Sigh.... I finally give up.

[ElStud]

I've finally given up on all this approaching, PUA stuff. As in, I'm done "looking" for girls to approach. I mean, if I'm just on my way doing my own thing and I see a chick, I'll approach, but I'm just done "looking" for sets. I'm done going out with the sole intention of "approaching".

Why? Because it takes forever to find an attractive girl, that's "approachable". I could literally sit in my colleges cafeteria thing for HOURS and not see any sets that are approachable, with attractive women. And I'm not going to approach women I'm not attracted to.

Now there are some group sets, but I honestly don't care about that bullcrap. I won't approach groups simply because, I have NO INTEREST in her friends, I'm only interested in her. And I'm not going to go through all that work of isolating a chick.

In the rare occurrence that you DO find a good set; chick is boring as hell.

In the end, I'm done trying to force this sh*t. I'm done going about and worrying about finding sets basically. That's boring as hell.

I'm basically just gonna do my thing and if I happen to see a chick along the way, I'll approaching. But I'm done going around "searching" for good sets and crap.

 

[Iceberg]

Your last thread was about giving up. In fact, I think you spent much of the last year giving up.

When I gave up on painting class, I didn't make several announcements about giving up. I just left.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

I've finally given up on all this approaching, PUA stuff. As in, I'm done "looking" for girls to approach. I mean, if I'm just on my way doing my own thing and I see a chick, I'll approach, but I'm just done "looking" for sets. I'm done going out with the sole intention of "approaching".

Why? Because it takes forever to find an attractive girl, that's "approachable". I could literally sit in my colleges cafeteria thing for HOURS and not see any sets that are approachable, with attractive women. And I'm not going to approach women I'm not attracted to.

Now there are some group sets, but I honestly don't care about that bullcrap. I won't approach groups simply because, I have NO INTEREST in her friends, I'm only interested in her. And I'm not going to go through all that work of isolating a chick.

In the rare occurrence that you DO find a good set; chick is boring as hell.You often see in others, what you fear in yourself.
In the end, I'm done trying to force this sh*t. I'm done going about and worrying about finding sets basically. That's boring as hell.

I'm basically just gonna do my thing and if I happen to see a chick along the way, I'll approaching. But I'm done going around "searching" for good sets and crap.

You're assuming that this site is still about lines and PUA ****? The DJ definition is clearly that you should evolve as a person and have your own values; not some fake pick-up persona.
I think you've just been thru this with the wrong mindset the whole time.
Keep on doing your own thing. Be yourself, have fun, be social and meet women.
I also think you have either too high standards or make excuses because you're afraid to approach.

I really hope it goes well for you, good luck.

 

[women haze]

ElStud??? More like ElDud LOL

Am I rite?

 

[I'm in the Mood]

I've finally given up on all this approaching, PUA stuff. As in, I'm done "looking" for girls to approach. I mean, if I'm just on my way doing my own thing and I see a chick, I'll approach, but I'm just done "looking" for sets. I'm done going out with the sole intention of "approaching".

Why? Because it takes forever to find an attractive girl, that's "approachable". I could literally sit in my colleges cafeteria thing for HOURS and not see any sets that are approachable, with attractive women. And I'm not going to approach women I'm not attracted to.

Now there are some group sets, but I honestly don't care about that bullcrap. I won't approach groups simply because, I have NO INTEREST in her friends, I'm only interested in her. And I'm not going to go through all that work of isolating a chick.

In the rare occurrence that you DO find a good set; chick is boring as hell.

In the end, I'm done trying to force this sh*t. I'm done going about and worrying about finding sets basically. That's boring as hell.

I'm basically just gonna do my thing and if I happen to see a chick along the way, I'll approaching. But I'm done going around "searching" for good sets and crap.

Every man has a kind of girl that he knows he likes. What kind of girls do you like to be around? Then, find out where you can find this type of girl.

I think that you would be much happier if you made the transformation from a PUA to a natural. Consider doing that, man.

You should also start posting on other forums than Sosuave if you don't already. With SS, you get a totally mixed bag of responses, and honestly you seem to have a lot of haters here.

Maybe it's time to explore new frontiers...

 

[Credos]

Am I rite?

:crackup: Lol... The "am I rite" really finishes it off ... Like if nobodies laughing but you still ask for confirmation, then even less people laugh.

made me think of this movie I saw when I was a kid

 

[Craig Reeves]

I've finally given up on all this approaching, PUA stuff. As in, I'm done "looking" for girls to approach. I mean, if I'm just on my way doing my own thing and I see a chick, I'll approach, but I'm just done "looking" for sets. I'm done going out with the sole intention of "approaching".

Why? Because it takes forever to find an attractive girl, that's "approachable". I could literally sit in my colleges cafeteria thing for HOURS and not see any sets that are approachable, with attractive women. And I'm not going to approach women I'm not attracted to.

