To Pook:
I don't know if you recognize me (I tend to stay around the HS forum a lot), but I had a question about your post.
Gaining mass will cause a WORLD of reaction from everyone, including most important, women.
You mention a lot about women in your post, mentioning that you can be that big guy "women are reserved for".
I've taken a lot of time focusing on self-improvement. But I try to recall when I ever thought "this will help me with women", and the only time I remember that is when I first discovered sosuave.com and was in dire need of help.
In fact, if you ever read any of my posts or tips they are usually centered around more general things such as why PEOPLE in general think a certain way, not particularly women. When I find an exception as to how women think versus how men think (which is not uncommon... as we know), I try to illustrate it. Or I try adressing how the reader can change their point of view about a certain situation.
My question is this: Why not put on muscle mass for mainly yourself? Not necessarily women. I seriously doubt you've ever
needed to put on some lean muscle to improve your skills with women. So if it was for women, why? If women could be happy enough as you were, why take all the time to workout, spend the money on this program, eat the extra food, etc, when one of your primary reasons were to benefit your skills with women?
It seems that your dealings with women are a large passion of yours, but with all your other skills and knowledge, you couldn't possibly have needed this for that reason, correct?
One thing that is commonly preached around here (or maybe it's only the High School forum) is that you shouldn't be focused on the women themselves, but focusing on yourself, and then the women come as a side effect (and you work on your women-skills then). For example, instead of becoming more socially adept because you wish to attract more women, you do it to improve your life, and then as a side effect you become better with women.
Now, I know that a lot of you older guys here (I'm only 16, and stay mostly around the HS forum) talk more about seduction techniques (speed seduction, but I'm not aware that you are into that) or the specific interaction with a woman, while most of the veterans in the High School forum talk more about self improvement, but still go in-depth when answering questions about women (or in this case, girls
).
So, as a final question, would you say the whole mission of a Don Juan changes as you get older and leave High School (I know you weren't around here when you were in High School, but a simple observation will do), or maybe that there's just a simple conflict between the Don Juan Discussion forum and High School forum? Or maybe I'm just wrong and things aren't as different as they seem
.
I tried PMing you, but the message was too long and I think your box was probably full as well.
