.

I have had it.

Pretty strange thing. I would wake up but I couldn't move my body, like I was paralysed. I had to "force", concentrate or something similar to get out of that state.

I thought this was related to hysterical people because I've read that they suffer from this kind of thing. It may be a coincidence, who knows?
 

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I had something remotely like this once. One time I woke up in the middle of the night, and I sat up and I couldn't feel my left arm; it was completely numb and I couldn't control it at all. For a few seconds I didn't even realize it was there until I felt my shoulder and noticed there was something hanging off of it that I couldn't control. After about 10 seconds or so it woke up, and I didn't even get pins and needles so I don't think it was a circulation problem.

Hasn't happened since, in over a year.
 

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lol, yeah I had this a couple of years back, maybe not even that long ago. Was scary as fukc! I had a dream I was being abducted by aliens, and this bright light went into my eyes, then I awoke and felt a cold sensation run from the tip of my toes right up my body to the top of my head, I could then move my eyes, but that was it. I couldtn call to my girlfriend who was right next to me, until suddenly (after about a minute it felt like), but according to her I stopped talking to her like 10 seconds earlier, I jumped accross the bed on top of her. I was terrified! Then I read all about it, some say they were abducted by aliens, lol! But yes it is just you waking up from I think what they call a (REM), or some **** like that, sleep. Where your body is paralysed (hence you wont act out your dreams). It is the sleep where you watch someone and their eyes are twitching really fast. However, you awake from this sleep, and your body is paralised.

Nice thread, it is interesting and you can see how different myths have been handed down from generation to generation, accross culture to culture!
 

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I had this about a year back, and I've never done a drug or been drunk in my life. I had just woken up when this started. I couldn't make out a form, but there was a massive bright presence, and a staticky sound that turned into the sound of a man screaming. I couldn't move at all. Oddly, I was very calm, and when it was done, I rolled over and went back to sleep. The next night, I almost got hit with the same one just 5-10 minutes after getting into bed, but got up as soon as I noticed it coming.

I consider it a direct encounter with a demon. I wasn't even close to falling asleep when the second one almost hit, and it was the exact same type of SP/form/sound coming on.
 

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Originally posted by Daral
I had something remotely like this once. One time I woke up in the middle of the night, and I sat up and I couldn't feel my left arm; it was completely numb and I couldn't control it at all. For a few seconds I didn't even realize it was there until I felt my shoulder and noticed there was something hanging off of it that I couldn't control. After about 10 seconds or so it woke up, and I didn't even get pins and needles so I don't think it was a circulation problem.

Hasn't happened since, in over a year.
Well, in your case you may have slept over your arm blocking the blood circulation thus making your arm numb!

It happens to me a lot of times. When I feel my arm numb and useless, I just grab it with my other arm and move it away from my body (because I was over it when sleeping).
 

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Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
Well, in your case you may have slept over your arm blocking the blood circulation thus making your arm numb!

It happens to me a lot of times. When I feel my arm numb and useless, I just grab it with my other arm and move it away from my body (because I was over it when sleeping).
No, the difference is that if I had cut off my circulation, then I would've had "pins and needles", where you feel tiny pricks of pain all over your arm when the circulation is being restored. Also, I would've had a quickened pulse in that arm. I had neither, which leads me to believe it was an issue with that paralysis chemical your body uses when sleeping.
 

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I had numbness in the arm as well. Its like you wake up and your arm is dead, you don't feel pins or needles. First time that happened I freaked out cause I thought it was someone elses hand that was touching me. If that happens I usually pick up my limp arm with the other one and shake it until the feelings come back.
 

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Its cutting off circulation and the nerves to your arm long enough to make it completly numb and just not pins and needles.
 

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I know this is an old thread, but I just thought I'd share one of the most HORRIFYING episodes of sleep paralysis i've had YET.

I started off by having a weird dream of falling...just constantly falling. I don't know where or why, but I just have that sensation that there is no ground and I am just falling. Now, when I hit the bottom, I open my eyes (in real life). I hear what seems to be a distorted mix of whispers in which I cannot really comprehend what is being said. Just imagine a room of 100 people whispering all at the same time, except the sound is magnified and you can hear every single thing. Now, sleep paralysis is so common to me, that I know in my mind I will be able to wake up somehow. But, the thing that really freaked me out was that this was the first time I actually saw a being and physically felt this being.

In the corner of my eye on my left, I can see this figure, which looked sort of like an old woman with a long nose. I remember feeling getting hit on my shoulder and actually jolting my body to the opposite direction. I was still paralyzed and even after that happened, I could feel something tapping on my left shoulder... (WTF!!!!!!!!!!). I don't know how powerful the freaking mind is...but I actually felt this happening. Finally after enough fear has taken over my mind, all energy enabled me to "jump" out of my state of paralysis. And there I was, laying in bed under my covers, partially sweating, in shock, and looking around for any weird old lady. Fortunately, there was actually no one there :cheer: .

It's just amazing to me how realistic and convincing your mind can be to yourself.

~ J
 

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A four years ago Ive had sleep paralysis LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING IT WAS ONE OF THE MOST DISTURBING THINGS THATS EVER HAPPEN TO ME, my whole body would be paralysed and I would here laughter and flames in the background. The laugh sounded demonic like the ones you hear in the movies about the devil. It was hard for me to breath I also heard like a big windmill in the background wich I could feel in my head. I thought I was going to die, then I saw a white cross getting closer and closer then I woke up.
then a few year later I had sleep paralysis again this time it felt like a guy was choking me, I couldnt breath. from the corner of my eye I could see something pass by in my bed then after that my brother woke me up because he heard me screaming, he was sleeping on another bed in the other side of the room.
 

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Can anybody please give me a reasonable explanation why the old hag is associated with sleep paralysis.

You see I had an episode of sleep paralysis a few weeks ago. I saw an old hag and I was trying to tell my girlfriend, who was in bed next to me. I was trying to say the words "old hag", but I couldn't get them out and my girlfriend later told me that I kept making gurgling and hissing sounds. She thought I was having a fit. It was so fvcking scary!

Now I'm even more freaked out because I found out that other people have seen visions of an "old hag" during sleep paralysis and myth has it that she's some kind of dark goddess. I had an alien abduction one before, but I suppose it's reasonable to associate the two. But why an old hag? What scientific explanation is there for it? Ever since I found out other people have this vision I've been so creeped out!
 

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