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Should we recalibrate our look scale when it comes of women in 2019?

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Forget looks, he should do the same scale based on mental health. I'd wager there are far fewer mentally healthy females out there than there are attractive ones. Good luck finding someone who isnt some combination of bitter, delusional, narcissistic, bi-polar, or just downright bat **** crazy these days.
 

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Forget looks, he should do the same scale based on mental health. I'd wager there are far fewer mentally healthy females out there than there are attractive ones. Good luck finding someone who isnt some combination of bitter, delusional, narcissistic, bi-polar, or just downright bat **** crazy these days.
The 1-10 rating scale is some nerd sht. Either shes hot or shes not. Either fukkable or not.
 

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Men are typically as overweight as women or more so in most of the world, they don't take care of their appearance either with dermatologic treatments (like microneedling etc) and routine, good diet, not smoking or drinking (drinking will fvck your male hormones up), exercise, anti-balding treatment, good posture, decent clothes and whatever else. I don't buy the "gender war" dynamic, because the average man is about as attractive as the average woman in these regards. This to me means his "point" is for naught, unless we are talking about areas where the gender ratio or whatever is so awful that there is an observable difference in each genders' average attractiveness comparing by traits like I just listed (but you would have to make certain adjustments, like anti-balding treatment could be compared to women who keep their hair long).

Also, the stupid HB 1-10 rating "system" makes me want to quit the internet every time I see it used consistently and unreservedly - probably by the same guys who would resolutely assert they are geniuses. You can't compare one man's 5 to another man's 5 or whatever, because the scale is both subjective to each man and what the criteria for that subjective rating is is nearly always undefined. You would be kicked out faster than you can say "HB" if you used the HB 1-10 scale as a professional statistical method, F on your thesis. Why should we use it here? If that's not bad enough, there is also the phenomenon of illusory superiority which has been measured in how people rate themselves, and that's why everyone on the internet will say they are at least a 7 and so are the girls they claim to be having sex with. Of course, like I just said, what a 7 actually is is undefined anyway.

There is a risk that the same guys who will be agreeing with that guy, are the ones who themselves are out of shape, not doing anything about balding, don't treat their skin, dress in a grey tshirt and jeans, don't floss or clean their tongue, sit on their @ss all day chugging beer with a poor posture, and have neurotic feelings about women. All the while considering themselves a "7". I don't want to risk sorting myself into the same category as those kinds of people.

/"Angry hater"
 
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Obviously guys won’t say no to top actresses and models, but when they live in reality, all that matters is if they are attracted to the girl. Some guys are more attracted to 34 year olds than 22 year old virgins.

All depends.
 

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Well I think it's really just a shortcut point of reference. If I'm talking about a seven that's my seven. I.e. she can get me hard enough. the entitled Euro princesses is why I voted with my d1ck and got onboard the yellow tuna bus. my love life has been much easier and happier ever since.

This chick was swishing her skirt and hair around in the lift the other day I gave her one glance and then ignored her. You could see she wanted to play the look at me I'm so hot and now I give you the death stare for looking game.

Typical modern girl. Young but with a big fat ass thin hair and a little belly. Bottle blonde and I d bet my life on there being a tramp stamp and a few other tatts. Quite well presented basically a 5 who was dressed up enough to be a 6 and thought that she was a stone cold nine.

Not worth listening to long enough to get her undressed.
 

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Forget looks, he should do the same scale based on mental health. I'd wager there are far fewer mentally healthy females out there than there are attractive ones. Good luck finding someone who isnt some combination of bitter, delusional, narcissistic, bi-polar, or just downright bat **** crazy these days.
i would honestly say less than 2% of women out there on the market today are completely mentally healthy.
 

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Whenever I see pictures of 9s and 10s on pickup/red pill blogs, they always look vapid and uninteresting to me. That's not to say they don't look beautiful. Maybe it's because they're always model pics with vacant looks in their eyes. But I've seen 'em on the streets of Manhattan, too, this type of woman. While I wouldn't turn down an easy lay with one, they're just not my go-to.

I'm not saying I don't like 9s and 10s overall, but the "type" that PUAs etc. hold up as examples. (Edit, sometimes I wonder if this is social conditioning among these guys. "This is what I've been programmed to believe is attractive and I can't appear to have less game than the next dude.")

I guess if I were using a scale I'm a 6-8 type, the cute girl with charm who can look hot in the right clothes. But I've never approached a girl thinking, "wow, she's a [number]." I just follow the boner. It always knows!
Aside from the fact I prefer big girls and so I can't use the number scale in the same way most guys do anyway (nor am I obsessed with white blondes), I totally agree with this also about what you describe as a vapid and uninteresting look that amateur and professional posers have. I would add that they look outright narcissistic when they don't even make eye contact with the camera while doing a pretentious, vain pose. Feels like looking at a lifeless android, animated only by narcissism. A repellent turnoff.

And this is all the more proof that the stupid 1-10 HB scale is just BS. There are women you personally don't want, women you personally can fvck, and women you personally can have a relationship with. A scale of 1-3 like that which is defined as subjective to each man would actually make sense.
 
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Most of the posters on sosuave only fvck literal 9s and 10s, so this shouldn't be an issue :rofl:
Well they had those girls making move on them and bombing their phone as they remind us 24/7, cant really blame those guys for finally giving in.
 

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