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[jonny football hero]

Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
what can i say, you have this wonderfull intro just like in a book which gets you all phcyed up for this lef changing piece of information, and what is it, just a link to some one else post which you have already read.

I think the real problem here is your ignorace in how to get women,
Lifeforce. Sure looks help, you can not underestimate them, i know you are totaly afc because i used to think like you did and those where my afc days.

I must point out that looking good (altohugh it helps this) will not make an insecure deprest person confident and secure when the problem is on the inside. It will not act as a way round the b***h sheild it will only help you look better and that alone epsecialy if you are still not confident, will not do a lot for you.

im sorry if what i am saying is hurting you, but i have to put this bluntly to you, go back and read the bible because you sound like me when i first stumbled on to this site an AFC.

Man, you have more crap than a calostomy bag. You have never had any success with women. So what makes you qualified to flame people's posts?

I found that once i started working out women noticed me more, i caught them looking and therefore gained CONFIDENCE in my looks. And i have an incling that Lifeforce has more success with women than you Roy. All he has to beat is 0.

 

[christz]

Originally posted by jonny football hero
Man, you have more crap than a calostomy bag. You have never had any success with women. So what makes you qualified to flame people's posts?

I found that once i started working out women noticed me more, i caught them looking and therefore gained CONFIDENCE in my looks. And i have an incling that Lifeforce has more success with women than you Roy. All he has to beat is 0.

i'm gonna speak in favor of check_mate You don't need to work out get bulked up and be ripped to get a hot girl, I've never had problems getting attractive women, at bars, clubs, work or college.

and i'm 5'7 115-120 pounds. I can show you a picture of me i suppose i have above average looks, not by what i say but what other females say and friends of mine.

on that note i've had girls choose me or stay with me over guys that are ripped.. so what i say must speak some truth.

 

[gav]

Originally posted by christz
i suppose i have above average looks

so you have a good looking face? that's good, but what about the guys that aren't so lucky at birth? They were born with shytty genes and are just average skinny guys. What about them?

They will not be so good with women UNLESS they already have a large dose of masculinity/popularity/charisma (i'm going through these traits in order of importance).

Masculinity is something most guys lack. Especially skinny guys. They have less muscle, they will generally have less testosterone and will therefore generally be a bunch of fvckin pvssies.

How do they increase this testosterone, how do they become more masculine/sexualise themselves? They start weightlifting and start eating more. That instantly puts their body into a state of increasing testosterone production, makes them feel more manly, lets them feel their burning sexual desire.

And women can pick up on this. They sense this masculinity, not only through the increased size of the man, but through his attitude. His personality has changed, he has become a different person. Shy? Weak? Total pvssy? Don't think so. He's now a man.

Just now i'm feeling the effects to the same extent as lifeforce. Maybe not quite as much cuz the bastard's ahead of me . I started off skinny, i consider myself to be average in terms of muscle to weight ratio now. But through my bulking, my attitude has totally changed, my approach has totally changed and as of now, i haven't read a single article about seduction or dating, whatever, in ages. More pvssy for me? Yes. More attention from women? Yes. More envy from guys? Fvck yes.

There is only one thing for me now - Competition. "I am going to beat them at their own game". I am going to bench more than the big guy who's always at the gym. I am going to score more pvssy than the pimp who's sarging the clubs every night. I'm going to get better grades than the geeks who stay up all night studying.

Would i have had this attitude if i hadn't started bulking? I think not.

One final point to make is that if you stay committed to weightlifting/bulking and learn to never miss a workout, never to miss a meal, you will learn the importance of motivation in other areas of your life. Your life will be all about self control. You will be in control of yourself and your life will become an art form.

from the guy who can bench you,
gav

 

[christz]

i guess if you feel it helps you out then that's cool, i mean i'm not against it but to me it has never effected me at all. In fact My friends have commented

"whats with you and dateing models/hot girls, hook me up man"

girls that i've dated / "talked" to have all commented "i wish i was as small as you", but in the end they are with me and i'm with them. I'm pretty sarcastic and somewhat funny i think lol..

but aside that I think i'm pretty much a run of the mill guy trying to find a good girl out of the bunch of duds.

i guess whatever works right?

