Should you skip a week of dating?

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Hi guys,

As we all know to make a girl crazy about you, you have to be unpredictable.

Most guys advice to see her only 1 time a week, but in the long run this will get predictable. She knows that she has acces to you at least once a week because their is a patron.

What I have been expirementing with is skipping a week to keep her on the edge.
So it goes as follow:
Week 1: date
Week 2: date
Week 3: no date (just saying i am busy or something)
Week 4: date

And repeating this over and over.

What do you guys think? Is this a valid method or just some bull**** and that it is fine to see her each week?
 

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Uhh...why?

If she wants to see you every week (to have you bang her brains out, presumably) why would you want to fake disinterest so she starts shopping elsewhere?

Having a genuine reason for pushing back a visit is one thing, but don't play these games. Most women will want to see you at least once a week to get their rocks off (assuming they aren't seeing other guys to scratch that itch). So if you do this enough times, she will start seeing other people who will make that accommodation.
 

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OPs thread in 2 months will be as folllows:

"I just don't know what happened to her. Everything was going great! "

Don't play games. Do what makes you happy. Bang her every other day of you want or once a week. Whatever makes you happy
 

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It's fine to see her each week. Keep the momentum going.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Stop overthinking and do whatever you want.

The frequency of seeing a chick doesn’t matter because as soon as a dude stops giving her attention for 5 mins she’s off to the next.
 

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These guidelines are for novices with little to no experience with women.
Or rather:
These guidelines are by novices with little to no experience with women.
 

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Hi guys,

As we all know to make a girl crazy about you, you have to be unpredictable.

Most guys advice to see her only 1 time a week, but in the long run this will get predictable. She knows that she has acces to you at least once a week because their is a patron.

What I have been expirementing with is skipping a week to keep her on the edge.
So it goes as follow:
Week 1: date
Week 2: date
Week 3: no date (just saying i am busy or something)
Week 4: date

And repeating this over and over.

What do you guys think? Is this a valid method or just some bull**** and that it is fine to see her each week?
Yes, this is BS.
If she's really interested in you, she'll be happy seeing you more than once a week.
 

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Hi guys,

As we all know to make a girl crazy about you, you have to be unpredictable.

Most guys advice to see her only 1 time a week, but in the long run this will get predictable. She knows that she has acces to you at least once a week because their is a patron.

What I have been expirementing with is skipping a week to keep her on the edge.
So it goes as follow:
Week 1: date
Week 2: date
Week 3: no date (just saying i am busy or something)
Week 4: date

And repeating this over and over.

What do you guys think? Is this a valid method or just some bull**** and that it is fine to see her each week?
The trick is to actually have more in your life other than some broad. If you're ONLY using this as a technique your dishonesty will soon be uncovered
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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As we all know to make a girl crazy about you, you have to be unpredictable.
No, "unpredictable" to you is just another way of saying you have no clue what you're doing right. To make a girl crazy about you, you have to show her the full extent of what you can give to her, but not easily give it to her before she has proven herself worthy of you.

When she knows what she could gain, but you don't give it easily, that's what will drive her crazy about you. You only give her breadcrumbs of it to keep her motivated enough to not give up and consider you "out of her league".
 

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When I was single & dating, I would see my main squeeze 3-5 times a week. Once a week is simply not tolerable.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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