I'm also a 30 y/o virgin. Let's take a look at how practical this advice is.
You are encouraging people to go to Costa-Rica or some place where these cheap 'sex-tours' are going on. But, why not Cancun, Mexico where there are lots of clubs and you could get girls for free as I've seen on another thread as they are in adventerous mood there?
OK That was KJing. I have been to coasta rica but not really on a paid sex safari. If I were a 30 yr old virgin, I probably would though because I'd learn a lot about women that way..and learn not to put them on a pedastool. When negotiating with hookers they pray on the nice guys really badly and take advantage of them, in Del Rey I could spot the guys the women would know where easy targets, because they were just too caring. Many even fell in love with HOOKERs MAN!!!! Some even were sending money to them because the girls said they were going to get married and had stopped hooking. UNREAL that men are so niave sometimes.
My friends had numerous dancers as gfs just hoping some rich shark would rescue them and yet these guys in the blue marlin are paying more for an hour with far uglier girls in most cases than we'd spend on an entire evening with dancers who were given nothing more than false promises, drinks, and meals. The more english they speak, the harder this will be to realize, so one does need to speak minimal Spanish. Most of the english speakers have visited FL or TX as students or have family there.
As far as Cancun goes, I've never been there. I suspect it is crawling with Americans which means it will probably be a very poor place to try PUing the locals. If one were going to pay for sex, then I suspect it would be especially terrible. To be different, you really have to go where fewer Americans go. I talked to several Americans who were marrying Colombian girls. MIA is a good airport to meet guys who have a lot of local knowledge. Tons of flights to/from south american go through there. Of course, I don't think you should put yourself at financial risk of marriage. Those guys were crazy to do that.
Anyway, that's enough about that, clubhombre is a place where guys talk about hookers or scoring with chicks in developing nations. I really don't think anyone capable of using a computer, finding this site, and composing discussions needs to go to that extreme to have a filling sex life.
I am on hotornot myself. Explain to us how to do that.
Search for chicks in South America and send them emails.
I did this a couple years back. I got some translators, tour guides,
and direct lays. South American women are jealous over American guys,
so trying to network at BBQs they invited me to was the one thing that
failed. Most time a chick in South America is more interested than she
lets on. It's common to be invited to a BBQ or some other mini-party
before you can isolate her somehow. Tourism sites and blogs are other
places to find girls like this.
Does not work. Unless you have a really good picture and profile that stands out, then just sending emails out doesn't work. ON pay as you go sites that charge per message, say like lavalife, that would cost like over $ 800 to send 300 messages, $ 800 a day to a dating site?
use free sites, I do except I've also used match.com. It's not that expensive. As far as the photo goes, put some on hotornot and see which ones girls like. Make sure you're smiling. Take some photos with girls in them, even if it's at a club and you don't know them, just say you're telling your friend back in Brisbane how all these american babes are all over you (use australian accent). Cut out excess vertical space above your head so you don't look short.
If you were to send 300 emails, you'd get the worst quality girls if you are lucky, because the content of mass emails would be so watered down that it would lose any effects. Emails have to be thought out, you have to show that you read the person's profile and are not some 'spammer', and with all the time that would take, you'd probably be doing fine to send 12 emails a day.
I've personally done this and I was seeing more than 3 women at the same time as a result. I used Louis and Copelands templates and just changed them around a bit. David M also has default templates where you just create your own template based on your qualities, and then insert one or two blurbs to show you read her profile. This way you can send about 2 emails per minute. I field tested it tonight just to see how many I could send out out of curiosity. I can't meet anyone right now, so how effective it is I can't test at the moment.
Getting laid with ANYONE isn't an answer anyway, you have to feel connected with a girl to some level rather than just do any broad, suppose she has STD's or something.
In all my lays, I have contracted an STD on 2 occasions. Both times it was treatable with anti-biotics. Once the nurse practicioner suspected I also had lyme disease which she claimed needed the same AB, oddly enough. I only used condoms about half the time. STDs are not really a big a problem as many would believe. It's like not driving because you know THAT one or two guys who died from a wreck. Yes, tons of people have wrecks but most aren't deadly. Most STDS also don't take guys out of the game.. you would have to be really unlucky for that to happen.
Anyway - I've tried internet for that and all I got was a FUG. Again, your quick solutions do not work. Getting laid with 50 FUG's or UG'S (<3), I dont think so.
I have laid incredibly hot women this way before.
Sure, if you introduce yourself to 25 women a day, and tell them "Now that we know each other on a first name's basis, do you want to fvck?" hear that works 1 out of 25 woman - but I'm not sure about public places like malls and stuff like that. Likely allot of women would be offended by that line, never tried it personally though.
I have not field tested this either. I find it a poor strategy at best, see below for a better one.
Other than that, the newbie mission seems to just have you go out like a retard saying 'hi' to everyone, like they'll just magically be intrigued - you still have to close them.
Use Mystery's Newbie Mission. Buy the Venusian Arts Handbook... If you really can't afford it, then pirate it for now and buy a copy later to put some good karma back out there.. but no excuses.
If one doesn't like routines, then just use natural convo. I've had better luck with I kept to using only a handful of routines and mostly natural convo in any event.
basically you are saying all this stuff doesn't work that I've already made work for me. I am not rich or especially good looking. All i have is my beliefs and attitude that I will succeed if I use my higher self to put positiveness in my thoughts, attitudes, and treatment of others.
