Simple Cold Approach Conversation Topic Tip

aftershock

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Ask her where she goes out drinking and talk about that for a while. This:

1) Makes you sound like a party guy, which is better than a nice guy or jerk for starters
2) Easy conversation topics to flow into are "what daft things have you done when drunk" etc etc etc
3) If you go to the same place regulary you might see her and even if you don't pull her, you have some sort of social proof with her friends.


This is tried and tested.
 

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good post
 

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I used this one as a conversation piece when doing bootcamp the other week.

It was my first noob/rAFC breakthrough.

I said I had to organise a get together but I was new to the area and where would be a good place to start out? This makes me look like a social guy and an organiser and best of all it was true.

So now I know a few places where the pretty girls go. :cool:
 

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After my divorce, I reattached my nutts and hit one of the downtown clubs best known for college aged women (Which became my demographic).

I headed to the bar, grabbed a Heiny and gauged the crowd. I've been reading posts here for quite awhile before becoming a contributor and knew I had to sac up and find the hottest girl in the place and make my move. Spotted a really cute brunette with a girl and a guy (extremely effeminate fellow!) and made my way over to them. They were conversing and having a good time so I introduced myself to the fe-he and the other girl completely ignoring the target. Told them I was knew in town and thought this was a cool place and some other blah chit chat. Body language had me turned slightly away from HB8.5 and I noticed it was having desired effect on her. Out of the blue I grab her arm and pull her away from the other two and ask her what other places around here I could find omen as bashful as she? She tries to play coy and her gf moved in to c0ckblock. I turned and asked if she and HB8.5 could hold hands and rub each other while we talked if it made her feel better. HB8.5 gave gf the nod to give us some space and gave me a coupla' places to hit up. Told her I was bored and was heading out to try and find some fun girls. HB8.5 then moves into qualifying with " You saying I'm not fun?" I snapped back with "You're ok and the pimple on your cheek really brings out the color in your eyes." The look on her face was absolutely priceless . . .

I thanked them for thier time and wished them luck or some kinda nonsense, I dunno? Downed my beer and turned on my heel headed out. I get about 10 feet away and HB8.5 is on my arm asking if she can come with? I give her the over the shoulder up and down look and slyly tell her I didn't think she was quite up for it but I'd allow her to give me her email and I'd get with her another time. She runs to the bar gets pen and on the back of a reciept gives me her email addy and phone numbers.

Using what has become standard in my repertoir, I pointed to my cheek and said "kiss goodbye . . ." She kisses both cheeks and biting her bottom lip says she'll be waiting for me to call her.


This has helped me in every way as a man and budding DJ.

Interesting sidenote: I went back to said downtown hotspot a month or so later with a couple of buddies and word had gotten
around , I assume from HB8.5, How different I was than the other guys in the place. Number closed two other college girls from FSC and never looked back. And my buddies were stunned totally at my metamorphosis was another bonus. Moved my status up the ladder.

Didn't expect this to become a rant or FR but I guess it is.


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