 

[Lifeforce]

Holy ****, if people isn't motivated to go... no RUN to the gym after reading great after great after great respone maybe they should check if their balls is still attached. Gav, jariel, ben, affliction, siezing, strong like bull your contribution to this thread has made it almost bible worthy. And salute to tempest for taking the step, looking forward to read about your progress.

When you bulk up your body you bulk up your soul too.

Damn ben, then I have become what I hated and loathed before.

 

[jason86]

Originally posted by Jariel
Sure, there has to be a balance between "game" and appearance, but what Lifeforce is saying is true and when you start to look good your "game" will improve instantly.

Take a look at his journal in the health forum for motivation and direction.

However, if you're looking for a quick fix with no effort, this tip is for you:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=61350

lol i like how you put that together, i was actually expecting a nice easy tip on getting big.

 

[ThreeStorms]

Bulking is all fine and good, it already did help me a lot although it is still a long way to go towards my goal.
However, please, and this goes to every guy out there, don't become one of those strange creatures I see so often in the clubs. They look good, have the best bodies, and what do they make out of it? They're standing in one corner all night, eyeing the crowd, not having any fun, waiting for a woman to come and talk to them (it doesn't happen) .... while the others with less perfect bodies (like me) are having a blast on the dancefloor, flirting, touching....

 

[jonny football hero]

Originally posted by christz
i'm gonna speak in favor of check_mate You don't need to work out get bulked up and be ripped to get a hot girl, I've never had problems getting attractive women, at bars, clubs, work or college.

and i'm 5'7 115-120 pounds. I can show you a picture of me i suppose i have above average looks, not by what i say but what other females say and friends of mine.

on that note i've had girls choose me or stay with me over guys that are ripped.. so what i say must speak some truth.

I'm not arguing that you need to be bulked to get women. however Check_mate has had no women yet. So how can he comment on the effectivness of tips by people who have?

 

[christz]

Originally posted by Lifeforce
Holy ****, if people isn't motivated to go... no RUN to the gym after reading great after great after great respone maybe they should check if their balls is still attached. Gav, jariel, ben, affliction, siezing, strong like bull your contribution to this thread has made it almost bible worthy. And salute to tempest for taking the step, looking forward to read about your progress.

When you bulk up your body you bulk up your soul too.

Damn ben, then I have become what I hated and loathed before.

feeling like in order to get women you HAVE to bulk up otherwise no women will ever notice you.. is signs that your compensating for something.

lack of self esteem comes from the inside not the outside. If a girl don't like you for what you got to offer rather a fake image you try and pull off, Then she's not worth the time.

I've been with plenty of attractive women, in fact i only go for attractive women whenever i'm on the "prowl" and like i said 90% of the time i get what i seek. I'm still a little shy so that's why it takes a little longer than it should but regaurdless i get what i want in a girl.

and like i said i'm 5'7 115 - 120 pounds. And i have never had a problem getting a girl yet.

 

[Lifeforce]

You have said so now in every ****ing reply christz. I do not look good, I am average at best and BB is my way to get women attracted to me sexually before I talk to them. I use no technque only my personality.

The same overcompensating applies for all those guys trying to find the best technique. They are the ones putting up a fake image, not I. In the beginning bb was to attract females, now it is to compete against myself as well, I want to be the strongest and baddest mother****er around. How does a good body project a fake image? Your reasoning is way off. Are you fake just because you dress in a way you think you will look most attractive, are you fake if you do a haircut in which you think you look good? Hell no, why should you be fake if you train so you look more attractive.

Unlike you I have had problems getting a girl before, a huge deal of problems so I haven't had the same smooth sailing as you do. I am true to myself at all tímes so don't give me that crap. BB help me in all areas of my life, it gives me energy, ambition, women, the lots. Therefore I recommend it to anyone, especially skinnyguys because it will change your perspective so much you will not recognize anything afterwards. You will discover you have lived in a webb of lies.

 

[DJBen]

"lack of self esteem comes from the inside not the outside. If a girl don't like you for what you got to offer rather a fake image you try and pull off, Then she's not worth the time."

Untrue. You'd hit on the hottest girl in a group, not one that looks out of shape.

BB'ing isnt about getting girls. Most people get hooked on lifting heavier weight, making a PB, putting size on their arms... They feel good about it. More testosterone, your attitude changes..

