Showing you want to have sex over text ALOT!

[anour]

DJs

Is it bad if i imply that i wanna have sex over text alot? I feel that i come off as very thirsty, numerous dates been ruined because of it.

I would appreciate tips on PROPERLY showing intent whether that be over text or in-person

 

[Zimbabwe]

I feel that i come off as very thirsty,

You answered your own question

 

[anour]

You answered your own question

How can i show it properly, cauze i’m a bit horny tbh

 

[anour]

Y

You have to use push/pull with that. I just did it yesterday for a new plate. It goes…. You give innuendo/IOI -> she’ll give gentle resistance -> agree with her that you’d never do anything on date #x (it’s wayyy too soon for that! How could I respect myself in the morning?????) and you’re a perfect Angel -> change subject/small talk/planning -> back to innuendo/IOI.

This cycle floods her body with dope while confusing her mind with immediate contradictions and mixed signals.

The girl I was with told me multiple times to stop doing things during the date, that she didn’t like certain things, I proceeded to do those very things right in front of her face while her hands were all over me and she was naked on my D within five hours.

You the man

 

[BackInTheGame78]

DJs

Is it bad if i imply that i wanna have sex over text alot? I feel that i come off as very thirsty, numerous dates been ruined because of it.

I would appreciate tips on PROPERLY showing intent whether that be over text or in-person

If you want to have them play along and then ghost you when the date comes then go for it.

 

[devilkingx2]

There's an important balance that must be struck.

You don't want a girl to think you're an out of control horndog that'll fvck anything or assault her or cheat on her constantly. You don't want her to think you're desperate because nobody likes you or only care about using women for sex.

But some amount of sexuality is a good thing. You'll keep yourself out of the friendzone, you'll easily determine who's really interested and who's not (you'll also screen out boring or sex/man hating women).

You also have to know the woman you're talking to. Sexting a religious girl is a bad idea; but if you met a girl in the club and she leaves your sexual comments on read, she just isn't interested.

If you can get a girl to go on an actual date with you using nothing more than just regular flirting, then do that and focus on that.

The only reason to get explicitly sexual is if you can't get her on a date in the short term or if she's so receptive to flirting that you think she's DTF already.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yes. Stop doing that shvt.

 

[zekko]

If you think you come across as thirsty, you probably do. But I knew a guy who texted practically every girl he knew "When are we gonna F---?", and he wasn't hurting for it. Even girls who turned him down seemed to think he was kind of cute, and excused his behavior as "Oh, that's just the way he is". It's about showing congruent behavior, I guess.

 

[devilkingx2]

If you think you come across as thirsty, you probably do. But I knew a guy who texted practically every girl he knew "When are we gonna F---?", and he wasn't hurting for it. Even girls who turned him down seemed to think he was kind of cute, and excused his behavior as "Oh, that's just the way he is". It's about showing congruent behavior, I guess.

The blackpill school of thought would suggest that guy was a Chad (8/10+) and therefore he was so good looking he could do anything he wanted

Classical redpill thinking would suggest that alphas get positive responses to sexualization and betas don't.

I definitely think that coming off as thirsty is a symptom of low attraction in the same way that ugly guys are more likely to get perceived as creepy. (Obviously excluding guys who do actually weird & crazy stuff)

 

[anour]

If you want to have them play along and then ghost you when the date comes then go for it.

Always dropping nuggets of plain truth

 

[anour]

There's an important balance that must be struck.

You don't want a girl to think you're an out of control horndog that'll fvck anything or assault her or cheat on her constantly. You don't want her to think you're desperate because nobody likes you or only care about using women for sex.

But some amount of sexuality is a good thing. You'll keep yourself out of the friendzone, you'll easily determine who's really interested and who's not (you'll also screen out boring or sex/man hating women).

You also have to know the woman you're talking to. Sexting a religious girl is a bad idea; but if you met a girl in the club and she leaves your sexual comments on read, she just isn't interested.

If you can get a girl to go on an actual date with you using nothing more than just regular flirting, then do that and focus on that.

The only reason to get explicitly sexual is if you can't get her on a date in the short term or if she's so receptive to flirting that you think she's DTF already.

Bro you are the man , i like the part where you said texting a girl has to be done in a proper context “knowing whether she is a religious chick or not”

 

[anour]

If you want to have them play along and then ghost you when the date comes then go for it.

Happened to me a few times bruv unbelievable

 

[anour]

H

Yes. Stop doing that shvt.

But if i don’t show it somehow wouldn’t i get friendzoned?

 

[anour]

Why not?

Why would you?

 

[Thebestthereeveris]

DJs

Is it bad if i imply that i wanna have sex over text alot? I feel that i come off as very thirsty, numerous dates been ruined because of it.

I would appreciate tips on PROPERLY showing intent whether that be over text or in-person

if you have a good body and girls message you first it is an easy lay. However like hyou said you can come across thirsty and desperate..

 

[Mike32ct]

Less is more. Too much will make you look needy or, worse, that you are using it as a form of phorn.

 

[devilkingx2]

But if i don’t show it somehow wouldn’t i get friendzoned?

Alpha Male Strategies has a similar opinion to EyeBRollin, that all you should do it show up on the date, look masculine and say the minimum then the girl will do the rest of the work.

In my opinion that's only going to work if you're 6'4, rich and Jacked like AMS.

Happened to me a few times bruv unbelievable

With practice and experience you'll get good at reading women. If she's not actively participating in the sexting, just letting you send her a paragraph of fantasy and replying "oh yeah baby" that's actually not a good sign.

 

[zekko]

The blackpill school of thought would suggest that guy was a Chad (8/10+) and therefore he was so good looking he could do anything he wanted

Classical redpill thinking would suggest that alphas get positive responses to sexualization and betas don't.

I don't think it was really either one, really. He was good looking from what I gather (I'm not the best judge of male looks), better than average I'm sure, but I don't think he was in the top stratosphere. And I don't see him as alpha, because he didn't really have status. Girls seemed to see him as a dumb, horny, but cute and friendly guy. I got the impression 90% of his thinking was about sex, and I guess that worked for him. Plus he was "dating age", early 20s. Not sure how he's going to do when he gets older.