First of all. This is me rambling late at nite....
So, it has been a while since my ex and I broke up. During the time when we were together, I went from unknowing DJ to AFC. During my time as AFC, she started losing interest and was talking to another guy, who she admitted to me, made out with when she was "drunk". She told me it was because she was drunk, yadi yadi ya, and me being the AFC, swallowed up all that BS. Things were still on the ropes for a long time, mostly because she couldn't figure out wtf she wanted out of our relationship and all that BS. After a while, I/we were fed up with it and I broke it off with her.
Anyways, I know that it was my fault that she lost interested. I know that I AFC'd. But that's all in the past and I've moved on.
Interesting story tonight....I ran into the guy that she made out with while we were together. I didnt recognize him at first, but recognized him after one of my buddies, who knows him was saying wassup to him and said his name.
Like the title says.... I walked up to him and slapped him. Afterwords, I simply said, "thats what you get". He actually took it very pleasantly and agreed (maybe I should have b!tch slapped him) . I was very surprised. Maybe it was my demeanor, radiating the "dont fVck with me" attitude, but i was very chill and in control of the situation. After he agreed that thats "what he deserved" and apologized, I actually thanked him for doing what he did. Because the b!tch would have cheated on me with any guy; if not him, then any other guy. The situation actually opened my eyes, and I have learned and grown so much since then (many thanks to this site). But I can truly say that I am happier than I've been in a long time.
I am not usually a very confronting/aggressive/violent person. If I was, I would have knocked his ass out. But needless to say, even tho the root of the problem boils down to me.... it felt very liberating to slap his ass. I knew that I would run into him one way or the other and was always curious to know what I would do. To me, this sort of symbolizes me going back into my DJ ways, taking a stand for myself and now, leaving that sh!t in the past.
I've been ready to move on and grow, and this was just another step towards my goal.
Enough rambling....
-Don Wha in the making
So, it has been a while since my ex and I broke up. During the time when we were together, I went from unknowing DJ to AFC. During my time as AFC, she started losing interest and was talking to another guy, who she admitted to me, made out with when she was "drunk". She told me it was because she was drunk, yadi yadi ya, and me being the AFC, swallowed up all that BS. Things were still on the ropes for a long time, mostly because she couldn't figure out wtf she wanted out of our relationship and all that BS. After a while, I/we were fed up with it and I broke it off with her.
Anyways, I know that it was my fault that she lost interested. I know that I AFC'd. But that's all in the past and I've moved on.
Interesting story tonight....I ran into the guy that she made out with while we were together. I didnt recognize him at first, but recognized him after one of my buddies, who knows him was saying wassup to him and said his name.
Like the title says.... I walked up to him and slapped him. Afterwords, I simply said, "thats what you get". He actually took it very pleasantly and agreed (maybe I should have b!tch slapped him) . I was very surprised. Maybe it was my demeanor, radiating the "dont fVck with me" attitude, but i was very chill and in control of the situation. After he agreed that thats "what he deserved" and apologized, I actually thanked him for doing what he did. Because the b!tch would have cheated on me with any guy; if not him, then any other guy. The situation actually opened my eyes, and I have learned and grown so much since then (many thanks to this site). But I can truly say that I am happier than I've been in a long time.
I am not usually a very confronting/aggressive/violent person. If I was, I would have knocked his ass out. But needless to say, even tho the root of the problem boils down to me.... it felt very liberating to slap his ass. I knew that I would run into him one way or the other and was always curious to know what I would do. To me, this sort of symbolizes me going back into my DJ ways, taking a stand for myself and now, leaving that sh!t in the past.
I've been ready to move on and grow, and this was just another step towards my goal.
Enough rambling....
-Don Wha in the making
