Should you let her win?
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haha dont let her win man...might start a chain reaction where she wants to win in everything else too. Dont step all over her face with your victory at anything, just be cool and dont loose.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Looks like I didn't do any of that correctly. From the story I told before with the girl I played with and never heard from again, I did everything but dunk in her face and that was because I was partially hurt haha. I'll remember that one next time...
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Some sports are easier than others in this regard. For example, if you go bowling, I would say go all out. Its more of a skill game and people with talent are impressive, in all facets of life.
In like a basketball game, I would stick to trying to rain long jumpers. You don't really want to back her into the post or push her around on the glass, unless you are playing a chick who is a serious player.
I guess the rule should be that if you are going to beat a girl, make it more of a finesse/skill matter and not an exibition of your size/strength/speed advantages.
In like a basketball game, I would stick to trying to rain long jumpers. You don't really want to back her into the post or push her around on the glass, unless you are playing a chick who is a serious player.
I guess the rule should be that if you are going to beat a girl, make it more of a finesse/skill matter and not an exibition of your size/strength/speed advantages.
Bonhomme
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snintel got it
Yeah, that's exactly how to do it: just make it fun. Strange thing is, when I'm playing pool, sometimes the "looseness" makes me play better. One time not long ago, I was playing pool with this one gal, and just pulled off the most amazing shots: extreme English to curve a ball around another that was slightly in the way; jumping over a ball that was blocking my shot, etc. Looked like a fuggin' pro: way, way above my typical game.
But it was all in fun, making jokes about "lucking out," and all that, which made it look even worse, kinda C+F, in a way.
Yeah, that's exactly how to do it: just make it fun. Strange thing is, when I'm playing pool, sometimes the "looseness" makes me play better. One time not long ago, I was playing pool with this one gal, and just pulled off the most amazing shots: extreme English to curve a ball around another that was slightly in the way; jumping over a ball that was blocking my shot, etc. Looked like a fuggin' pro: way, way above my typical game.
But it was all in fun, making jokes about "lucking out," and all that, which made it look even worse, kinda C+F, in a way.
Life-Trainee
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I usually give girl pointers which open doors wide for serious kino! When playing pool, you stand behind her and show her how to hold the cue or what spot on the ball to strike. I usually crack a few C&F jokes like "You're holding it like a mop" or something along those lines. As for winning, this is not a bloody competition! The whole point of the date is to have fun and get to know her as well as initiate kino. I never think "Whoa I should slow down or I might win and make her feel bad"
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I say win normally, but there are few instances where losing can work to your advantage. I always tell girls I am the master at air-hockey... a game based primarily on hitting the puck so many times it eventually goes in, and also a game I really suck at. I keep the game close, but if she wins, I let her know that it was legit (even if it wasn't) and use it as an ongoing thread in our conversations. I play kindof irritated that I was beat by a girl, but she is always smiling and teasing me. It is like giving her ammo to give you crap about as you will always be teasing her. It gives her a default if she is uncreative. It also allows you to tackle her and tickle/whatever after she "insults" you on beating you. Can break the touch berrier quickly if it hasn't been done before. Eventually I say that air-hockey is the only thing she is good at, to which I usually get tongue raped. The rest is behind closed doors. My two cent, keep the change.
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allow your enemy to think they are winning and when you are assured of completely your abilities, you crush them at the first sign of their overconfidence!!!