I noticed this and have tried it especially with younger women, they purposedly trying to cause fights and when I respond in a more agressively tone they seem to get turned on by it.
Its not about turning them in or off, it’s about respecting yourself and letting her know you wont tolerate bs. Can’t advise a man what to do or not do when they get respected, some men walk away and go no contact, others call them out on it.
Personally, I will crush a girl until she cries if she shows disrespect. If she does something drastic, I will ghost.
Bottom line, do it for yourself. Don’t do it for her.