Recently I met a great looking girl with a great personality as well. I've been on two dates with her and both dates went extremely well. First date was just meetin up at an ice cream place for a little chat, second one was watching fireworks and walking around in the downtown city and just exploring and stuff. Really good chemistry etc.
This girl has a REALLY high interest level in me, which is very obvious to me and she knows i'm aware of this too. We're both really comfortable around each other and some kino didn't seem to bother her at all, didn't make her anxious or anything.
Except I got one problem... For some reason this chick won't hold eye contact with me for more than a second or two. She'll look in my eyes, look down, look again, look down, etc. Seems like some sort of shyness thing but on the other hand she seems really calm, collected, and confident in every other way so I don't really understand... Is she just intimidated or too shy to look me in the eye for a longer than normal period of time? I kind of joked about it and she kind of gave me an "i dont know i just can't" reply. I think she felt a little embarrased or something so I changed the topic.
So to sum it up, everything's great... except she won't hold eye contact. How can I get this girl to ease up a little or something? I'm trying to make her feel comfortable around me and don't understand what i'm missing. I don't see how I can possibly advance in this relationship if she won't even look into my eyes like that
Anyone? Thanks.
This girl has a REALLY high interest level in me, which is very obvious to me and she knows i'm aware of this too. We're both really comfortable around each other and some kino didn't seem to bother her at all, didn't make her anxious or anything.
Except I got one problem... For some reason this chick won't hold eye contact with me for more than a second or two. She'll look in my eyes, look down, look again, look down, etc. Seems like some sort of shyness thing but on the other hand she seems really calm, collected, and confident in every other way so I don't really understand... Is she just intimidated or too shy to look me in the eye for a longer than normal period of time? I kind of joked about it and she kind of gave me an "i dont know i just can't" reply. I think she felt a little embarrased or something so I changed the topic.
So to sum it up, everything's great... except she won't hold eye contact. How can I get this girl to ease up a little or something? I'm trying to make her feel comfortable around me and don't understand what i'm missing. I don't see how I can possibly advance in this relationship if she won't even look into my eyes like that
Anyone? Thanks.