Now there are some group sets, but I honestly don't care about that bullcrap. I won't approach groups simply because, I have NO INTEREST in her friends, I'm only interested in her. And I'm not going to go through all that work of isolating a chick.

In the rare occurrence that you DO find a good set; chick is boring as hell.

In the end, I'm done trying to force this sh*t. I'm done going about and worrying about finding sets basically. That's boring as hell.

I'm basically just gonna do my thing and if I happen to see a chick along the way, I'll approaching. But I'm done going around "searching" for good sets and crap.

This sounds to me like you want a girlfriend but you don't want to go through the trouble of getting one. If you want to get better at this game you're going to have to approach sets, even if they're sets you're not initially attracted to. There's just no way around that.

 

[Gray The Prince]

I've been waiting for another ElStud thread!! Lemme go grab my popcorn and a chair, this is gonna be good.

 

[RedZone]

Elstud your really nothing more than an attention *****. If you really wanted to quit you would just leave like iceberg said. Just man the f*** up or don't, but whatever you do stop talking about it and do it!

 

[Alle_Gory]

Why? Because it takes forever to find an attractive girl, that's "approachable". I could literally sit in my colleges cafeteria thing for HOURS and not see any sets that are approachable, with attractive women. And I'm not going to approach women I'm not attracted to.

There's plenty of attractive women around, pitiful excuse.

Now there are some group sets, but I honestly don't care about that bullcrap. I won't approach groups simply because, I have NO INTEREST in her friends, I'm only interested in her. And I'm not going to go through all that work of isolating a chick.

Makes sense. I give you credit for intelligence if you came up with this yourself.

Good. Now do something else. Maybe a career or a passion you want to pursue... something? You've spent a lot of time doing nothing so far.

Your last thread was about giving up. In fact, I think you spent much of the last year giving up.

When I gave up on painting class, I didn't make several announcements about giving up. I just left.

He's an attention wh0re. What did you expect? At least he didn't write up an essay about giving up... again.

 

[Gray The Prince]

ElStud, have you ever thought about advertising your services as pvssy repellent, you could make a decent profit! Guys that get too many women could hire you to scare them away, and who knows MAYBE you'll finally learn something from them. Just sayin.

 

[runner83]

ElStud, have you ever thought about advertising your services as pvssy repellent, you could make a decent profit! Guys that get too many women could hire you to scare them away, and who knows MAYBE you'll finally learn something from them. Just sayin.

Ha ha!

Or alternatively OP could get something meaningful going on in his life, and then he wouldn't give a fvck since he'd be too busy anyway.

Girls can sense he has no life and his favorite hobby is trolling on an internet forum and they run. Who can blame them?

 

[BDDazza]

I've finally given up on all this approaching, PUA stuff. As in, I'm done "looking" for girls to approach. I mean, if I'm just on my way doing my own thing and I see a chick, I'll approach, but I'm just done "looking" for sets. I'm done going out with the sole intention of "approaching".

I came to almost the same realisation a while ago. Going out with the sole intention of picking up is not efficient with your time. In the same time you could be improving yourself as a person physically, mentally or financially. I would recommend that you only do random pick ups if it's spontaneously and there is a obvious opening. When you're out clubbing or partying focus on having fun and forget about picking up (unless there is a obvious opening).

Why? Because it takes forever to find an attractive girl, that's "approachable". I could literally sit in my colleges cafeteria thing for HOURS and not see any sets that are approachable, with attractive women. And I'm not going to approach women I'm not attracted to.

I agree. As I said above it's not the most efficient way to spend your time!

Now there are some group sets, but I honestly don't care about that bullcrap. I won't approach groups simply because, I have NO INTEREST in her friends, I'm only interested in her. And I'm not going to go through all that work of isolating a chick.

I've never been a fan of group sets. If you haven't got a wing just approach 1v1. If you insist on opening groups wait to your target has moved away from her friends, during this opening swoop her away and ignore her friends (not in a rude way).

I'm basically just gonna do my thing and if I happen to see a chick along the way, I'll approaching. But I'm done going around "searching" for good sets and crap.

Stop searching. Nobody said that you have to find random girls. Try online dating, join a social activity that has an abundance of girls in it, that way you don’t need to grind in the streets. You still need to be partially proactive.

I was in the same boat as you a while back. I've made some clear steps to resolve most of my issues. I'm still working on myself. I'm keeping a ebook journal of my progress. Check out my sig or click HERE

 

[Swift Shadow]

ElStud??? More like ElDud LOL

Am I rite?

First time i've actually laughed out loud when reading a post

 

[scribblec]

man wtf are u doing bk here i thought u died or something

or sent to jail...


edit: hows the pokemon sounds working for u btw?

 

[powpow]

youre 21 and you give up? dont be a ***** bro. you still have a ton of time to cultivate your skill.