Should we be masculine all the time?

[nelysses]

Thats not necesarily a bad thing because most modern women are not LTR/Marriage material. Better stay available for if you happen to meet one that is worthy of exclusivity

I know but my masturbation is too much right now. So actually this is worse I think.
Or may be I'm overthink too much about that so it causes masturbating too much. I don't know.

I just can truely say When I msaturbate I say "fck love, I just wanna chick" but If I don't mast. it's like "I wanna love someone.."
I don't know

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I was almost certain to be the last living man to practice this form of etiquette. Women (particularly of culture) really seem to appreciate, if not expect it.

So far, I've had two that acted resentful. I'm sure that it comes as no surprise to anyone that they were the most 'self-centered' in the bedroom.

my GF is a ‘girly girl’. She just assumes I’ll do stuff like order for her and open doors. She
acts hyperfeminine and helpless around me (though I know it is, at least in part, an act).

 

[Michael Chief]

Real masculinity is an authentic expression. Maybe you feel like you're just acting when you try to conform to societal standards of outward masculine expression, but if that's not you, just stop it.

If you follow your mission in life, your calling, your passion, and if you consistently stand up for what you believe in, and if you inspire others through such leadership, that is true masculinity. And you won't be able to turn it off. And women will constantly need to change their panties when they're around you.

 

[nelysses]

Real masculinity is an authentic expression. Maybe you feel like you're just acting when you try to conform to societal standards of outward masculine expression, but if that's not you, just stop it.

If you follow your mission in life, your calling, your passion, and if you consistently stand up for what you believe in, and if you inspire others through such leadership, that is true masculinity. And you won't be able to turn it off. And women will constantly need to change their panties when they're around you.

Yes this is the thing I try to tell.
I try to be masculine It's like I'm acting.
Actually I'm not feminine. My problem is just about silence and being a small kid sometimes. A boy, not a man. I like talking and laughing too much. A loud laugh

 

[nelysses]

Normally I was ok with that but a girl rejected ne politely and said me "Masculanity opens every door with girls but If you aren't don't act like that"
So I think I should be more masculine but I don't know how. Also I don't know How masculine I am?
I'm in a small town for university and not flirting for months, maybe years..
It's very sad that university goes like this But at least I will be a doctor in 4 years

 

[Michael Chief]

In your case, hit the gym, get swole, and it won't matter what you act like

 

[Bokanovsky]

First of all sorry for my bad english.
I do all of them.
It looks I don't know what is masculanity.
When I say masculine I just think like the guys don't speak, like mafia or bad ass men. No smiling, no talking too much etc.
So it looks my problem isn't masculanity. I just don't know what is it.

When I be myself people say I'm talking too much, I'm laughing every time etc.
One I'm talking with a girl on Instagram and She said me You messaging me every time..
Also The other Woman rejected me and said "I don't have these feelings to you" and also told me "maculanity opens every lock"
So It looks I have to fix something with me like talking tooo much.
I'm behaving like in a comedy show. People laugh but doesn't respect me or doesn't have attention.

Can you please suggest some sources about that, about being masculine.

If people tell you that you talk too much, it’s probably true. Perhaps you come across as someone who is constantly seeking approval of others. That’s not an attractive quality.