Slapped in the face by best friends gf

[Hiker]

Last Thursday I hung out with my buddy, his gf, and her friend. We were drinking, laughing, and having a good time. It was like a beer commercial.

Towards the end of the night my friend’s girl and her friend went to hug each other goodbye. My buddy and I fist bumped and then jokingly cried out and hugged. We didn’t think anything of it, it was just drunken fun.

Two minutes later the girlfriend walked up to me very casually and smacked my face, hard. I kept my cool, but inside I was really pissed. Calmly I said to her, “What the ****, why did you do that?” and then she explained that we had made fun of her (with the hug thing). She looked ashamed but acted as though it was within her right to do this. Her demeanor was like, “I didn’t want to but you made me do that...”

Because I was drunk and in high spirits I think I let her get away with some serious disrespect. Sure I called her out on it, but I don’t think it was hard enough and now I wonder if a precedent has been set. She is known for hitting and my friend lets her get away with it.
I feel as though I should have been more firm and serious with her.

Should I just let it go? How would you guys have handled/handle this?

 

[Zion]

Well ,I got a good laugh out of this post. :crackup:


Anyway , had this happen to me too with my best friends 2year + LTR.

I calmly told her something along the lines of "You're my best friends girl so this one goes , but touch me ever again like that and I promise this conversation won't be nearly as pleasant."

I'm not violent towards women , as I consider that to be pathetic. What I also consider pathetic is women running around thinking they can pretty much slap guys in the face without any consequence. Truth be told ,I also hated her guts because she was a terrible person overall,so yeah.

 

[LiveFreeX]

The fact that this makes you laugh is sickening. There is nothing funny about this. You need to check yourself young man, women should not be allowed to do whatever they please, this is the result of a very sick society. If you want to protest, dump your girl and never date or speak to an American woman again.

God I'm glad I don't live in America, your women are completely out of control. Just one more sign that women don't know their place in life. You should have looked at your friend and asked him how he can tolerate this b1tch. Then told him to train her better and said, don't ever bring her near me again. I probably would have shoved her or punched her in the face, but that's just me and I'm not in the USA. I would also never speak to your best friend again until he apologized for her behavior or dumped her. Would you want to hang out with a friend who lets his dog bite you and p1ss and sh1t all over your lawn without apologizing. Either she doesn't respect you or he doesn't, he should dump her. Make sure you bring this to his attention, this behavior is not right and has Western woman written all over it.

Please, let this be a lesson to all reading this.

This is not how a woman is supposed to act.

DON'T REWARD WESTERN WOMEN BY DATING OR FVCKING THEM, THEY ARE COMPLETELY DYSFUNCTIONAL.

 

[( . )( . )]

She looked ashamed but acted as though it was within her right to do this. Her demeanor was like, “I didn’t want to but you made me do that...”

That wasn't shame, that was her survival instinct kicking in. Wasn't too long ago men would have smacked the living suitcase out of her for acting like a man and her body instinctively knows this. That's why when you watch a woman strike a man there is always that "Oh fvck" look in her eyes for a few seconds, like she's expecting the beat down, the beat down which now never comes. Don't forget enabling manginas/white knights in epidemic proportions allowing her actions without consequences is a relatively new thing as opposed to thousands of years acting like a woman with accountability.

 

[Burroughs]

next time do this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EE3WlYWNoX8

you'll feel better :yes: :rockon:

 

[Vidrio]

There's nothing you can do now. If she slaps you again slap her ass back.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

I too am quite sickened by your story. You have to understand this - what this woman did to you is totally unacceptable.

Forget what she said or did afterward. The fact is that she has no respect for you (or I would imagine, men in general). You had a simple laugh with your friend about the girls hugging. That is no big deal. She completely over reacted.

Put it this way. If you guys had hugged, she laughed at you, and you walked up and slapped her - in the FACE (highly disrepectful), what would have happened to you? We know the answer to that.

