alright, so I know your first instinct is to say spin more plates. I agree, should have from the start.
Situation: Met girl from co worker, got number. Texted multiple times.
After texting girl she said lets hang out, picked her up and took her to bar and had drinks made out. Begged me to come up to her place to snuggle, declined due to wedding next day.
Next day, texted her she said she was in to my co-worker with whom I met her with. Said sorry if she lead me on, and that she is going through a ton of crap because she recently broke up with boyfriend. said no problem and we can hang out. went to girls house to drink a few beers and watch a tv show. Told me she has depression and other issues.
Next week, got her interest level up. Convinced her to dinner, went out to dinner. went amazing, then took her to Dave and Busters for an action date and competed at multiple games and had a truely amazing time. Interest level and chemistry was there. Sat in the parking lot making out for 30 min after it closed.
Next day, took her boating with her friend and two of mine. Went great, had a fun time boating, then her best friend was there who was in my back seat, chilling....her and I went to the bathroom together and I said I want to slam you against the wall so hard, she got turned on and we effed in the bathroom while her friend was in the backseat of my car.
Next day texted her because she wanted me to come to her Moms' birthday said it wasnt healthy or safe to hang out with somebody so quickly and fast. I said cool lets play it by ear.
Texted her twice after with no response.
Texted her the 3rd time saying hey you coming on the boat. Got a response. She didnt end up coming. Same Saturday we ended up going out together to a mutual bar and she had her friends and I had mine. Night ended up great but by the end of the night she was trying to go home with some 21 year old girl and hang out with her. I declined because it was already 2:30 and I wasnt in the mood. Ended up going to her house at nights end and snuggling with with her and drinking until 6am.
Get a text the following Tuesday saying "I think your a sweet guy, but feel no chemistry at all with you" I think we can still hang out but only as friends. I was so angry that I couldnt sleep that entire night.
Keep in mind she has been in relationships for 14 years and she is 28 years old. She is kind of a wild girl and wants to be single and free. and I kind of approached each situation as a date.
We recently hung out as in today, out on the boat and my objective was just to hang out and be cool with her, not show anything else.
My main response to this girl is she is hurting from her last relationship and doesnt want anything else and I approached to strong. She obviously felt chemistry from our date, but good friends have said just approach her as a friend and hang out with her because it is to soon for her.
Advice on this situation is greatly apprecaited!!
Situation: Met girl from co worker, got number. Texted multiple times.
After texting girl she said lets hang out, picked her up and took her to bar and had drinks made out. Begged me to come up to her place to snuggle, declined due to wedding next day.
Next day, texted her she said she was in to my co-worker with whom I met her with. Said sorry if she lead me on, and that she is going through a ton of crap because she recently broke up with boyfriend. said no problem and we can hang out. went to girls house to drink a few beers and watch a tv show. Told me she has depression and other issues.
Next week, got her interest level up. Convinced her to dinner, went out to dinner. went amazing, then took her to Dave and Busters for an action date and competed at multiple games and had a truely amazing time. Interest level and chemistry was there. Sat in the parking lot making out for 30 min after it closed.
Next day, took her boating with her friend and two of mine. Went great, had a fun time boating, then her best friend was there who was in my back seat, chilling....her and I went to the bathroom together and I said I want to slam you against the wall so hard, she got turned on and we effed in the bathroom while her friend was in the backseat of my car.
Next day texted her because she wanted me to come to her Moms' birthday said it wasnt healthy or safe to hang out with somebody so quickly and fast. I said cool lets play it by ear.
Texted her twice after with no response.
Texted her the 3rd time saying hey you coming on the boat. Got a response. She didnt end up coming. Same Saturday we ended up going out together to a mutual bar and she had her friends and I had mine. Night ended up great but by the end of the night she was trying to go home with some 21 year old girl and hang out with her. I declined because it was already 2:30 and I wasnt in the mood. Ended up going to her house at nights end and snuggling with with her and drinking until 6am.
Get a text the following Tuesday saying "I think your a sweet guy, but feel no chemistry at all with you" I think we can still hang out but only as friends. I was so angry that I couldnt sleep that entire night.
Keep in mind she has been in relationships for 14 years and she is 28 years old. She is kind of a wild girl and wants to be single and free. and I kind of approached each situation as a date.
We recently hung out as in today, out on the boat and my objective was just to hang out and be cool with her, not show anything else.
My main response to this girl is she is hurting from her last relationship and doesnt want anything else and I approached to strong. She obviously felt chemistry from our date, but good friends have said just approach her as a friend and hang out with her because it is to soon for her.
Advice on this situation is greatly apprecaited!!
