Should I txt her before the date (as a worm up?)

[Pr0lab]

Should I txt her before the date (as a worm up?)
I talked to her on Wed. the date is over the weekend

 

[Nutz]

Earlier in the date you have the D2 planned text her the following:

"Hey, I'll be about 5 minutes late. Is that okay?"

If she's going to flake she'll latch onto this as her opportunity to flake. If she says it's okay then it's a fair bet she'll show up.

Another method I've learned is:

"I'm got a couple errands to run. Text me when you're on your way and I'll meet you blah blah blah."

If they text you they're on their way then the date is still a go. If not, then do something else. If they don't text and do show then it's their own fault for not texting you like they were supposed to.

Either method will significantly reduce the time wasted dealing with flakes.

 

[Pr0lab]

she actually a friend of a friend.
I believe it's not gonna be a flake, I want to txt to just worm her up, something like "can't wait for this day to be over! how is yours"
What d you think?

 

[omega05]

Warm not worm

 

[davewe]

Should I txt her before the date (as a worm up?)
I talked to her on Wed. the date is over the weekend

You definitely wanna get that worm up before the date.

 

[Pr0lab]

You definitely wanna get that worm up before the date.

ye I ment warm
There are ****y funny phrases that you guys can suggest ?

 

[Deniska]

she actually a friend of a friend.
I believe it's not gonna be a flake, I want to txt to just worm her up, something like "can't wait for this day to be over! how is yours"
What d you think?

This message can be translated in a wrong way. As in; "i cant wait till our date is over, so i can do other things instead of hanging out with you".

And by asking her "how was her day", will possibly go in to a long txt swapping convo about how your and her day was. So save the questions for when you meet her.


Just say; "i'm on my way, see you in 20min". Its to the point, simple and shows that you are responsible.

 

[Pr0lab]

I think is great !!!
anything else???
and another thing she is always seems to be busy, and I don't know what to say and not come-up as a woos that says 'yes at your earliest convenience'
any suggestions ?

 

[phenomenom]

text her, "Hey can you promise me one thing for our date?"
she'll reply either, "wat?" or "lol wat?" (second one shows a lil more interest)
say, "promise to behave "
then take it from there. Try to end it after the second text, don't keep texting back and forth!

On your actual date, you can talk about how girls behave bad, how they're brats, etc.

 

[Allurre]

Yes, you can 'worm' up before by light bantering.

Keep the anticipation level high towards the first date. You want her to look forward to it.

 

[Julian]

Are there ****y/funny phrases we can suggest? LOL dude are you a robot? Want us to input a hard drive full of different things you can automatically spew out during your date? Just go with the flow brah, talk with her like a normal person, she is a human being with a lifetime of experiences and so are you..enjoy the time and spit some game at her. Be honey to her ears. Dont be a cornball.

Keep us posted brah.

 

[Pr0lab]

So this is the situation ...
She claims she has no time because of school, she sends txts and says sorry I can do it blah blah blah... the school is 2hr away so it's not an option to go on a date to her campus and she doesn't come back home often. but this is her last semester. so I am thinking to write something like "was nice to meet you. It was a bad idea to ask you out before school starts and I am also have no time now. I still think you're an interesting person to get to know.
but when fall semester ends you gonna take me out for a coffee for all the troubles "
On one hand she seams to be interested in the date but on the other she goes running(facebook) as opposed to go out with me

How is that? I just have no power in this situation at all, so I try to maneuver as much as I can to give it a chance when she's back.

 

[Nutz]

So this is the situation ...
She claims she has no time because of school, she sends txts and says sorry I can do it blah blah blah... the school is 2hr away so it's not an option to go on a date to her campus and she doesn't come back home often. but this is her last semester. so I am thinking to write something like "was nice to meet you. It was a bad idea to ask you out before school starts and I am also have no time now. I still think you're an interesting person to get to know.
but when fall semester ends you gonna take me out for a coffee for all the troubles "
On one hand she seams to be interested in the date but on the other she goes running(facebook) as opposed to go out with me

How is that? I just have no power in this situation at all, so I try to maneuver as much as I can to give it a chance when she's back.

I'd say that's a bad way to frame the text. It'll put her on the defensive. It's hard to say if she's really interested though. One one hand if a woman wants to date you she'll take roadblocks out of the way, not put them up. And it sounds as if she's hiding behind the logistics so she doesn't have to date you instead of working to overcome them. On the other hand she did offer up alternatives, so that's a VERY good sign. I'd say try to find a middle ground, stick it out for the semester, then see where things stand.

 

[Pr0lab]

Well the problem we talked over the phone and she said if you want to meet I can do it now, and I was on my way home towards the location where she were, this was last week.

 

[jj123]

nah id wait til the date