She knew she could get away with it. And she did. I would even suggest that a light slap back to her at the time would not have been out of place. But of course in the US of A, you would get locked up for that.

The bare minimum you should do is this: In front of her bfriend, with no alcohol involved, tell her that she should never have done that. Tell her it was not only inappropriate, but it was a assault. Tell her you had a Doctor look at where you were slapped, and have even thought about contacting the Police about it. Scare her. Then make her apologize, and mean it.

This is bloody disgusting.

 

[Zion]

The fact that this makes you laugh is sickening. There is nothing funny about this. You need to check yourself young man, women should not be allowed to do whatever they please, this is the result of a very sick society. If you want to protest, dump your girl and never date or speak to an American woman again.

Yes,I agree with you 100%. It's pretty much what I said after the laughing part.

What I also consider pathetic is women running around thinking they can pretty much slap guys in the face without any consequence

Also , I'm not American , so these things don't only happen with Western women.

A women slapping a man in the face is pretty much a man slapping a bear in the face. A clearly physically superior individual. But the man doesn't have pathetic society doctrines that 'protect' him from getting mauled. That's why these things make me laugh. It's petty , pathetic and pretty much as low as it gets.

 

[NewAndImproved]

How did your boy react to all of this??? Did he say/do anything?

 

[HeadLightsOn]

I also want to add, that even in the USA most women would find this terrible behaviour.

I have seen a woman slap a guy in the face for no real reason. He slapped her back so quickly she almost didnt know what to do. He told her never to do that again. Im guessing she didnt. He didnt hit her hard mind you, there was no need for that.

If there's anything you can take from all this is to act manly and be completely intolerant to being hit by a woman. I would also be very interested to know what your friend said about his girlfriends behaviour. Please post.

 

[goundra]

Anybody who'd get drunk (EVER) or similarly intoxicated on dope, etc, is an idiot who deserves whatever happens to them. This world is just too damned dangerous to set yourself up like that (and it always has been and always will be). ESPECIALLY in public. What if she'd had a broken bottle or nail file and taken out your eye or ruined your face, dummy? You can't be just LETTING people land blows on you.

 

[Hiker]

I can't recall all the details but I think my friend got her back for me. Don't know if he hit her in the face, might have been the ass. (In which case he may have inadvertently rewarded her.)

Not sure if she apologized. However, when she was in her car getting ready to leave I gave her a light slap in the face to which she replied "I deserve that."

I've been friends with the dude for 13 years. His girl and him have been together for 10. They get drunk frequently and have hit each other before.
I've been quasi-friends with the slapper for as long as she's been with my buddy. This is the first time she's done something like that to me. Normally she is respectful.

 

[goundra]

it only takes ONCE to get maimed or killed. Fvck that letting people hit you bs. too many guys are so slow/awkward that they can't prevent getting hit, when they are SOBER, and they want to get DRUNK, in public ? sheesh.

 

[Scars]

I got hit in the face by a girl at a party once..

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=185955

I flashed on her, then hooked up with some other chick.

A few days later the chick that hit me added me on FB just to apologize.. meh, an apology is an apology I guess.

-Scars

 

[3countriesPlan]

Ya it's too bad this kinda stuff happens now. I don't think it ever happened as recently as the 90s which is not actually that long ago. I don't agree with shoving her or punching her in the face though I did watch "Tiger on the Beat" last night and Chow Yun Fat slapped the shiy1it out of a girl cause she attacked him (she made him a great meal later in the movie) so it shows that dudes must have stuck up for themselves before not too long ago.

The best thing do in that situation is just to ignore the two as she disrespected you and you deserve better than that.

The fact that this makes you laugh is sickening. There is nothing funny about this. You need to check yourself young man, women should not be allowed to do whatever they please, this is the result of a very sick society. If you want to protest, dump your girl and never date or speak to an American woman again.

