I have a friend who was in the deep "friend zone" with a female and had sex with her. This happened on a night that she was extremely drunk (to the point of throwing up) and she later regretted it and they stopped talking for a while.
They had been friends for many years (and he had been trying for many years and hanging out on a daily basis for many years) and its seemed totally platonic on her part atleast. She even referred to him as "brother like". He told me that it almost cost the friendship. I have two questions concerning this.
1.) does this violate the sacred notion that many men like anti dump (and myself) live by. That you cant generate attraction by being friends. And that its unlikely that your going to hook up with a girl that u are friend zoned by and that its better to move on?
2.) Or is this what i think it is which is the rare case that it is. I told him you can hook up a girl if its the right time right place/ stars aligned just right type of thing but that doesn't mean she likes you.
They had been friends for many years (and he had been trying for many years and hanging out on a daily basis for many years) and its seemed totally platonic on her part atleast. She even referred to him as "brother like". He told me that it almost cost the friendship. I have two questions concerning this.
1.) does this violate the sacred notion that many men like anti dump (and myself) live by. That you cant generate attraction by being friends. And that its unlikely that your going to hook up with a girl that u are friend zoned by and that its better to move on?
2.) Or is this what i think it is which is the rare case that it is. I told him you can hook up a girl if its the right time right place/ stars aligned just right type of thing but that doesn't mean she likes you.