signals from a sunshine girl

[itdoesmatter]

hi,

i have been hanging out briefly with a sunshine girl (VERY extroverted girl) for 2 months.

I am in college btw, and I have great social proof so I could hardly spare time with her and her clique which consists of 2 AFC males (my frens) who are clinging to her and her best friend.

We all know it is virtually impossible to analyse a sunshine girl because she treats all guys almost the same. recent incidents have baffled me so I need your help "decoding" her.

- she compliments me alot ... quote : "I wish we all went swimming so we could see <me>'s bod"
she also complimented my looks. (such compliments are exculsive to me ... i got this info from her best friend)
she wondered how many chicks I have made out with

- recently, I made my interest in her a little obvious. prior to this I was cool and let her make all the effort to get to know me.

this is where the strange part comes in:

- she keeps looking at me a the corner of her eyes and when I look at her she looks away

- when I was at the same table as her with a grp of friends ... she didnt not look at my directly but kept her head down, moving her eyes up to steal some glances and looked down again

- she is deliberately flirting with my friends, even my close friends!

question : what is she trying to do? is she chasing me away or what?

 

[Knicknack]

use some kino on her and see how she responds. lightly hug her waist sometime and see if she likes it. she sounds like she is interested in you, but getting tired of you not making a move.

 

[Doppler4000]

First of all 2 months is not briefly. Second, if you can't figure out what her deal is by being there in person, how are we gonna do it with a few lines you typed out? If you like this chick then you've got to simply ask her out and make sure she understands it's a date and not hanging out as pals. See what she says. If she agrees, you're set. If she throws a bunch of excuses your way she's not interested. Remember, she's a sunshine girl so you've got to watch actions and not words. Do you get the date or not?? Otherwise you're gonna sit there and anyalyze things until some other dude comes along and gets her.

 

[Eternal]

Umm...itdoesmatter...All those signs are GOOD. Her looking down/away = submissive. Flirting with your friends = Trying to make you jealous. Ask her out. She's giving you signs.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Agree---prove up time here. Be confident and bold. Ask her out. See how she responds. If she can't handle it or flakes or evades, shrug your shoulders and next her. LJBF her in your mind. My guess is that she wants you and is getting nervous around you.