God I'm glad I don't live in America, your women are completely out of control. Just one more sign that women don't know their place in life. You should have looked at your friend and asked him how he can tolerate this b1tch. Then told him to train her better and said, don't ever bring her near me again. I probably would have shoved her or punched her in the face, but that's just me and I'm not in the USA. I would also never speak to your best friend again until he apologized for her behavior or dumped her. Would you want to hang out with a friend who lets his dog bite you and p1ss and sh1t all over your lawn without apologizing. Either she doesn't respect you or he doesn't, he should dump her. Make sure you bring this to his attention, this behavior is not right and has Western woman written all over it.

Please, let this be a lesson to all reading this.

This is not how a woman is supposed to act.

DON'T REWARD WESTERN WOMEN BY DATING OR FVCKING THEM, THEY ARE COMPLETELY DYSFUNCTIONAL.

 

[evan12]

Last Thursday I hung out with my buddy, his gf, and her friend. We were drinking, laughing, and having a good time. It was like a beer commercial.

Towards the end of the night my friend’s girl and her friend went to hug each other goodbye. My buddy and I fist bumped and then jokingly cried out and hugged. We didn’t think anything of it, it was just drunken fun.

Two minutes later the girlfriend walked up to me very casually and smacked my face, hard. I kept my cool, but inside I was really pissed. Calmly I said to her, “What the ****, why did you do that?” and then she explained that we had made fun of her (with the hug thing). She looked ashamed but acted as though it was within her right to do this. Her demeanor was like, “I didn’t want to but you made me do that...”

Because I was drunk and in high spirits I think I let her get away with some serious disrespect. Sure I called her out on it, but I don’t think it was hard enough and now I wonder if a precedent has been set. She is known for hitting and my friend lets her get away with it.
I feel as though I should have been more firm and serious with her.

Should I just let it go? How would you guys have handled/handle this?

I think the main reason is that she found you weak to respond , women think twice before doing such things , they are not brave but they observe who is the pushover and do these things with him .
the reason why you didnt react is because you are passive and dont have self-respect , you didnt even call her names .
change your personality to be stronger , and if you want some thing to do may be tell her she should kneel and apologize or you will call police to file assault against her .

 

[Masculinity]

OP: I recently began a thread on the exact same topic. There are plenty of responses you could find potentially useful. Personally, I would have gotten the biggest cup of liquid nearby & pour it on her head. Someone needs to teach these brats not to misbehave. I had a girl sprinkle me with water in my face one time (playing around). I sprinkled her back; what did she do? Empty half a cup of water in my face. What did I do? Filled my water cup, went back immediately, tapped her shoulder & proceeded to empty the cup of water on her head. She was shocked & has never disrespected me since. She actually gets excited when we run into each other now.

Here is the thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202383

Keep being money,

-R

 

[Dali_tx_o]

I just really wanted to share this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQwQ8AW_WYc

Perfect example of the entitlement of a woman thinking she can get away with something (i.e., slapping a police officer), and how quickly the "strong and independent" goes out of the window in favor of playing a victim.

Talk about playing fair, huh?

 

[zinc4]

i would have made her apologize and embarrassed her in front of everyone and said this ain't the Jerry Springer show...at least pretend you have some class when you are with actual people...if your boy didn't like it then too bad...she shouldn't be hitting people...

 

[Hiker]

Scars and Robyn: Thanks for sharing those threads. Good stuff there.

Evan: Through the veil of advice your post is condescending. You are making assumptions about me based on one experience I had.

I got in touch with my friend and got more details about that night.
-After I got slapped my buddy slapped his gf in the face even harder. (Good friend).
-I did get an apology (though I don't remember it).
-The slapper is worried that I'll never hang out with them again.
-The real reason I was hit is because I had slept with her friend a couple weeks prior and never contacted her again. We were in that same girls apartment at the time. On a side note, she waited for her friend to go outside and smoke a cigarette before she slapped me. So it was just my friend, the slapper, and myself when it all happened.