Since when is 2 hours not enough for a date?

Kal0051

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So I was supposed to be going out with this girl this week (one of 2 I was supposed to see, though I doubt I'll see either of them, the other one is a horrible flake). When we were planning the date she mentioned that she felt bad that we'd only be hanging out for a few hours (basically she had to work til the early evening and had to wake up really early the next day). We still would have hung out like 2-3 hours, and grabbed a couple of drinks. Well anyway, doesn't matter anymore since she cancelled on me because she forgot she promised her friend she'd go party (hotel party or something). She offered a raincheck for next week (no specific day, just next week) and said "at least we could have a actual date" (I asked what she meant by that and her answer was "more than a few hours"). I just don't know why she thinks dates need to last longer than a few hours. Thoughts?
 

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Maybe she was making up an excuse, maybe not. Who knows. Try again if you like her. If not, the next her.

Kal0051 said:
Thoughts?
My thoughts: don't worry about it. Plenty of other chicks out there.
 

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Let her raincheck you, meet her for drinks, lots of kino & booze (for her), and in the sack you go. Shes right, it's better without the clock ticking away with a 2 hr deadline.
 

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Its the same with me- I HATE deadlines with a passion. I start when I want, I finish when I want. Heck- dates are like foreplay to get her in the mood for the bedroom :)
 

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You should consider it a good thing, for now. It says she's interested in spending time with you.
 

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horaholic said:
You should consider it a good thing, for now. It says she's interested in spending time with you.
yeah, guess it's a good thing. She contacted me today with a specific day she wants to go out next week. Unfortunately I couldn't give her a answer since I don't have my schedule for next week yet. Told her I'd let her know by the end of the week.
 

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dont do what we criticize about women doing man, get the scedule info and close the deal. shes ripe for the picking!
 
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