Then you start to realise you're stronger than the average guy. Hell, after going grip-specific training, I realised gripping a huge saucepan full of water was easy. I could turn it any way I wanted, in any direction... my mate could hardly pick it up with just one hand - he used to be the strongest guy I knew.

It's the power. It's the new outlook on life. It's getting out of bed in the morning feeling awesome about the day to come - even if you have an exams. You'll do the exam and you'll do it WILLINGLY to prove how clever you are.

It all has a knock on effect on confidence with women, but hell, when you start to look good - you get looks from women anyway! It just mounts up into a huge pile of.... awesomeness.

Thats all there is to it.

[Note: You wont know what it's like until you start training. You're lighting up the primevil desire in her... the one that wants to get fvcked silly by a dominant male. No c+f, no NLP, no wittylines or any of that **** can do this... it's in the way you look, the way you walk, the way you talk. And you cant fake it]]

 

[Double]

I want to add a different perspective.

Almost everybody beliefs that thougths influence emotions and emotions influence actions/bodyposture. i believe that TOO. a great new article that describes how your inner beliefs, your imaginations, your inner talking influences your emotions/actions/life is http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=61781
I find that kind of stuff interesting and i believe it helps becomming the man you want to be. BUT for myself it's somehow too abstract. yes you can say i like me, i am the best, ...... everyday 100times. yes you can concentrate on your thoughts to keep them positive.

but i like the reversed way more. the body influences our emotions, and our emotions influences our thoughts. SO, with working out you WILL change your negative beliefs into positive beliefs. because of more muscle mass/testosterone you will FEEL more confident, and because you will feel more confident you will THINK more confident.
I like the way of working out so much because it gives me FEEDBACK because i can SEE and TOUCH my progresses. changing your thoughts is an inner process, so i cant see my progresses so clearly as with working out!

 

[misterethoughts]

Hey, I just have to say that looks nor body type really don't matter... To get women it's all about confidence...

 

[gav]

Originally posted by misterethoughts
Hey, I just have to say that looks nor body type really don't matter... To get women it's all about confidence...

please tell me you're kidding. read the above responses

 

[kel]

I think I took the original post the wrong way.

I actually do agree in a roundabout way. I notice a very distinct difference in my game based on how I feel about myself. Last night I felt like I was great and looked great. Tonight I felt like I looked mediocre.

Last night I had at least 5 girls competing for me.

Tonight I barely had one.

Working out really makes you feel good about yourself. Looking good makes you feel good about yourself. I find that being in shape is basically the same as having social proof. People just assume that you're good with women if you're in great shape, so it works out in the end.

I'm still working on that whole "being fit" kind of thing though ;0

-kel

 

[That_Guy49]

well, how in the hell are you gonna attract anything if you look like Jabba the Hut or LeRoy the local methhead?


Man, iyou've got to have a little bit of both(personality and looks).

You can most definately make yourself a hell of a lot better looking with some worjk. And That work will give you confidence. HARD WORK PAYS OFF!!

The healthier you look the more fertile you look..ya dig?

 

[Lifeforce]

Bump

 

[shrewd]

it's all true. He's not saying that bbing will will automatically get you women, but that it'll improve your chances signifigantly. Before i started lifting i was 130 pounds, timid, picked on, ridiculed, derided by females. Basically i felt like **** everyday and i dreaded getting out of bed. Now it's the exact opposite, all i had to do was make my muscles bigger. Sure i may not have the prettiest face but atleast there's something about my body that i can be proud of. It's the combination of attitude and muscles that results in success, not just muscles, and since working out creates the attitude, there's little that can go wrong with bodybuilding.

 

[Synthesize]

Yeah, bodybuilding does tons. It has changed my life. I would not be the alpha I consider myself to be today without bodybuilding.

 

[Lifeforce]

Shrewd, I can relate to that. It's amazing having something to be proud off, something you've built up yourself and something that is a proof off your dedication.

Synthesize: dito!


I haven't met a single person who have done serious efforts in bodybuilding who has not changed his or her life around almost completly. I can see the difference in the face off my friends who I literally dragged to the gym. A friend off mine looks all cut and has gained 7 kg since beginning, another friend has lost 4 kgs in 6 weeks, another one has just began training intensly... That's just our little gang who work out together. Their attitude has had the biggest change, better self confidence and a happier life.