Six Degrees of separation? LOL...

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Okay, so I have been very good. No former DJ but the really weird thing is that the recent men I have both met. At a bar. LOL. And one through a friend both know not only my former DJ. They even have him on speed dial but they both have the same birthdays. Hey, I am all for coincidence but this is spooky. No, I don't want to get back with him. Not to mention he hardly misses me or not. Not sure. Still hurting. But what are the odds of this. I mean I live in a large, very large city. Even my ex who is not a Dj but they were friends before he and I had met and I didn't realize it until now. I mean, the point is what
's a gal have to do. I think my next man should be a foreigner. Someone who lives like a million miles away. Lately, this seems like God's big joke on me. Please be nice but if you knew the story it is really bizarre. I am now in like with a guy. I went out to a bar and recently met him and he in fact approached me. I haven't been out to a bar in months, many months. ( well, once but not just to hang spure of the moment. Long Story) So, What are the chances of him knowing all the same crowd???? Anyways, life is too funny. If you only knew. I feel like the neighborhood slut, having every man I meet or who meets me ending up knowing one another. Not intentional. I mean this was totally random. He came up to me out of the blue and I have never ever met him. Funny.. Too funny for words.. And then we start talking he asks a few questions and boom. the bomb drops. Oh yeah, I fish with so and so and do you know so and so.. Hmmmm....

Not sure if this makes sense but it's sure funny and in the long run I think that this whole episode including my being a total AFC with DJ man prove that there is a reason behind everything. THis new guy is just my speed. A DJ but finally, one that plays it right. But still it's all too wierd that he and they know eachother and have the same birthday. Dunno

Hard to explain it here. Not that it's all that interesting but just goes to show that life is really really funny and sometimes you just got to roll with the punches:)

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Cue the Twilight Zone theme ...

Weird, Tamales.

But then, people win the lottery. Improbable things do happen.
 

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What's that old saying..????

1st time: bad luck.
2nd time: coincidence.
3rd time: enemy action.

Where are you on this Tamales?
 

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Well considering the circumstances and believe me they are really strange. You have no idea. For istance a forth guy, last Thursday, approached me in a bar, He came to me and I hadn't been there in about two years. I live in a big metropolitan city. So he comes up to me, starts hitting on me and we chat. Turns out he is best friends with a friend of my ex Dj.. They all hang together..

I mean too friggin wierd. Even my former ex bf called me today and way like hey, how did you meet so and so and I didn't know that you and so and so (former DJ) hung out. And I quote, "we are fishing buddies"

Sigh.

I think I am caught b/w 1 and 2 which makes it even worse. If it were some evil plan than I would know. Honest. But it couldn't be. But I do think things happen for a reason and maybe number four is the reason I had to go through 1-3 in the first place. !-3 all want me back but maybe 4 is the ticket. Dunno.

The good thing is that both my ex bf and this new guy have only great things to say about me. As well as my former Dj. Thank god I didn't cave and call him. It's been an entire month and I have ditched 8 calls. But now that he isn't calling at all it hurts.

Truth be told. I miss him but not the lousy treatment. Love will come around for me but have to laugh at life. Too funny!!! And no matter what there is a reason behind this.

Honesty, I am afraid to even let the latest guy know I like him. He is the perfect in between. A Dj but nice enough not to jerk my chain. He has also told my friend how cute he thinks I am. But just to wierd perhaps. I mean imagine having a girl date three of your friends or worse **** them.

LOL!

I say I am cursed. Simply cursed. So anyone out in Alaska available. I hear the men out there are hot.
 

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You want some lumberjacks? Didn't Monty Python do a number on that...???
 

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LOL. HOnestly, that isn't possible. Chances are he's getting laid and has already moved on. That's the weird thing but okay, watch out for number3.. Big time. I still say that life is simply funny and that no matter what maybe this entire experience has lead me to a greater sense of self and who knows.. Maybe this did all happen for a reason and number five.... Might spell BINGO..

I wish I was able to explain all the circumstances in detail but you know I would certainly be banned from here not to mention even for me that would be too long for anyone to have to get through.

I suppose I will just laugh it up and know that this entire experience happened for a reason.

Thanks for your replys. I just can't believe how weird this all is but such is life and mine for now is not dull. At least for now.

Things tho really do happen for a reason and I am a better person regardless of this.....Or I shall continue to strive to be so...

LOL.. You guys if you only knew how strange this all is. So many things that are far to long to post. But living in a city with about 5 million people this is too funny. But part of life. I mean weird things happen every day. Strange coincidences maybe most of us are just to busy to recognize the absurdity of it all.

Hence 7 degrees for me.

Later and thanks again. I am just glad that no matter I am not calling that former what's his name. It hurts like hell and more than ever right now I want to talk to him thinking it's some sort of sign but it;s not. He is getting laid most likely tonight by some other hot chick and well, greener pastures to graze.. Turns out he is a coward. I am going to see him in a couple of weeks. He is my attorney and it was preplanned a big event for something and he will be there along with the others.. or not.. But I have behaved very lady like and only hope to move on and let them all eat their hearts out. Not in a vindictive way but time and life does tend to bite you in the butt.

LOL.. Moving on but thanks for listening.

So where the heck are those men from Alaska and sure, bring on the lumberjacks. MLOL. I do think MP did something on that. If nothing else this would make a great sex in the city episode.

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